The first time I heard about vanity was in Maupassant 's novel " Necklace ". I saw a woman named Mathilde who borrowed a diamond necklace to attend a banquet. After the party, she lost the necklace, and then spent a lifetime of labor to make it. Pay back this necklace.
It turns out that vanity is to let others praise you for your beauty. If you are rich, you can borrow a friend's necklace to wear it.
If you have a necklace, wear it. If you don’t have a necklace, don’t wear it. Perhaps this is the attitude you should have in life.
Anything that is false or disguised will bring trouble to people.
When I was a child, I remember visiting relatives and even getting a new piece of clothing. My mother would go to a neighbor to borrow a child’s clothing for my sister and I to wear for a day and then return it.
It turns out that vanity is deeply rooted in everyone's heart. Students, farmers, cleaners, dishwashers, professors, doctors, administrators, etc. all want to be highly praised by others.
No one can be an exception. No one should desire the praise of others.
From food, clothing, housing and transportation to work performance, everyone wants to be praised. Even showing off their wealth, some people are really rich and have endless money to spend, while ordinary people really have nothing.
Some women change two sets of clothes a day to show that they have financial strength; some drive multi-million dollar luxury cars to show that they are worthy of praise; some work hard and make achievements in order to get People's praise.
People's need for praise from others is simply ingrained.
This may also be a motivation for some people to work hard, not wanting to fall behind or be looked down upon.
This is because some people like a stable job, even if the salary is not high, it sounds good.
Too many people like civil servants. I often hear that some people’s requirement for finding a partner is to find a civil servant.
has no regard for people in other professions. Some elderly people may have an income of less than 100,000 yuan a year, but they let their daughter's boyfriend take the civil service exam.
And my daughter’s boyfriend is a big V with an annual income of over 10 million. Because earning tens of millions a year is not as good as a stable job. This man was so angry that he broke up with his girlfriend because he didn't want to get married and he might be told by a low-income old man what to do every day. He was even required to pass the civil service examination to be worthy of his daughter.
people are in different states and cannot understand each other at all. For ordinary people, high-paying jobs may not exist at all. Only civil servants are the best jobs. Other than that, there is no good work.
Because he did not see any high-paying positions.
A person will not be completely devoid of vanity. As long as vanity comes from real strength, it is worthy of praise. Don't pretend, don't pretend, pretend to get praise, once the lie is exposed, the praise will disappear.
