This is a story that happened in rural northern areas. The man Daguang and Xiaomei had just been married for a few days, but unexpectedly, Xiaomei disappeared. After searching, Daguang learned that Xiaomei had run away with another man. What is going on in
? Why do newlywed wives elope with other men?
Da Guang is a young man in rural northern China. He is quite honest and handsome. He is very energetic, but he is in his twenties and does not have a wife yet. For this reason, Da Guang's mother has asked for help many people, but she just doesn't have the right one.
Hard work pays off. With Daguang's mother's continuous arrangement, the matchmaker finally came to Xiaomei, a girl from the neighboring village, and soon arranged a blind date.
Xiaomei has clear eyebrows and thin face, thin lips. Although she does not have heavy makeup, her thin face shows delicate shyness. Seeing Da Guang's heart is like a deer bumping around, pounding and pounding.
After returning home, the matchmaker asked Daguang what he meant, and Daguang immediately expressed his opinion that he was very willing and just waited for Xiaomei to reply.
After a few days, Xiaomei didn't respond. Daguang thought Xiaomei didn't like him, and his mother also said that the other party had never replied, probably because he didn't want to, so the mother and son no longer had any hope.
Unexpectedly, a few days later, the matchmaker came and replied, saying that the woman wanted to see Daguang again.
This is the blind date process in rural areas. The first meeting is the beginning. If you talk a few words, you will leave. If both parties have any intention, arrange a second meeting.
After meeting Xiaomei again, Xiaomei also replied, willing to date Daguang. The relationship was settled, and Daguang and his mother were so happy that they couldn't stop. Daguang's mother gave the matchmaker a big red envelope and bought a few things to express her gratitude. This is also the matchmaker's plan to make a living now. After the relationship between
is determined, Daguang will go to Xiaomei’s house to give gifts during various festivals. This is a custom, and then it is to take Xiaomei to the city to play, shop, park, etc. But every time I took Xiaomei out to play, Xiaomei didn't speak much. Daguang took the initiative to speak all the way, and Xiaomei always followed suit. Daguang felt that Xiaomei didn't like to speak and never cared too much.
A year later, in early winter, I chose a good day. With the arrangement of both parents, Daguang and Xiaomei got married.
Daguang was so happy on the day of the wedding that Daguang couldn't stop. Facing the toasts from relatives and friends, Daguang did not refuse. He drank himself drunk, thinking of the beautiful bride Xiaomei, and looking forward to a bright future in his heart. But who knew that just when he was immersed in the joy of his newlyweds, a sudden blow overturned Daguang's life. So what happened?
01. The bride disappeared
Get married for three days. According to the custom at that time, the woman had to go back to her parents' home to live for a few days, and then the man would take his wife back in a few days. The woman returns to her parents' home, for three days, six days, nine days, and half a month, then the man takes his wife back. This begins a normal life.
That day, Xiaomei, like other newly married daughters-in-law, cleaned up herself and brought a bag, which contained some clothes, so she went back to her parents' home. Unexpectedly, she disappeared when she went there.
Da Guang was worried that Xiaomei would be alone, so he personally sent Xiaomei to the entrance of the village. He saw the villagers and went home.
After three days, Daguang couldn't help but pick Xiaomei up and was about to pick her up again. If Xiaomei didn't come back, she would go there again in two days.
made up his mind and Daguang happily rode his bicycle to pick up Xiaomei. However, when he arrived at Xiaomei's house, Xiaomei's family said that Xiaomei had gone back early in the morning.
Daguang felt a little anxious when he heard Xiaomei’s family say this, and thought to himself that he had gone the wrong way with Xiaomei? He quickly rode his bicycle and rushed back.
Who knew that after getting home, he still didn't see Xiaomei. Daguang went to his relatives and friends to inquire, but he had never seen Xiaomei. He went to the village entrance to ask the old men and aunts at the entrance of the village, and they all said that he had never seen the newcomers enter the village because the people coming in and out were remembered clearly by anyone.
After some search, Daguang returned to Xiaomei's house. When Xiaomei's family heard that Xiaomei was missing, they looked at each other, as if they were a little surprised and disappointed, but no one showed the same anxious as Daguang.
Daguang was so anxious that he wanted to call the police, but was stopped by Xiaomei's mother. After a sigh, Xiaomei's mother cursed fiercely: "This incompetent girl!" Then she told the truth.
02. The secret of the bride
It turned out that Xiaomei had a boyfriend before she met Daguang, but she rarely met Xiaomei's family due to work reasons. Even Xiaomei's mother has only met twice.
The family didn't know anything about this man, so naturally they disagree with Xiaomei's relationship with this man. Later, Xiaomei's mother asked a matchmaker to introduce a partner, which is the current Daguang. Under the pressure of her family, Xiaomei had to choose to date Daguang, but who knew that Xiaomei, the stubborn girl, never cut off contact with that man. This time, she must have run away with that man in the name of returning to her parents' home. No one knows a girl better than a mother. Xiaomei’s mother’s guess is correct. Xiaomei has never really cut off contact with that man, and this time she made an appointment with the man when she was back to her parents’ home to take her away.
