When we make up our minds to do something, most of them are very ambitious at the beginning, but when it comes to action, not everyone can persist to the end. Some people say that there is only one kind of failure, which is to give up halfway. No matter what you do, you can only persevere. It is possible to gain something. Hard work may not necessarily lead to success, but giving up halfway is doomed to failure. When some people plan to do something, they always find various reasons to put it off again and again. If they are in a bad mood today, they will do it again in the evening. Cell phone for a while, start again tomorrow, and tomorrow will come tomorrow, there are so many tomorrows, the good time is wasted, and nothing will be accomplished in the end. People who are truly self-disciplined can always use various methods to overcome their inner laziness, but lazy people often find various ways to do it. There are many excuses to procrastinate, and all plans, ideals and ambitions will come to naught in procrastination and excuses. Many times the difference between people does not lie in how bad your situation is, but in the attitude of fighting against inertia. The biggest regret in life is , I could have done it, but I wasted it because of laziness. The most common mistake people make is to give their best temper to outsiders and their worst temper to the people closest to them. Why do we sometimes always have good relationships with family members or others? Do you get angry with people who have nothing to do with you, but are polite to people with whom you have little contact? In fact, all politeness is due to unfamiliarity, because we are not very familiar with them, we do not understand or understand them, so we appear polite, and we can't help but get angry with the people closest to us because we Knowing that they will never leave us, relying on their love for us, they become unscrupulous. You have to understand that some people come and go but are just passers-by, while some people stop and go and are always with us. Between people Warm relationships are gifts from God. It is the people close to us who accompany us through the good or difficult days, making up the wonderful moments and memories in life. The better the relationship, the more we need to empathize with each other, respect each other, and be more considerate. Only by understanding and being tolerant of each other can we avoid many unnecessary conflicts and injuries. The difference in talent between people is actually not that big. Whether you are a self-disciplined person or a non-self-disciplined person, effort and reward are directly proportional. Only quantitative change is enough. Only those who truly have requirements for themselves and are willing to persevere in the boring day after day can truly be close to success. This is how people are, if you indulge for a day or two, it may seem like nothing, but when you If you live this kind of life day after day, year after year, and treat the world negatively and decadently, your entire person's state will change dramatically.This includes feeling low energy all day long, losing interest in doing anything, being completely unable to concentrate, etc. Is self-discipline painful? Of course it is bitter. This kind of bitterness manifests itself in having to get up early in the morning when others are sleeping in. When others are enjoying delicious food, you are sweating profusely in the gym. When others are having fun, you have to read one book after another. But It is this kind of suffering that stimulates your potential and allows you to see a bigger world. More importantly, it allows you to truly achieve yourself. If you want to have a better life and live a better life, you must Strictly demand yourself, rather than being lazy and indulgent. Freedom is never about doing whatever you want, but self-control. Self-discipline is freedom. As you grow up, you should understand that everyone appears in your life at different times and places, or is kind to you. Like a mountain, or as tiny as dust, no matter what the outcome is, you cannot force one person to accompany you forever, nor can you ask everyone to accompany you in a daze, to accompany you in panic, to accompany you to be sad, to accompany you as drunk as mud, everyone's appearance You never know who will appear next, and you never know who will leave next. The only thing you can do is to cherish the time you have, and cherish those things that will illuminate you till the end. People in dark moments, people who teach you tolerance and respect, people who teach you love and self-control. Some people appear in your life for a short time, and they are already very beautiful and lucky. Most of the time they just go around in circles. , will always return to the starting point, just like now, at this moment, I am sitting in front of the window listening to music, with a book in my hand and a cup filled with tea. One day last year, I did the same, writing in a notebook My own thoughts, and today, I changed a place, and I was also writing my inner thoughts. I disappeared for about a month, so what on earth did I do? Let’s sit down and chat together today. The first thing I want to say is , if I have the opportunity in the future, I will go back and look through every bit of my work, and I can even bind it into a book in the future. Secondly, during this period of time, on the one hand, I am running. The first stage of weight loss is to lose weight. The second stage is to lose weight. It's about getting in shape, so I've been spending time and energy on losing weight, which means extending the running time and increasing the running intensity. After I came back, I did HIT exercises on the yoga mat, so I didn't have much time to update this. After all, people's energy is limited. Yes, the last thing is to spend more time reading. Books borrowed from the library should be read as soon as possible, otherwise the meaning of borrowing books will be lost. Read more, read good books, and want to be as talented as Teacher Dong. people. Speaking of the starting point, my weight has been swinging between 150 and 180. If I pay attention to my diet and keep exercising, my weight will be over 150. If you exercise less and eat more in winter, your weight will increase.So it is the starting point of exercise over and over again. I have been trying this way to gain and lose weight. I want to know when my weight will gain and when I will lose weight. How do I eat to gain weight and how do I exercise to lose weight? In this experiment, I gradually learned the secrets of my body. I can control my weight as I want. Speaking of self-discipline, this is really a test. There was a time when I couldn’t hold on and gave up, but it was still early. After I got down, it was the starting point of exercise over and over again. I have been trying this way to gain and lose weight. I want to know when my weight will gain and when I will lose weight. What should I eat to gain weight? How to lose weight through exercise? It was through this experiment that I slowly learned the secrets of my body. I can control my weight as I wish. When it comes to self-discipline, this is really a test. There was a time when I couldn't hold on, and I couldn't. I wanted to give up, but I still persisted. It is a good way to exercise my will. I really admire Teacher Dong’s talent. How much I admire him. I took the time to watch Teacher Dong’s videos again and again. Most of them I have seen it all, and I found that not only Teacher Dong, but also the people of New Oriental are very talented people. They graduated from prestigious universities and have a very high starting point. However, with the development of the times, New Oriental needs to shine in another hot land. , many of Teacher Dong’s words also awakened me. Teacher Dong’s words about first love are actually the same as mine. It seems that we are all like this when we are young. Some of us who are young are rich and do not have family help. Of course, it is impossible for us to talk about marriage in today's society. The economic base determines the superstructure. While we are looking for the right person, we use rules and regulations to restrain our hands and feet. We envy the love of others, but we always feel that we We can’t get anything. We suspect it’s because we are poor, we can’t afford to get married, and we don’t deserve to chase love. But we don’t know that our understanding of the world at this moment is not enough, and we don’t have enough ability to face it. For complicated things, we don’t have a strong heart to withstand the pressure. People always get better and grow up slowly. We who are twenty years old don’t have to be too anxious to envy others who are thirty years old. We should set goals. At the age of thirty, I am better than him. I often want to go back to the starting point, but I know that I cannot go back to the same starting point. In my opinion, life is full of starting points. Monday is the starting point of the week. Waking up in the morning is the starting point. At the starting point of the day, learn to start over, learn to clear everything and start over.
