He drove through the country road on his motorcycle, carrying a few wooden boards on it. The road was too small, the wooden board was too long, and the back of the road was stuck, and the motorcycle was overturned. He fell to the ditch on the side of the road and was crushed by a motorcycle. He couldn't move and could not come out.
—Like Sun Dasheng is pressed under Wuzhishan.
He called his wife, "Amei! Amei!", and he shouted for several minutes without responding. Maybe it was too far away, Amei didn't hear it. If his wife hears it now, it will be easier. Her wife could come over and lift the motorcycle with a little force. He moved his lower legs out, and there was a way, otherwise, there was no way.
Later, his wife finally came. A neighbor told Amei who was feeding pigs when he heard him calling him. Amei came with her three-year-old child on her back. Seeing him being pressed, she said, "Oh, my mother, are you injured?"
He said, "Not hurt, you can lift the car so I can get out, otherwise, you won't get out."
Amei pushed the car and lifted it up, and then he came out and stood up.
This incident made him deeply realize that it is really impossible to have a wife!
0 pig farming is not possible, Amei said she wanted to work in Guangdong. Moreover, she had a fellow villager who said there was a job there.
He was silent for a long time, and his general meaning was that he was reluctant to let her go to Guangdong.
Amei said, "This life is very tight. The child is growing up day by day. Don't you feel stressed?"
He said, "There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain."
Amei said, "You must have a long-term vision and know how to prepare for the future. If you raise pigs at home, I may have an extra income."
Amei said, "This kind of thing still happens to us after all. In the past, I saw other couples separated and the children stayed behind, and I thought that if it were me, I would definitely not want to live like this. Now I finally understand that it is not that I don't want to live like this, but that there seems to be a force that forces us to do this."
Amei said, "Then I will go to work tomorrow."
He sighed.
The kind of messy life is a poor or even poor life. I don't want the substance, but I care about it very much. There are many disagreements in what I want to do; the favors I want to do are done hastily; the things I want cannot afford to buy; the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are quarreling like enemies; the dream in their hearts is no support, and they say that life in front of them is in a mess, so how can they talk about dreams; complaints and disappointments accumulate over time, which cast a deep shadow on the already unhappy life...
Amei is really hard to work, and sometimes she has to stay up late and still works in the middle of the night. When he thought of this, his heart felt ache.
But she changed her mind and didn't come back during the Chinese New Year. She went to a man's house for the Chinese New Year. He only found out about this later and felt incredible.
Something he could never imagine happened to himself. He had never done anything that he was sorry for her. If he had said that he had done it, he would not have been able to make her live her ideal life.
However, in that environment, a bachelor can live leisurely, but it is not enough to get married. Perhaps, even if people without financial concerns get married, they will have their own difficulties and worries. This may be the fate of marriage.
After more than two months of struggle and negotiation, there was no good result and they reached a divorce. She wanted the child, but he got angry and scolded her, but didn't give it. He felt that she wouldn't want it, just said. He felt that the only thing he did wrong was to be poor, so that she wanted to use this cruelest way to treat the marriage for no reason.
She once thought that if she hadn't insisted on getting a divorce, they wouldn't have divorced. He had already thought of a script to live together forever. He thought that if she could live in poverty and live with him through those messy days, would she usher in the dawn of life?
——After many years, he unexpectedly learned that Amei was divorced——he only knew that she was divorced again, and knew nothing else.
When he learned the news, he remembered the fact that he was crushed by a motorcycle when he transported the wooden board.
He also thought that if he could really go through those messy lives, he could reach the current days of good weather and witness his children's learning and growth together?
He found that in fact, there are many couples in life, who are actually walking in the swamp, obeying the call of the sun with the trajectory of time. Maybe after that cramped period, it will get better? Can you stand in the rising sun and look into the wilderness?