Life is like a mountain. Some people like to climb constantly, and some people are more willing to stop in a good scenery place. No matter what the way you choose to grow in
, after the retirement year, you must make a re -life plan for yourself. The first year after the retirement of
, it is very important. It is necessary to be a transition from life and mentality. In addition, set a tone for your retirement life. Of course,
is not rushed to "set". Everyone's suitable life is different. In actual life, you can explore a suitable way for you.
but one thing, we need to be clear in our hearts, that is, "lighting". In our life, there are too many chasing and too much fatigue, and now we should let ourselves calm down.
lives for a lifetime, and the grass and trees are autumn. If you walk this suffix, nothing can belong to you for a long time. The more you live, the more you don't know, and the more you don't know how to change, you will encounter more helplessness, and to live the sunny days.
is lighter at a young age. After retirement, we actually have only one thing to do: look down. Those who can understand their lives are blessed for the rest of their lives.
Watch the fame
, the most people's heart.
people will compare them subconsciously, and they can be able to achieve their names and benefits.
can be known until the old age. There are enough things to be enough. It does not bring to death without death. It's better to learn a few points. At
, at in the Qing Dynasty, there was a place name " Six -Hei Lane ", which was passed on to a beautiful talk. An official is in a high position, and his family and neighbors have argued because of the open space between the residences.
This is a narrow channel for both parties, but the neighbors build a house to seize it without permission. The official's family wrote to tell him the matter, and the official replied: "Why let him three feet?" After
received the reply, the official's family took the initiative to give up three feet. When the neighbors saw this, they also took the initiative to conquer three feet, so this "six -foot lane" was formed.
is calm, and it is not beautiful. Only when you are fame and fortune and let go of your desires, you will not be tired of life. After retiring, life is even more important. We have been fighting and fighting, and we should know how to let go.
Disted relationship
interpersonal relationship, occupying a certain position in everyone's life. After all, no one can live as an island.
can have a degree, be a person, don't be attached to the thoroughness of various relationships. To be honest, people who are too emotional will only make themselves tired.
Whether it is friends, colleagues, neighbors, or even children, the relationship between each other is not 100 % stable. Even if you operate carefully, you will always have unexpected differences. Jiayu Village in
" Dream of Red Mansion ", in Jiayu, carrying China, Japan, and Japan. Initially, Jia Yucun was blindly knotted, and in the end, Jia Fu also put Jia Yucun into a relationship network that needed to be maintained. As a result of
, when Jia Fu was in trouble, Jia Yucun En reported his revenge and the stones to the well, and pointed out the interest -led relationship.
's hard -to -maintain, calculation, and time -consuming and labor -intensives are already like clouds and no value at all. After
retires, you don't have to spend effort to maintain these relationships. Even the life of children does not have to intervene, beware of being reversed.
is indifferent to
's life, lies in persistence. The Buddha said: "Let go of a thought, all kinds of comfort." Some people in
do things, do not hit the south wall without looking back. What's more, even if I hit the south wall, I didn't look back. In this way, it is only yourself who suffers.
after retirement is a person who has experienced storms and rich life experience. There are usually sections, knowledge and retreat. What is afraid of is obsessive and grows too deeply. As a result, they have forgotten that it is true to operate the current life.
has a lot of distress in the world. It is not as good as the fact that there are eighty or nine, carrying too many lines of bags on the road, and the day when there is a collapse in the morning and evening. Perseverance is too deep, and eventually become a demon.
"Cai Gentan" has a saying: "In pain, often you have to be pleasing; when you are proud, you will be frustrated."
is to be honest. Our life is about half. If you are immersed in the unexplained, the rest of his life will only be bitter.
does his best, and you can let go with peace of mind whether it is successful or not. It is calm, the adversity is not sad, and the situation is not happy. It is worth the rest of the life.
is difficult to choose. It is much easier to choose after everything is weaker. During the journey of life, the dedication is actually intertwined. The best state after
is retired, but it is to wake up every day to facing the sun and the corners of the mouth rises. Don't envy anyone, you don't have to please anyone, the attitude of life is really important.
has seen such a sentence: Life I, but it is empty, go empty, be empty, loses, and gather.
The biggest crisis in our lives is confusion. When choosing, hesitating is the most difficult. Once you are determined, you don't have to be tangled.
tea clear dreams are just right.
, as Zeng Guofan said: "There are fixed numbers in gains and losses, and those who can't ask for more. The heart is one inch, and the road is one foot wide.
Wish: has no dust in his heart, and he is self -reliant.
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is so big. Thank you, you can see me!
[Text | Wei Wei'an: There are temperature and love, an unprecedented writer who loves words, invite you to perceive life]
