Just be stupid once, don’t be stupid forever. After reading the first half of the sentence "Suffering is a Blessing", you will know that we have understood it wrong.
A 24-year-old son fell in love with a 40-year-old divorced woman, and his mother threatened her with death. The son said: I will not marry her unless she is her.
A woman divorced her husband at the instigation of her best friend. As a result, her best friend lost contact and could not return to her parents’ home: I really regret it.