If a person is carrying a heavy burden on the road, then he will not walk too fast, and he will be very tired. Life is like climbing a mountain. If you abandon the burden of life, then your climbing steps will be lighter. However, there are always so many people in life who are willing to carry heavy burdens when climbing, knowing that they are tired, and they really don't want to leave them. Among these burdens, feelings are one of them. For some people, feelings are the only burden of climbing. They always think that if they let go of their feelings, they won't have the ability to climb mountains. They don't know that if they let go, they will have more energy to go "climbing" without suffering.
There are many pains in life. Pain due to peace is the most common and the most common. Many people know that they cannot bear the pain of helping feelings, but they are still unwilling to take off their painful bags. They think that if they let go of their feelings, they will lose themselves, and they will not even feel the pain. In fact, this is just their imagination. There are many people in their lives. After they are injured in love, they abandon the damage caused by love, and instead live a more exciting life. Therefore, when you let go, you won't be suffering, and you will be free from suffering.
Some people will say that letting go of feelings is easier said than done, and it's done. Indeed, letting go of the deep feelings that used to be, not everyone can do it. The process of letting go is also painful, because letting go means that you withdraw from the battlefield of love, which means that you don't have the opportunity to have. But if you don't let go of the things in your hands, how can you use your hands to grab more things? This is the helplessness of life and the necessity of life. What life gives to each of us is a treasure house and a garden. If you want to manage your own treasure house and garden, you must learn to let go.
There is a monk who loves clay pots very much. As long as he hears about the best pots, he will appreciate it personally, desperately. Among the clay pots he collected, there was a dragon-head pot that he loved the most.
One day, a friend who hadn't seen him for a long time came to visit, and he took out this favorite pot to make tea for him. Friends also like this faucet pot, and they have been full of praise for it. However, in the process of playing, a friend accidentally dropped the pot to the ground, and the pot suddenly fell to pieces.
The monk didn’t say anything,He just squatted down, picked up the fragments of the pot, and then took out another pot to make tea for a friend, talking and laughing, as if not unhappy.
After the friend left, the disciple asked him, this is Master’s favorite stock. If Bei broke, wouldn’t Master feel sad?
The eminent monk said that this is already the case. What's the point of nostalgia for the pot? It's better to search again, maybe you will find a better one.
In our lives, we are always upset about what has happened in this way, but we don't know that this is an unnecessary move. Instead of holding useless worries, it is better to let go of worries and start a new life. The right attitude to life is if you can afford it and let it go.
Let go of the pain, so that it will not be painful, and it will make you more relaxed. There is always a dull heart to live together. Isn't this a kind of happiness in life?
Who decides the pain of life? Of course it's up to you. If it is painful to hold the old relationship, it is better to let it go. Only if you let it go, there will be no pain. There are so many unsatisfactory things in life. If we all hold improperly, how can we live easily? There are many things in a person's life to be able to afford and let go, just like love. Painful love will not be painful unless it is let go.
A boy once did such a psychological test with his girlfriend. The question is this: If the wallet, keys and phone book are lost at the same time, choose the most important thing for you Yes. The girlfriend chooses the phone book, and he chooses the key to the question. The final answer shows that his girlfriend is a nostalgic person, and he is a person who pursues reality. Later they broke up, and his girlfriend is always unhappy because of the past. The unsuccessful love in college still keeps her from forgetting, and the male protagonist of this love has long been a husband and a father. The girlfriend's heart will always live in the past, so she missed a good choice one after another and was single all the time.
Many people are just passing the smoke in our lives, and it is a form of self-abuse if we get caught in it. Without giving up those clouds like mud and sand, how can we see the rainbow of life? There is a saying in Buddhism: "The sea of suffering is boundless,Looking back is the shore. "However, some people like to be obsessed and want to worry about themselves. Throw away the trash in life when it should be thrown away, and so should the trash on emotions.
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