Author: Yuling
People often lament the geometry of life and look for happiness. If we can take the initiative to record our happy moments, over time, you will find that the happiness and warmth you once longed for are actually hidden in our lives. bit by bit.
The chase will make people uneasy, and the excitement will make people tired. Whenever things are solved one by one, people's sense of stress will gradually decrease, and their happiness will gradually increase.
If we can pour out the things we put into our hearts during the day one by one every night and keep the mentality of an empty cup, no matter how busy or tired we are, let the soul stop, appreciate the exclusive beauty of being alone, and enjoy the best of ourselves. High-level happiness allows the soul to be alone in its own habitat, while reflecting on itself and self-improvement. What a pleasant thing it is!
Whenever we have a table, a book, a corner and a cup of tea, even if we are quiet for a whole afternoon, we are in a daze by ourselves and appreciate the unique mood, we feel very comfortable. At this time, Duoxiang took off his armor and took off his mask. He could be his true self and enjoy the beauty in front of him. How pleasant it was.
In life, no one has smooth sailing. To live, you must maintain a good attitude. A shallow smile is like the warm sun in winter and the warm breeze in spring, making people stretch and happy.
Most people who are full of happiness have plans and goals in life. If you know what you should do and do every day, you can clearly see the trajectory of your spiritual growth.
A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. When you are a child, you can be very happy even in a place with no one, because you have less pretentiousness in your heart; when you grow up, you will feel lonely when you are crowded in a bustling crowd, because there is too much distance between people's hearts. Without peace of mind, there is no peace and joy; only by letting the sunshine shine into your heart can you have a bright life.
In the journey of life, it is not terrible to encounter difficulties, but you must know how to review in time. This world is neither yours nor mine, but belongs to those who are healthy and lifelong learners. Learning can enlarge a person's pattern and raise the upper limit of life. A person with a big picture has great love in his heart, can hold up a building, is in awe of all beautiful things, can swallow grievances, and can accept suffering. If you don't care about things, you won't have many complaints; if you are generous, you will have many ways out. A mature person can face storms calmly and never panic when he is in jail. Mr. Dongpo said: "Taishan collapses in front without being alarmed; elk rises from the left without blinking."
No matter when and where you are, you must have a stable mood and peace of mind. Have a way out when encountering mountains. The courage to build bridges over water. Wang Yangming said: "People must persevere in things before they can stand." Since ancient times, those who achieve great things have willpower that is beyond ordinary people. These people are not made of steel, but have developed a heart as steady as steel, with a thunderous chest, a face as flat as a lake, and a spirit that swallows mountains and rivers. "Where there are flowers and willows in abundance, being able to push them aside is the only way; when the wind is fierce and the rain is heavy, only when you stand firm can you see the roots of your feet." Only by taking control of your own life can you dominate your own life and your own destiny.
In any circle, there will inevitably be people you hate and people who hate you. As the old saying goes, raptors will not fight with evil snakes, and lions will not compete with mad dogs for food. If you want to grow into a big tree, don't compete with the grass. Being entangled with it will only affect your mood and take up your time. You must have the wisdom not to compete with others in life. When someone touches roses, their fragrance remains in their hands; when someone throws mud into someone else's hands, they will make themselves dirty. If you can't let it go, you will only torture yourself; it is better to laugh it off, save your energy, and do something more meaningful.
People's life depends on their mentality. The mentality determines a person's happiness index. The human body is very small, but the human heart is very powerful. Sometimes we cannot control the development of things at all, but we can adjust our mentality at any time and deal with it calmly. No matter what age you are or what situation you are in, only by having a calm mind can you live an open-minded life and live out your own blue sky.
Spring always comes after waking up from the dream of winter.After a person has done what he needs to do, he should put down what he is doing, go out for a walk, and give some time to his heart, some time to the people around him, and some time to things, such as sowing, watering, fertilizing, and giving some time to the seeds. Time, let it break the ground, sprout, turn green, and grow; take a glass of water, feed a heatstroke bird, give it some time to wake up, and let it slowly revive. I believe that no matter how cold your fate is, as long as you have the warmth integrated into the transplanted bone marrow, you will be happy enough.
