First, don’t hate.
Life is short, there is no need to waste it on others.
The people and things we encounter will not get along and behave exactly according to our wishes.
All our efforts cannot satisfy everyone.
We can't like everyone we know or don't know.
Then, it is impossible for us to make everyone like ourselves.
So, don’t hate.
Hate can only make ourselves more miserable.
Life is short, there is no need to waste your precious time on others.
Second, don’t compare.
Don’t try to live like others, be a better version of yourself.
We know too many people who are better than us.
We know so many people who live happier lives.
Those who are capable of playing chess, calligraphy and painting, those who are very capable of doing things, those who are beautiful, those who have money and fame and status, those whose husband and wife live a harmonious and happy life, those whose children are outstanding and successful, those whose daughter-in-law and son-in-law are filial, those whose parents have great wealth, those who are rich The first generation, the second generation official, the scholarly family...
All the things we know are not worth comparing.
Don't look at others, that is other people's lives.
We have our own wonderful and happy life.
We only live a better version of ourselves.
Third, don’t worry.
The day you stop worrying is the beginning of your new life.
Everything goes as it should.
