"Which way you see the world, the world will show you what ~"
Everyone has their own world outlook, outlook on life, and values (commonly known as the "three outlooks")! In the past, I always used my own moral standards to judge the world, so I felt that human nature was ugly and I couldn't accept it! At one time I felt depressed...
Later I saw a video, which roughly means: "The world is big, and you have the world in mind. When you tolerate all the injustices in the world, you will naturally let go..." At that time, you, Maybe I will only smile when I see the greed of others~
I used to be violent, impatient, and can't tolerate the slightest grievance. Then I will fight for reasons and feel that I am a personality! That is domineering! Even that is a kind of pride! I am pursuing perfection in my work and everything. I can't tolerate the slightest accusation from others, even with a slightly ironic tone... Maybe someone else's inadvertent arrogant look will irritate my actually inferior and fragile soul!
Last weekend, a friend said to me: "Work is only part of life! You don't need to be perfect in everything, because the boss will still judge you from his own eyes...you and your colleagues are justified. In the end, no matter if you win or lose, others won’t care, and you? Will be on your mind for a long time, affecting your mood and life..."
These words are not the first time I have heard them, nor is he The first person to talk to me about this kind of truth, but it is the first time that I have really listened to it in the workplace for more than ten years and I will understand it!
Today is overcast and rainy, work is still busy, and arrogant colleagues are still mixed with impatience~ but me? The mood is very calm, no matter how noisy the office is, I can still hear my breathing in my heart! I lowered the pace of my work by one section, and the tone of communication with others eased for a while... and then I felt that there was a green light on the way home from get off work. It seemed that it was raining when I knew that I was off work and stopped raining. I just arrived home. Under the sky, the sky began to feel the rain. It turned out that luck can also be telepathic! Finally understood the sentence "If you are well, it will be sunny"!
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