Frostfall, my husband and I were busy planting rapeseed in the field. When my son is in college, we have to do more, so we can help my son get married and other things in the future.
When the sun was about to set, the rapeseed seedlings on our hands were about to be planted. Unexpectedly, when my husband got up, he suddenly turned dizzy, and then he couldn't hold on and fell on the ridge of the field. My legs were so scared that my legs became weak, thanks to the neighbors who came to help take my husband to the hospital when they heard the news.
disease is caused by hypertension. (We didn't have the awareness to go for a physical examination) Fortunately, I was sent to the hospital in time and my husband woke up. However, unfortunately, it is still hemiplegia .
After being discharged from the hospital, although my husband did not fall into bed, he could not control the balance of walking due to hemiplegia, so he had to have a dedicated person to serve him.
My husband is hemiplegic, but our family is almost completely paralyzed.
Son wants to go to school, husband needs to serve, how can I do the work in the field? When we treat my husband, our pitiful savings soon came to an end. What should we do if the family expenses are done? Children need money for schooling; husbands need money for later treatment; even the basic expenses at home also need money.
I was so worried that I couldn't sleep at night.
What’s even more annoying is that my husband can’t raise the enthusiasm for life. He always thinks about dying, saying that if he dies, he doesn’t have to become a burden to us.
In order to prevent my husband from doing stupid things, I kept guarding him.
My son also cried and said he would not study anymore.
How is this possible?
Then why can I live?
It is really not easy for my husband and I to get to where we are today!
When I was young, I was a flower in the village. It would be no problem for the young man who chased me to bring me over and make a table together. My parents and I were so happy that we were smiling. My mother said I had to open my eyes and choose a good man. A girl’s marriage is equivalent to a springboard. If she jumps well, she will be full of flowers; if she doesn’t jump well, she may be full of thorns.
of course I have to open my eyes wide.
is a good fortune. I haven’t chosen a good partner yet. For some reason, I got a strange disease, and I had a rash on my body, which was very itchy. I went to the village barefoot doctor and got the medicine, but it didn't get better.
The rumors in the village said that I must be inappropriate and had a dirty disease, which made me dare not even go out.
Those young men who kept saying they loved me forever suddenly disappeared from the world. Only the inconspicuous Lu Daming came to see me and firmly wanted to take me to the county town for medical treatment.
cause makes me laugh and cry.
Doctor asked me what I ate different things than usual? I thought about it for a long time and ate mango. A relative in my family who worked in another place hasn’t come back for many years. I brought mango back and each relative was divided into some.
Doctor said I was just allergic to mangoes.
My day, so many people are fine after eating, but I don’t know that I’m allergic to it.
True love is revealed in times of adversity, Lu Daming captured my heart, although he was not outstanding in the team chasing me.
I only found out later that Lu Daming was actually dealing with me under a lot of pressure, and his parents also firmly opposed it. Which girl with dirty diseases dares to marry?
On the wedding night, looking at the little bits of red on the bed, Lu Daming laughed at me, "You didn't happen to anyone else, where did you get dirty?"
my face turned red to the bottom of my neck, how could I understand! Isn't it because of ignorance?
Lu Daming smiled at me for many years.
When I was sick, Lu Daming and I had never held hands, and he could share weal and woe with me under pressure; now, we have been married for twenty years, but we have been sick but let me leave. So where is my conscience?
I tried hard to persuade: Although you are sick, your child has a father, I have a husband, and we are still a whole family, which is better than anything else. Besides, there is no hurdle in this world that cannot be overcome. Once you endure it, all the hard days will be over.
My husband finally gave up the idea of dying.
What follows is the difficulty of life.
Fortunately, the child is very successful. After he reported the situation to the teacher, the teacher found him a job in the school cafeteria, which can solve his living expenses. During the winter and summer vacations, he worked odd jobs outside by himself, and he could barely solve the tuition fees.
I don’t have to worry about my son, but my husband and I still have to live, and I still have to work in the fields. So, I had to give up the place far away from home, and I still had to plant the place close to home. While taking good care of my husband, I could at least get enough food and clothing.
The transformation was caused by the time I gave my husband a haircut.
Since my husband got sick, he rarely wanted to go out to see people. One is inconvenient walking, and the other is inferiority complex. It was so difficult to get him to take care of his hair once. But he is a patient, and his hair is even more decadent. He cannot be without energy.
has to go to the town to get a haircut. If you have to take a bus, you have to walk a while. It is really not an easy task for a sick husband, so he is very reluctant.
I had a sudden whim: I might as well learn haircuts. Not only can I cut my husband's hair, I may also be able to open a barber shop to make money.
As soon as I said this, the neighbors couldn't help laughing, "You are forty-five years old. You really have to learn to play the drummer when you are 80 years old. You'd better stop making trouble and take good care of your old man."
My husband also thinks I'm just making a fool of himself.
It’s okay, my son supports me: the best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now.
I decided to learn.
A person who works hard will be particularly favored by God. I found the boss who often went to get a haircut for my husband and explained my purpose. The boss was moved. In order to facilitate my care of my husband, he also bought me a small house and provided us with a place to stay.
After studying for three months, I can do the hairstyle myself.
Maybe it was my efforts that moved God. I thought that when I wanted to open a store, the master happened to have the opportunity to go out to develop, so the store was transferred to me.
But even if the master gave me a great deal, I don’t have that much money.
Master said that she could trust me because of my kindness, so she gave me credit. She said I was counting on the store to live and would definitely run it well.
I don’t know if I saved the Milky Way in my previous life. My master taught me the skills and even made the shop on credit. If I don’t do it well, I will pay my master’s money, so how can I have the face to live in this world?
had old customers before the store, so the business was still good.
Master's actions also moved my husband. In order to pay back the master's money as soon as possible, my husband also pushed his feet to help me do something within his ability. Because he is a disabled person, sometimes he doesn't blame him for his poor or slowness.
My husband is becoming more and more confident. His illness has improved a lot. Although he is still sterile, he can throw down his crutches.
When I meet customers who ask for a new hairstyle, I strive to communicate with them more, and gradually my skills become more and more skilled.
By opening a store, we not only paid back the master's capital, but also gradually made savings, and our lives were getting better and better.
When my son got married, we were able to give him a bride price of 80,000 yuan to solve the urgent problem.
Now, ten years have passed, my barber shop is still there, and it is probably impossible for my husband to have good legs, but he no longer feels inferior.
Looking back over the years, it is really not easy for us. At the age of 45, I was dragging a sick husband. I learned craftsmanship and earned money to make life better and better. I was really quite emotional.
Home is difficult, but there is really no hurdle that cannot be overcome. ‘If husband and wife work together, their advantage will be cut off.’ The ancients really did not deceive me.
Honestly my story can warm all those in adversity.
