Not contacting, not because you are too busy, but not wanting to contact; not deleting, not because you care, but not caring; not blocking, not because you cherish it, but because it is none of your business. When we are thinking about someone, we will think of them frequently an

doesn’t contact me, not because he is too busy, but because he doesn’t want to contact me;

doesn’t delete it, not because he cares, but because he doesn’t care;

doesn’t block him, not because he cherishes it, but because it has nothing to do with him.

When we are thinking about someone, we will think of them frequently and cannot help but contact them.

When we still care about someone, we will be heartbroken because of his indifference, complain because our efforts are not reciprocated, and delete or block him out of anger.

does not contact, delete or block this person precisely because we have no emotions towards this person.

has no likes, no love, no grievances, no complaints, it doesn’t matter whether he is in your circle of friends or not.

01. There is no emotion, so you can ignore it.

Because there is no emotion, there is no worry.

Even if a person hurt you deeply in the past, and we thought about it and looked down on the relationship, we can still let it go calmly.

When we want to let go of someone, we will no longer have any emotions towards him.

Even if he has really left scars on you, once we choose and come out of it, we don’t care whether he is still in your circle of friends.

is kept, not deleted, and not blocked. In fact, it is not this person, and it no longer has any influence on you.

Even if we occasionally see him in WeChat Moments, we can still pass him by as if nothing happened.

Some people have no feelings, so they can ignore it, stop contacting, and block them because it is really not necessary. It doesn’t matter whether he is there or not.

02. A wise person can look forward.

A wise person will eventually look forward.

Some people are too emotional. When they learn that the other person's feelings are not as deep as their own, and when they are drifting apart, they choose a decisive way to leave the other person.

blocked him and kept him on his blacklist forever, expressing his deep hatred.

However, this kind of blacklisting is actually because I can't let go, I can't let go, and even when I think about it occasionally, I still feel aggrieved.

And a smart person, staying away from a person's approach is not to tell him in a big way how many complaints he has against him. Instead, keep your distance silently and be yourself quietly.

His name will still appear in his circle, but every time he hears it, he can laugh it off.

If you don’t care about all the past, you really don’t care.

03. Cherish the people who are good to you. Some feelings will never come back if lost.

Some relationships are lost if lost; some feelings will never come back if lost.

In this world, not everyone is good to you. Some people are good to you. In fact, it is not our luck and blessing!

Cherish that person who will always be there to help you when you need it.

Because of his appearance, our lives will be rewritten; because of his existence, our hearts will be warmer.

Cherish the people who, day after day, year after year, give without hesitation for you, our family, lovers and parents.

It is because of them that we have people to love, accompany, warm, encourage, and cherish. We have confidence no matter what we encounter, because we are not alone!

Never hurt people who are good to you. Some feelings are lost and they really will never come back!