2018.11.10 Pen and Ink Time Practice:
To be honest, for me, a poor student in junior high school and a poor student in high school, grades have never been a concern. As long as I study, I can pass. From here to there, life is just fine.
Looking at the all-round mothers around me, they are top-notch in work, housework, food, sports, calligraphy, sewing, flower gardening... Although I am envious of them, I still have no idea of studying hard and joining the ranks of all-round mothers myself.
later discovered that these all-powerful mothers, hey, were very awesome when they were children. No wonder they are still awesome when they grow up. Puwa like me have always been accustomed to treating themselves as ordinary people. They have always believed in the golden mean of and , and they really have no ambition to strive for it.
Some people say: What you study, you will become. Probably I have loved watching Fengshen, Journey to the West, and Liaozhai since I was a child, which led me to advocate Taoism inaction and pursue the freedom of not worrying about everything. This kind of mentality is exactly in line with the Doctrine of Confucianism and the randomness of Buddhism. Therefore, when my children’s studies are not involved, I am indeed a Buddhist woman.
However, all middle-aged mothers have the same problem: if they don't talk about studying, the mother is kind and the son is filial; when it comes to studying, they are like a chicken and a dog.
Every day at 21:30, have you finished all your homework? No? anxiety!
Over the weekend, have you practiced the Mathematical Olympiad essay, calligraphy, listening and speaking? No? anxiety!
The weather is fine. Let’s go for a run. Can you reach three and a half points in a thousand meters? No? anxiety!
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Sometimes, I really can't understand why I, who was once so Buddhist, have become such a restless and restless person. Is it really like Jia Baoyu said that as soon as a woman gets married and has children, she changes from pearls to fish eyes.
After thinking about it, I still have a heart for gain and loss, hoping that my son will succeed and that I will achieve my goals. If the expectations are lowered, just like when you first meet a baby when he is born, I wish you no defects, I wish you no pain, and I wish you no worries. In this way, you can be calm and happy.
Just like before, when you were born and could only cry, I would be very happy that you could smile and frown; when you were learning to talk, I would be very happy for you to say a word; when you were a toddler , I will be very happy to move a step for you.
Moods are colorless in nature, but are colored by gains and losses. In order to keep smiling, a middle-aged mother might as well put aside gains and losses and deal with them indifferently.
