Real-life adaptation, a true story that happened in our village.
Ma Xiaohua was born in a rural family in Gansu and has a poor family. Although life has been a little harder, her parents love her very much, and they are all close to her when they are delicious and delicious. It can be considered a happy childhood.
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Happiness came to an abrupt end when she was 17 years old. At the age of 17, he has grown into a big girl like a flower. Maybe it was because of the poor family since childhood, she was not very tall and even a little short, but she was also pretty and pretty.
80 In the 1990s, it was generally early for rural areas to get married. Xiaohua's parents also began to care about Xiaohua's marriage, and they were doing everything they wanted to find a good family for her. After a few marriages, it was not very satisfactory: either the man disliked Xiaohua for being short and looked down upon, or the younger Hua’s parents looked down upon others.
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Suddenly one day, the matchmaker brought a strange man into the village. When he found out that Xiaohua was looking for her husband's house, he led the man into her house and asked Xiaohua's parents to see how the young man was. The young man's name is Daquan. He is not tall, thin, and a little dark.
Xiaohua's parents looked like a young man and were shorter, but they were quite compatible with Xiaohua. However, when they heard that the young man was from another place, they immediately disagreed and thought they had married too far and had no one to take care of him.
Xiaohua was not disgusted with this young man, and finally agreed to the marriage under the soft conspiracy of the matchmaker.
Soon Xiaohua came to Shandong with the young man, came to our village, and got married soon.
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When I first got married, although my family was poor, the two of them were very loving and had a happy time. But half a year has passed, but Xiaohua's belly has not been moved for a long time.
Daquan's parents have been seeing each other for so long, and before Xiaohua is pregnant, she asked Daquan to take Xiaohua to the hospital for a look. After a check-up at the hospital, I found that Xiaohua had problems with her ovary and she was infertile for life.
In the countryside, in that era, not being able to get pregnant was a big deal. There are three things that are said to be unfilial, and if you have no descendants, you will be gossiped by others if you cannot have children.
After learning that Xiaohua could not get pregnant, Daquan seemed to have become a different person and began to neglect Xiaohua. Daquan's parents also disliked Xiaohua everywhere and did not give her a good look.
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Xiaohua lives in pain and self-blame every day, believing that it is her fault that she cannot have a child. She also thought about leaving, but in that era when "marrying a chicken and following a chicken, marrying a dog and following a dog", Xiaohua still compromised.
Can't get the love of her man, her parents don't like it, her brothers and sisters look down on her, and Xiaohua lives very unhappy, but she is still happy in front of outsiders, but who knows the pain behind Xiaohua?
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. Since marrying from afar, Xiaohua has only returned to her parents' home three times, two of which were to see off her parents.
Later, Xiaohua found out that she had cirrhosis and her stomach was so swollen. But the man refused to treat her illness on the grounds that his family had no money, but simply bought her some pain-relieving medicine. A month later, the little flower lying on the bed was freed and left this cold world.
And the people in the village seemed to not know the existence of Xiaohua, and did not show any sympathy and sadness. There was only one more topic of conversation before and after the meal.
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