Daguang heard this and stood there stupidly, hating her heart, blaming Xiaomei's mother, knowing that she didn't want to, she forced her to marry me. Now, she ran away.
The helpless army returned home in frustration, staring at Xizi on the wall inside the house in a daze, and suddenly thought of the gift money received from the marriage. Daguang quickly went to look through the wardrobe where the gift money was stored. There was no trace of the gift money. It seemed that Xiaomei was not leaving empty-handed.
It doesn’t matter if Xiaomei leaves. The gifts have to be paid back, but they are debts. As their parents are getting older, what other abilities can they have to bear for themselves?
The more I thought about it, the more angry I went to Xiaomei’s parents to ask for an explanation and asked for a refund of the bride price. But the money you get is not that easy to get. Every time Daguang goes, Xiaomei's parents know that they are in the wrong and keep saying good things. If they really don't work, they kneel down to Daguang.
Da Guang is an honest child, how could he bear this? Seeing that his wife was gone, the bride price was not returned, and the gift money was gone, and he still owed a lot of debts. In a hurry, Da Guang decided to go to the south to find Xiaomei to ask for an explanation.
made up his mind. Daguang asked for a few days and finally found out the route Xiaomei took when she left. According to inference, Xiaomei went to a city in the south. From Xiaomei’s parents, he learned that the man Xiaomei had dated before was from this city, and Xiaomei must have gone to the city in the south.
03. The road to finding a wife
After having a direction, Daguang arranged his home. After the Spring Festival, he embarked on the road to finding a wife in the south.
When I arrived here for a month, Daguang spent almost all his money. If this continues, he will soon lose money. I didn’t expect that the city will spend so quickly.
But soon Daguang changed his method. With his strength, he found a job on the construction site. In this way, Daguang worked on the construction site during the day, and after get off work, he walked around the city one by one. He said that he was looking for it, but in fact he was aimlessly trying his luck. After all, in such a big city, finding someone is like finding a needle in a haystack.
Unconsciously, the situation of more than half a year passed quickly. It won’t take long to get the Spring Festival again. Daguang is still aimlessly looking for a certain street every night.
One day, one of Daguang's workers had an accident. Daguang and several workers took him to the hospital. On the way back, when crossing the overpass, there were several beggars begging. Daguang took out a few one-yuan coins as usual, and each person gave them one.
Just as Daguang put the last coin in the hand of a thin beggar in the corner, a familiar feeling instantly flowed in Daguang's memory.
Daguang was stunned at first, then carefully looked at the thin beggar in front of him, his face full of dirt, his eye sockets were deep, and his hair was wrapped around by a broken hemp rope a few times, covering half of his face in a mess.
Daguang shouted softly: "Xiaomei"
The thin beggar in front of him looked at Daguang in horror, stunned and at a loss.
04. The beggar's wife
After a long time, the beggar whispered a few words from his mouth: "I'm sorry, I was wrong." After saying that, she burst into tears and cried in dismay. She was the Xiaomei that Da Guangming was looking for.
Daguang felt angry, but when he saw Xiaomei's current appearance, he forced himself to hold back the anger in his heart, took her to the place where he lived, and washed up.
So how did Xiaomei become like this?
It turns out that Xiaomei had been secretly in touch with the man before getting married. After getting married, under the instigation of the man, she elopes with the man when she returned to her parents' home and took away Daguang's family.
The day after she came to this city with the man, the man disappeared with the money Xiaomei brought. When Xiaomei realized that it was too late, she was penniless and thought of going home, but she felt embarrassed to go back, so she kept it with her teeth. Because there was no change of clothes, less and less and less and less and less willing to hire her to work, and later she started begging for a living.
Daguang listened to her explanation and did not say too much. He took her back to his hometown a few days later.
After returning home, Daguang sent her home directly and left without saying much.
Da Guang made up his mind and decided to take Xiaomei to divorce in two days.
The news that Xiaomei was found home by Daguang soon spread in the village. Daguang's parents asked Daguang why he didn't take Xiaomei back.
Daguang told his parents about his thoughts, but his parents unanimously opposed it and persuaded Daguang not to divorce.
After a period of psychological struggle, Daguang felt much more at ease. Although he did not go to divorce, he did not mean to take Xiaomei back.
A few days later, Xiaomei's parents asked someone to come to Daguang's parents and brought the bride price that Daguang gave them when he married Xiaomei. They felt sorry for Daguang and offered to him that no matter whether Daguang wanted Xiaomei or not, they would return the bride price to Daguang's parents.
Daguang's parents are also honest people. They are also afraid that Daguang will not find a wife after divorce. After all, they live in a feudal countryside, so they do various ideological work for Daguang, and finally convinced Daguang and accepted Xiaomei again.
Ending:
The story ends here. The deeds in the story tell us that when pursuing love, you must see clearly what love looks like.
Blind pursuit can only harm others and yourself, and the ones who end up hurting themselves and their family.
also tells us that if you take the wrong path, you should look back in time. If you don’t know how to put your composure and don’t know how to look back, it will only be harder and harder to go.
Do you think Daguang should forgive Xiaomei?
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