When it comes to the word "suffering", many of us may be afraid to avoid it. Who doesn’t want their life to be smooth and sweet? But if you look at it in real life, among your colleagues, in the building you are in, who doesn’t smoke, and who doesn’t suffer in your life.
Suffering is the norm in life. Children must suffer the hardships of learning when they go to school. When you start a family and start a career, you have to go through the hard work. When children grow up, they have to face the pain of aging. The reason why everyone's life is different is that the bitterness is more or less. Some people will make fun of suffering, while others will only complain.
If you suffer, we always think about why we suffer. Otherwise, life will be like this, and when will it take forever to come forward. In life, I am afraid that I only care about lowering my head to pull the cart and looking up at the road. After suffering, we must always be sober and summarize our life experience. In fact, life is a big topic, society is a big classroom, and when we observe the life trajectory of ourselves and others, we will get a lot of thoughts from it. After living for half a lifetime, one should always have some enlightenment.
One filial elders have many blessings
Let’s go to real life to observe. Those who are very filial to their parents and respect their elders at home often have more peaceful colors in their lives. Many years ago, I read such a touching story in the book: There is a big boss with a very successful career. No matter where he goes to discuss business, he will take his elderly mother with him wherever he goes to a meeting, take a plane and take a train. Later, someone was puzzled and asked him why he didn't bother. This boss explained: After the Tangshan earthquake , my mother became his only relative, so he regarded it as a treasure. In order to allow his mother to enjoy a rich life, he worked extra hard and finally achieved success in his career.
We can also observe that the reason why some people suffer is actually related to being unfilial and disrespectful to their elders, because they do not take the elderly seriously at all, and what the elderly say is like the wind in their ears. In fact, although what people say in the older generation is simple, what they say is summarized through the experience of life, so we often say: If you don’t listen to the elderly, you will suffer a loss in front of you. The parents and elders in the family are Bodhisattvas who bless us with peace and health.
2. Help others have more luck
. If we want things to go smoothly, we need to have good luck. Where does good luck come from? In fact, we need to have a good relationship with people. If we have a good relationship with people, we will have more noble people to help us. I remember when I was young, my father was the only one at home to work and earn money to support the family. My brother and I were both in school. It was the time when we needed to spend money, and the family was living a tight life. But my father is a very enthusiastic and honest person. When he sees others in a hurry to travel, he will take it for a while. If a relative in his hometown asks him to help him with something, he will always do his best to do it. When he arrived at the unit, his father was meticulous in his work, so others praised him for his integrity and honesty. When the most difficult time at home, a government leader took a fancy to my father's serious work, so he directly transferred his father's work to the government department. His father's work unit was better, and the family finally became more stable. So when I was young and in those hard times, I realized from my father that helping others can help others.
Three reading and learning wisdom
In fact, how much hardship a person suffers in his life still has a lot to do with how much he reads and learns. Because we read more books, the more life principles we learn from books, the more experience we have. Or if a person can go to this society to experience and experience a lot of things, he will also summarize a lot of experience. Book experience and social experience are both valuable costs in our life. Of course, in comparison, going to society to endure hardships and gaining experience is high and the experience is profound. Why, now we all pay special attention to education, so that children should read more, and suffer some of the hardships in reading while studying, and then there will be less pains in other aspects in the future.How much suffering is related to wisdom. Without wisdom, there will be more suffering and less happiness. Therefore, reading more is to increase our wisdom and let our lives stand high and see far, so that we can avoid some of the reefs and dangerous shoals of life.
Four, no greed or angry, smoothly
You should not be greedy or have jealousy and resentment towards others. There are many obstacles when doing things in a bad mood. In fact, everything outside of us is a projection of our inner self. Greed is a sense of lack of heart. The more greedy a person is, the more he is, the more he is poor. Those who are jealous and always have some resistance and rejection towards others are actually not much better than those who look like themselves, but appearance is born from the heart. There is such a wonderful story that explains this truth. A puppy accidentally broke into a room surrounded by glass mirrors. This scared the puppy. Seeing that it was surrounded by dogs, the puppy pretended to be very strong and barked at the dog in the mirror. The dog in the mirror also barked and jumped. The puppy was so scared. If this puppy saw other dogs just shook their tails friendly, the puppy in the mirror was also friendly to it. So in the end, we will give feedback to ourselves whatever we treat others. Therefore, when we suffer, we must think quietly and not let our suffering be wasted. Take the current epidemic as an example. Many businesses are in a downturn, but there are still people who can still seize the business opportunities. Both clothing stores are facing closures at the same time, and the female boss of a family will only lament that the current business is really difficult. Another female boss spent a month learning how to do online live broadcasts, so she moved the business online, so she still had a lot of bonuses every month. So when facing difficulties, we need to think and find ways to get rid of difficulties.
When we suffer in our lives, we should always think and be clear. An adult with a family and a child should turn his hardships into experience to tell his children. At the same time, as children and younger generations, we should also draw more wisdom on how to endure hardships and how to overcome hardships from the life experiences of our elders from the books.
How much suffering is related to wisdom. Without wisdom, there will be more suffering and less happiness. Therefore, reading more is to increase our wisdom and let our lives stand high and see far, so that we can avoid some of the reefs and dangerous shoals of life.Four, no greed or angry, smoothly
You should not be greedy or have jealousy and resentment towards others. There are many obstacles when doing things in a bad mood. In fact, everything outside of us is a projection of our inner self. Greed is a sense of lack of heart. The more greedy a person is, the more he is, the more he is poor. Those who are jealous and always have some resistance and rejection towards others are actually not much better than those who look like themselves, but appearance is born from the heart. There is such a wonderful story that explains this truth. A puppy accidentally broke into a room surrounded by glass mirrors. This scared the puppy. Seeing that it was surrounded by dogs, the puppy pretended to be very strong and barked at the dog in the mirror. The dog in the mirror also barked and jumped. The puppy was so scared. If this puppy saw other dogs just shook their tails friendly, the puppy in the mirror was also friendly to it. So in the end, we will give feedback to ourselves whatever we treat others. Therefore, when we suffer, we must think quietly and not let our suffering be wasted. Take the current epidemic as an example. Many businesses are in a downturn, but there are still people who can still seize the business opportunities. Both clothing stores are facing closures at the same time, and the female boss of a family will only lament that the current business is really difficult. Another female boss spent a month learning how to do online live broadcasts, so she moved the business online, so she still had a lot of bonuses every month. So when facing difficulties, we need to think and find ways to get rid of difficulties.
When we suffer in our lives, we should always think and be clear. An adult with a family and a child should turn his hardships into experience to tell his children. At the same time, as children and younger generations, we should also draw more wisdom on how to endure hardships and how to overcome hardships from the life experiences of our elders from the books.
