? The secret of happiness is that the less you need, the happier you will be, and the less you pursue, the happier you will be. This pursuit includes both material and spiritual levels. But we are often the opposite. We desperately pursue the same thing after satisfying it, and we want to pursue the same thing when we are satisfied. Therefore, we will find that we can never be happy, because we are never satisfied!
Everyone has their own troubles. Whether they are rich people, poor people, sick people, healthy people, people with parents, or people without parents, they all have different worries and troubles. So people have to weigh these things, and it depends on what kind of mentality we use to look at it. If we look at it with an optimistic mentality and a mentality that we can let go of, then in fact everything is happening normally and everything is normal. , it’s just our experience, no big deal.
Then if I look at the mentality of wanting to possess and control, then you can only continue to suffer and worry with these changes, because it is changing all the time, whether it is good or bad, and it will not follow your ideas. Keep developing.
So the important thing is that we have to look at how happy we are at the moment and how happy we are at the moment.