Introduction
Because of two ordinary silver earrings, my cousin Xiaofeng wants to divorce her husband. Let’s listen to her story:
I am Xiaofeng, 38 years old this year. My husband and I broke up some time ago. Because of two silver earrings, we both want to divorce.
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You may think I'm too big a question, either two earrings or silver earrings, not gold, and not much money, so why would I have a divorce?
Actually, I was just angry, and this is because of the two earrings.
Things have to start a few years ago. I just got married at that time. Before I got married, I was a person who liked jewelry and beautiful jade.
Since I graduated from work, I will save a portion of my salary when I get it, and the remaining money will be used to buy some jewelry.
When I’m fine, I like to wear it and beautify it. When I’m going to get married, there are dozens of big and small pieces.
At that time, I would give three gold when I got married. My husband also bought me necklaces, rings, and earrings. I like it very much. My parents also gave me a set and said that I was going to get married, which was my dowry.
This time, I had more babies. I was so happy at that time. During the wedding ceremony, I wore the necklace given to me by my mother-in-law and took a lot of photos.
Sometimes I also wear what my mother gave me. I like them and always like to wear them with different clothes.
I got pregnant shortly after getting married. Later, when I was about to have a baby, I cleaned up the house and went to the hospital.
Thinking of my box of treasures, I thought that if I went to the hospital and my home was empty, if a little thief came in, the loss would be great. It would be better to rent a safe in the bank and put all these things in. It would be safe.
At the same time, the child is young, so it is not convenient for me to wear a necklace to take care of the child, so I discussed this with my husband.
He didn't object, so I went to the bank to handle the safe business and later put all my treasures in it.
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After giving birth, we had a family party and we had dinner together. During this period, my aunt and sister asked me why I didn’t see me wearing necklaces recently.
I originally wanted to say that I had a child, but I put it away, and my husband almost told me about renting a safe in the bank.
my aunt asked me about the safe. Later, she asked if she could hand over the jewelry she didn't wear often to me and put it in my safe. Anyway, my safe was not full.
involves the issue of valuable jewelry. Actually, I don’t want to agree, but before I could say it, my husband agreed.
At my house, I found that my husband listened to my mother-in-law and sister-in-law the most. He never violated their words, or had any opinions, and always obeyed his advice and followed suit.
This time my husband agreed to the safe, so I made an appointment with my aunt and sister-in-law and asked her to take the things she wanted to put in the safe and put them in together.
She doesn’t have that many hand accessories, just a small bag. I didn't look carefully, so I helped her put it in. I was stupid enough to take a photo.
Later, the matter was done. After coming out, my aunt and sister-in-law said she wanted to treat me to a meal, so I said there was no need. It happened that something happened, so she went home.
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This happened for two years. My child was about to go to kindergarten, so I slowly put on the jewelry again.
Another time, we all had a meal together, my aunt and sister sat opposite me, she kept looking at me, and I felt something was wrong.
"Sister, are you doing something? Why are you looking at me all the time?" I was straightforward and asked my sister directly.
"Yeah, that's it, you, why are you carrying my necklace around your neck!" My aunt and sister-in-law hesitated, but I still understood.
"Sister, is this my necklace?" I was a little confused.
"Well, take a closer look. Did you get the wrong one from the safe?" The eldest sister didn't bother to
and her husband and mother-in-law next to her, "Yes, did you mess up? You two of you put the jewelry together and just give it to her if you make a mistake. They are all a family!"
"How is it possible, am I such a person?" I was also furious.
They don’t say that I’m not bad, but I’m a little angry when I say this. Don’t I know my own things? I haven't moved the things she asked me to put, so how could I take her things?
I also asked my husband and asked him to think about it carefully. This necklace belongs to mine, not to my sister-in-law at all. It was bought by my mother-in-law and him when we got married. We chose it together in the mall.
But my husband and mother-in-law told me that they couldn't remember it after a long time, so I was even more angry.
They said this, and my aunt insisted that I took her things. I was so angry that I went back without eating that day.
Why did my husband blame me for being so arrogant when he got home at night? How can I not get angry about this kind of thing?
Later, I had an idea and found all the photos from when I got married, which proved that the necklace belonged to me.
I found the photos of me wearing this necklace one by one, and then posted them all in the family group. In this way, everyone knows that the necklace belongs to mine, not to my sister-in-law.
I was also very angry after this incident and told my husband that he would tell my aunt and sister-in-law that she would take away the jewelry she put in my safe so that she would avoid misunderstandings in the future.
Later, my sister-in-law took away her jewelry, and the necklace incident came to an end. I thought everything was taken away and there would be no such thing happen again, so we should walk around and walk around.
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But some time ago, my aunt came over and asked again and said that her pair of silver earrings were missing, and it should be here with me.
She didn't ask me if I had it, but asked me to give it to her directly. I was confused at the time. Didn't everything be given to her these few years ago? Why is it still here with me?
I directly refused, saying that I had never seen any earrings of her at all. When my husband comes back in the evening, before I say anything, my husband says if you take your sister’s earrings, return them to her.
It would be fine if others don’t believe it, but my husband doesn’t believe it. I told her that she had paid off all her things a few years ago? Why do I have her stuff?
I was so angry at the necklace incident at that time that I returned everything to her and had nothing to do with. Now, I am naturally very angry.
I asked my husband, "A few years ago, I sent all the photos of my necklaces to her, and later, have you forgotten the return of her jewelry?"
My husband touched his glasses and pondered for a moment, and said something that made me angry, "I have no impression after a long time!"
I really want to curse people. It's only been a few years, and even the memory of a fish is not that short. Those things are unforgettable to me, but my husband actually said it lightly and had no impression of it.
I was completely speechless, I lay in bed without saying a word. My husband came over and asked me, "If you really take it, return it to her."
"I didn't take it, I've never seen her earrings. Get out of me, the farther you go, the better." I pushed him out of the room.
My husband was still angry, saying it was worth it for an earring? Or buy another pair.
"You like to buy, you go and buy, buy whatever you want." I replied to him loudly.
"Buy it, I'll go tomorrow!" My husband was also annoyed. After a while, I heard him mumble and call his elder sister-in-law. I didn't let him into the bedroom that night.
Early the next morning, I was about to get up to go to work and was washing up. My husband said, "Oh, my elder sister's earrings are customized by their marriage. I just bought them and don't know where to buy them! Did you really not get them?"
I was a little angry last night, and I was a little crazy when I heard him say this. "I said it 100 times, I didn't see you, I didn't see you!"
They wronged me again and again, took their things, and treated me as someone. It would be fine if my husband didn't stand my position, but he also wronged me with them, and he still doubted me now.
Over the years, I have never respected me. I always don’t discuss anything with me and run over to ask my elder sister-in-law and mother-in-law.
If we have different opinions, he always takes their own terms. I have had enough of these days. This earring incident completely hurt my heart!
My husband and I asked him to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau with me.
divorce cooling-off period persuaded me to withdraw, but this thorn is still in my heart and cannot be pulled out. Do you think I can forgive him?
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