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Once a person falls, there is no end at all. It only takes a few seconds to fall into the abyss. Falling to the bottom and surviving the catastrophe shows that "God will not destroy me", but sometimes, to be honest, when you fall to the bottom Afterwards, life was extremely painful.
When people are at a low point, the most terrifying thing is loneliness, and the most difficult thing is loneliness. If you are alone for a long time, you will easily become pessimistic, hesitant, and lost.
The little Simba in the movie "The Lion King" was usurped by his uncle and had to travel far away. He lived with small animals, far away from the group, and gradually lost his fighting spirit.
The environment can easily change a person. Once a person degenerates, there is no end.
Some people cannot accept it for a while when they go from rich to poor. They are extremely sad and vow to survive. But after being poor for a long time, they get used to it - well, I am destined to be poor.
Some people experience a setback and cannot get out of the shadows for several years, and gradually get used to it. When you see them again, they have already lost their luster.
"Degeneration" is a terrible thing. It is like a slow poison, slowly knocking a person down until he can no longer stand up.
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The Ming Dynasty writer Xu Wei is known as the most tragic talent in history. He was talented but had a rough life. His representative song in his later years, "Picture of Grapes", is a true portrayal of his tragic fate in life, describing the sorrow of life.
After half his life, he has become an old man, and his independent study is screaming in the evening breeze.
The pearl at the end of the pen has nowhere to sell, just throw it into the wild vines.
As a teenager, Xu Wei was completely dependent on others in his own home, with no affection from his parents or brotherhood. This tragic and depressing life was the root cause of his later mental illness and affected his life.
In addition to family misfortune, his career experience was also extremely bumpy. According to reports, he took the exam more than a dozen times but failed. For the aloof and aloof Xu Wei, this was undoubtedly a great shame and humiliation. Later, his wife died suddenly, and Xu Wei's family was ruined and he had to move around.
I can only say that some people's lives are very hard. It's not that they have not worked hard and can endure a blow. After experiencing countless setbacks, people sometimes cannot hold on.
In today's society, "white-collar workers" in the office work very hard, and so do the delivery people on the street. One year during the New Year's Eve, I met a takeaway boy. We didn't know each other, but he shouted "Happy New Year", and then he sang " The sea is brighter, the sky is brighter " loudly and went with the wind...
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I have been lonely for a long time. , in fact, feeling lonely is not that terrible, just enjoy the loneliness.
But after falling for a long time, it is difficult for people to get up again...
The great talent Tang Bohu fell into poverty in his later years. Throughout his life, although he was talented, he was homeless. When he was a child, he studied very well and often ranked first in exams. At his age He went to Beijing to take the exam as the first place in his career, but was caught up in a fraud case and imprisoned. He was later demoted to a minor official in the Zhejiang vassal.
After middle age, there was a King Ning in Jiangxi who took a fancy to him and hired him to work in the house. Bohu happily went, but unexpectedly found that King Ning was preparing to rebel. Tang Bohu could only escape by pretending to be crazy.
For the rest of his life, Tang Bohu chose to live in seclusion and spend the rest of his life alone...
When will a person completely "lose"? It may be the time when he surrenders to himself. In the
TV series " I am Yu Huanshui ", when Yu Huanshui encountered a series of pressures such as a marriage crisis, friends defaulting on debt repayments, father coming to ask for money, and being bullied in the company, he could no longer bear it - sometimes The collapse of an adult lasts only a moment.
"I cried bitterly last night, but when daybreak comes, people still have to pretend to be strong."
Just be afraid. Some blows are devastating. Once you are knocked down, you will never get up again.
I am afraid that people will completely give in...
04
There is a saying in " Forrest Gump " - You have got to put the past behind you before you can move on.
You have to put down the past behind you before you can move on.
The main reason why people fall is probably because they cannot let go of the past.
Because I have loved someone and lost, I don’t dare to love again.
Because the business failed, he did not dare to do business again.
Because I failed the college entrance examination, I felt that I would never be able to make a difference in my life.
Because I feel that life is boring, I have been confused all my life...
Because I have been hurt in some way, I have always remembered it in my heart. The more I think about it, the more painful and heavier my heart becomes. As time goes by, I dare not look directly at life, dare not face reality, and do not want to Live well...
Only by knowing how to "let go" can we be "reborn".
In fact, the past has long since passed. Maybe others have forgotten it, so why should you still remember it.
People should live in the present, not in memories.
Liu Huan has a song - Look at success or failure, life is heroic, just starting from scratch!
People will inevitably experience some ups and downs in this life. It’s okay to lose once. Don’t be afraid of other people’s jokes. Live your life well, love life, and be happy every day. If you can meet the best version of yourself, you are the most awesome one.
In life, even if you are lonely, even if you are at the bottom, you must not fall, just like Zhang Chi (played by Shen Teng) in the movie " Flying Life ", even if he encounters huge setbacks, even if he can no longer drive racing , but he insists on "racing" in his mind every day...
Sima Guang, who smashed a cylinder, once said a word - The eagle strikes the sky with strong winds, and the waves fly with spring.
May you live in this life and always strive for self-improvement.
