After middle age, it feels like time flies by so quickly and is gone before you know it, leaving no room for breathing.
The things to consider are one after another, and the threshold for making myself happy is getting higher and higher. The whole person is still anxious in addition to anxiety.
You may have imagined that at which stage in life you have reached, you can settle down once and for all. This is unrealistic. There is no perfect life, only a perfect mentality. Care less, hope more, and everything can be overcome.
No matter how the first half of the year goes, the second half of the year is a new beginning. In the second half of 2022, may all your wishes come true and live a more chic life.
1. Debt-free
You may have seen a popular video, which is a woman in the corner of the Shenzhen subway station. She cried hoarsely into her mobile phone and shouted: "A mortgage of 3.68 million, what do you want me to do? "Return? Tell me how?"
can feel the sadness, pressure, and helplessness across the screen.
There is no real empathy in this world. A lot of suffering can only be swallowed by oneself, and many hurdles can only be overcome by oneself. Everyone spends the winter in their own world.
As the saying goes: A penny can stump a hero, it is not unreasonable. Only when you are short of money will you find out what it means to be unable to move forward and what it means to be without friends. Think about it carefully, no one has the obligation to help you, every adult has to carry it all alone.
If you owe more debt, your expectations for the future will be much lower, your pressure will double, and you will develop a scarcity mindset. You only look at the immediate problem and small profits, regardless of your long-term plans, and you are unable to make truly beneficial decisions. , falling into a scarcity trap.
If possible, consider your actual situation as much as possible, bear less debt, reduce unnecessary consumption, increase revenue and reduce expenditure, and save more emergency money.
Even if you can't get rich suddenly, at least you have a guarantee, and you can be calm and calm in case of trouble.
Talking about money is not vulgar, it means the confidence to speak, the freedom of choice and the chicness of rejecting others.
2. There is a book of poetry in the belly
Wuhan reading brother is lying on the bed of makeshift hospital , calmly reading the social science book "The Origin of Political Order: From Prehuman Times to the French Revolution", which can be called a classic scene .
I believe many friends remember his immersed state of concentration. He had a book in his hand, which was enough to forget his worries. His appearance seemed to tell everyone: he was not in a hospital bed, but in a quiet and elegant garden.
There are many shackles and limitations in life, but reading is a spiritual haven that you can master, have your heart in mind 八极, and travel through the past and present, allowing you to appreciate the various flavors of life and absorb all kinds of knowledge.
If you read more, your appearance and temperament will change, and your spirit will become richer.
3. Be worry-free in your heart
When there is something in your heart, three realms are narrow, but when you have nothing in your heart, a bed is wide.
Walking along the road of life, there are countless unsatisfactory things. If you think less about each one, there is no need to care too much. Going back laughing is a person's open-mindedness that is underestimated; not taking it seriously is a person's true wisdom.
When difficulties come, just make gestures, and when difficulties don’t come, just enjoy yourself in time. That’s what life is all about. Apart from life and death, everything is trivial.
Writer Feng Tang said in a speech: "During my short medical career, a considerable number of people suffered from cancer due to excessive pressure and difficulty in digestion. This is the life of a person, so he might as well live "Go slower and live more relaxedly."
believes that thinking too much will only cause negative emotions to accumulate in the heart, which will cause chronic and invisible harm to oneself.
Those who live an easy life don't have fewer troubles, they just see more openly. If you shake hands with difficulties, you will have the courage to move forward. Try to air out your complaints every day, and your mood will not be deficient in calcium.
Life is a process in which the longer you live, the clearer you become, and the more you live, the more determined you become. You know what you should value, where you should focus, what things you should put aside, and then step by step you can live your life the way you like, so good.
Finally, I would like to say: May all the Mercury retrograde and regrets in the first half of the year be Easter eggs laid for the second half of the year.
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