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"Playing for a while, gambling again, sleeping for one more minute, may sound like small things, but the "self-compromising" bacteria inside may be eroding your bone marrow, making you unable to stand for the rest of your life. Straight. "
—— Liu Yong
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"The so-called adults have to endure loneliness. Even if the friendship is strong, they have to be cautious. Why must they be cautious? Just because they have met. I have been deceived and embarrassed so many times. This is the first lesson for me to transform from a youth into an adult. "
—— Osamu Dazai
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"I avoid overly warm friendships when I have nothing to do, which makes me less burdened and less committed. I don't talk too much about unnecessary gossip, which makes me feel relaxed. I try not to dwell on the past, Because it is impossible to go back the way I came. I love others carefully because I am less likely to overflow. I cry when I want to cry and laugh when I want to laugh. "
- Sanmao. "Send You a Horse"
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"We often feel the hardship and heaviness of life. We have witnessed the distortion and deformation of life under various pressures countless times. "Ordinary" has suddenly become people's most real desire. . However, we have inadvertently missed another kind of fear - peace without expectations and no need to pay is actually consuming the vitality and spirit of life. "
——Milan Kundera
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" If you really want to do something, you will try your best to accomplish it even if there are many obstacles. But if you don't really want to accomplish something, then you will do it even if the road ahead is smooth. Try every reason to stop yourself from moving forward. "
- Yi Shu's "No Reason"
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" There are two criteria for judging whether something should be done: first, you like it when you do it, and you are happy after doing it. Things you will definitely not regret. Second, you may not like or be happy when you do it, but you will definitely regret it if you don’t do it. These two standards are basically enough, and they are easy to master. "
—— Zhou Guoping
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“Without money, social status, and culture, it is difficult for people to control their own destiny. "
- Wang Xiaobo " the silent majority "
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"When we were teenagers, we always dreamed of the day when we left our parents. Another day, it was our parents who left us. So we can only dream about whether, for a moment, we can once again become children living under the roof of our foster parents. We can hug them, tell them without shyness that we love them, and cling to them closely to make ourselves feel at ease. . "
- "The Man Who Stealed Shadows"
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"No matter where we are, we must remember that the past is false, memories are an endless road, and all past springs no longer exist. Even the most tenacious and crazy love is, in the final analysis, nothing more than a fleeting reality. "
- Marquez " One Hundred Years of Solitude "
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"If you don't do some things now, you will probably never be able to do them in the future. It’s not that you don’t have time, but it’s because you have time that you put it off again and again. Don’t worry and let them sit there, letting the wind, rain, and thick dust cover them. And you will eventually forget what you once wanted to do, what you wanted to say, and who you wanted to catch. "
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" My child, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades with others, but because I hope you will have the right to choose in the future and choose a job that is meaningful and time-consuming, rather than being Forced to make a living. When your work has meaning in your heart, you have a sense of accomplishment. When your job gives you time and does not deprive you of your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity, giving you happiness."
- Long Yingtai's " Dear Andre "
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"The so-called adults have to endure loneliness. Even if friendship is strong, they have to be careful to be polite to each other. Why must we be cautious? The answer is: No reason. Just because I have encountered too many deceived and embarrassing things. Not trusting others is the first lesson in the transformation from youth to adult. The adults are the reflections of young people who have been deceived. "
——Dazai Osamu
