"Why do you always do this? I have told you many times. I have no money anymore. If you do this, I will call the police. At worst, we will break up. This will not be good for you. Do you have to make trouble to this point? "
" You don't have to scare me like this. If you don't want to work and want your family to break up, your wife will know about it. As long as you give me the money, this is the last time. You have to believe me. I promise. It is the last time that you live your life and me live my life and we don’t believe each other.”
Case review
My surname is Chen, a rural native born in Guangxi. She is currently a manager in a supermarket chain. Although the company is not very big, she also manages hundreds of people. She has good performance and has a year of income. Although she is not a boss, she is also an envious object of many people.
My family is from the countryside and has a few brothers and sisters. I am the eldest in the family, and I am quite introverted. I have been an honest person since I was a child. I have younger brothers and sisters at home. In order to reduce the burden on the family, I dropped out of school early and went out to work outside. I have worked as a security guard, takeaway, and salesman. I do whatever I make money. Because I didn’t have a high level of education, I changed a lot of jobs and thought this was not a big deal. Later, I went to a technical school to learn some skills.
Time flies in a flash. I have reached the age of getting married and having children a few years later. However, at the beginning, because I am not good at socializing, I am introverted and don’t like to talk, and I don’t go out to play much, so I can’t find a girlfriend. Finally, after the introduction of relatives and friends, I failed in a blind date.
Finally, after a friend's introduction, I met my current wife. My wife is careless and extroverted, but she has a strong personality and is in good condition at home. She also went on blind dates but didn't see her eyes. Later, after the matchmaking of friends from both sides, we met.
Although my family is in rural areas, my conditions are not good, and I am introverted, but because I look okay and have a tall figure, my wife thought I was different from other men, and I am more reliable and down-to-earth, so I like it more. After slowly dating and getting to know each other, we finally started dating and finally got together.
After we got together, because my wife's family is rich and powerful, with the help of her in-laws, she became the manager of this supermarket chain and successfully entered the management position. I, who was originally introverted, gradually became lively. Later, we had two children, and it seemed that my family was happy and fulfilling, and everyone envied me.
But in fact, although my wife doesn’t manage me much in terms of financial affairs, she always talks about it because of her children’s education and other trivial matters in life. Fortunately, I just tolerated it at the beginning. After this incident in the next few years, and now she has risen in her career, our relationship is getting worse and worse, and we always quarrel.
It was almost at this time that secretary Huang Min walked into my sight. Huang Min is 25 years old this year and is my secretary. She has just graduated from college and is beautiful and tall. She is meticulous in her daily life and often helps me in her career, making me feel as if I were in water.
Some time ago, after we finished the meeting, we drank some wine while going out for dinner. I told her about the trivial matters and worries of the family. From then on, she kept comforting me. Huang Min's meticulous care formed a sharp contrast with his wife at home. So from that day on, we secretly chose to be together.
But not long after, Huang Min started asking me for money. From the first three hundred to the next few thousand, more and more excessive, and threatened that she had photos of us together. If I didn't give it to her, I would post these photos to the Internet, the company, and my wife, and also accused me of raping him, saying that there was a lot of evidence in her phone. After hearing her say this, I had no choice but to compromise. Later, I gave her tens of thousands of dollars and thought he could satisfy him.
At first I thought it was just like that. I had no relationship with her, but I didn't expect that everyone was not satisfied. She was not satisfied and always made excuses to ask me if I wanted this or that, saying that she was not enough to spend this little money. If I don't agree to her, she would expose me. In the end, I couldn't stand it and could only choose to call the police, because I was afraid that if this continued, my family would be destroyed.
Does Xiao Chen constitute the crime of rape?
Objectively, the crime of rape must use violence, coercion or other means to make women unable to resist, dare not resist, ignorant of resisting, or take advantage of women who are in a state of unawareness and inability to resist and take the opportunity to commit adultery.
The so-called violent means refer to illegally exercise tangible means of the victim's personal body, that is, directly using means of beating, binding, gaging, choking, and pressing the victim's women to endanger personal safety or personal freedom, so that women dare not resist.
to the end
originally changed his destiny through his own efforts and lived a life that everyone envied. He was successful in his career and his family was also relatively happy. However, due to temporary mistakes and confusion, who can we blame the current ending? Therefore, I advise all men who want to cheat must be vigilant not to let such a tragedy happen.
