The old lady is 72 years old and is a retired teacher. She now has a retirement salary of more than 5,000 yuan a month. One morning, her son and daughter-in-law went to work. The mother-in-law suddenly came to the house and knelt in front of the old lady and said: Sister, I beg you to live in a nursing home! If you don't leave, you will make my daughter angry to death.
The old lady's wife died more than ten years ago. The son sold the old house they lived in and exchanged it for a big house, so that the old lady could live with them.
The old lady said that she sometimes did things seriously and even a little stubborn, but she never treated her daughter-in-law as an outsider, and would not intentionally make her daughter-in-law angry. So the mother-in-law suddenly said this and made the old lady a little confused!
The mother-in-law said that her daughter often cried to her and told her that the old lady made her angry at home every day. She said that her daughter likes light food, while the old lady cooks big fish and meat every day. Her daughter dislikes to eat tofu and eggs the most. The old lady makes eggs and tofu . She also said that the old lady plays Buddhist scriptures at home all day and burns incense, which makes the house similar to the temple, and is in a mess!
The mother-in-law said to the old lady: You are so old, don’t be ignorant. If you continue to do this at home, you will either make my daughter angry or force my daughter to divorce your son.
When the mother-in-law left, she left a few leaflets for the nursing home for the old lady, so that the old lady could take a closer look and choose which one to choose. The mother-in-law talked in front of the old lady for more than an hour, but the old lady didn't say anything. The old lady said that she didn't refute that the mother-in-law didn't think what the mother-in-law said was reasonable, but was so angry that she couldn't speak.
The old lady didn't recover from her mother-in-law's death after she left. She didn't expect that she had no quarrel with her daughter-in-law. However, her daughter-in-law had this idea in her mind. She always regarded this family as her own home, but her daughter-in-law regarded her as an outsider!
The old lady said that half a year ago her eldest grandson gave birth to a fat boy. She was happy to see another generation of people in the family. She also gave her daughter-in-law 50,000 yuan because she couldn't buy gifts, so she gave her daughter-in-law 50,000 yuan and asked her daughter-in-law to take the money to the eldest grandson directly. However, at that time, the daughter-in-law and the eldest grandson did not propose to let the old lady go over and take a look at the child. She thought it was because of the epidemic, and now it seems that the daughter-in-law hates her.
The house my son lives in now is bought by buying the old lady's old house with some money. In other words, most of the money for buying a house is paid by the old lady. A few years ago, my son had not had enough money to change a car, so the old lady gave her another 150,000 yuan.
The old lady felt that she had no place to be sorry for her son and daughter-in-law. As for the cooking problem mentioned by her mother-in-law, the old lady said that she was old and her taste might deteriorate and the food always tasted light, so it was because it added salt?
The daughter-in-law doesn’t like to eat fish and meat, but her son likes to eat. She thinks that she spends her own money on buying vegetables anyway. She buys more when she likes to eat. She is also worried that her daughter-in-law will not be able to keep up with the nutrition of not eating fish and meat, so she makes egg tofu every day, but she doesn’t eat fish or meat, but she doesn’t eat egg tofu. The old lady said she really can’t remember what else can she eat to ensure nutrition?
The old lady said that in the past 10 years he had been at his son's house, he had basically contracted cleaning and cooking, and never asked them for money to buy vegetables. His son and his daughter-in-law never gave money to the old lady during festivals. The daughter-in-law could buy about two or three pieces of clothes for the old lady a year, all of which were dozens of dollars each.
Usually, after the son and daughter-in-law come back to have dinner, the old lady washes the dishes. When they chat, the old lady doesn't interrupt. After the housework is done, she goes downstairs to take a walk. She can't figure out how she usually has so little time to meet her daughter-in-law. How can she annoy her daughter-in-law like this? She even wanted to go to a nursing home!
The old lady felt so frustrated and uncomfortable when she lay on the bed after her mother-in-law left. She originally planned to call and ask her son what she thought? Does my son want to send her to a nursing home? But she was worried that after she asked this, her son would get angry with his daughter-in-law again. When the two quarreled, they would really divorce. She really had to take responsibility for the divorce of her son and daughter-in-law!
So the old lady wants to call her son but dare not call her!
When the old lady's wife passed away, she left her 700,000 yuan. Her pension in recent years, in addition to changing her son's car and red envelopes for her great-grandson, she also had daily expenses, and she could save 300,000 yuan.
the old lady said she didn't want to live in her son's house. She was afraid of making her daughter-in-law sick or asking for divorce from her son. She now has 1 million yuan. Should she buy a small yard and hire a nanny? Or should I live in a nursing home like my mother-in-law said?
