As a college student who finally got out of the town, Lingling has always been the pride of her family and relatives. Whether it is true or false, everyone thinks she will have a great future. After graduation, Lingling stayed in the city where she was in college, feeling that she would definitely make a breakthrough. However, several years have passed, and love, career, and deposits in RV , Lingling still achieved nothing...
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At that time, Lingling didn't know that her situation was the norm in life. It was rare for a young man without any foundation to break through the predicament in a short period of time. It was precisely because she didn't understand that Lingling felt frustrated and felt that she might not be suitable for wandering outside, and it might be more beneficial to go back to her hometown, so she quit her job, returned to her rent, packed her luggage and embarked on the road back home. When she first returned home, Lingling felt an inexplicable sense of superiority, as if she had returned home in glory, and felt that everyone in her hometown should look up to her. However, soon, Lingling was poured into cold water on her head because it was difficult to find a job in her hometown. As for the rest, it was either inappropriate or had a low salary. No matter what the situation was, Lingling didn't want to choose, so she was said to be a high-minded person.
Because he was 28 years old when he returned home, Lingling's job had not yet settled, but she was facing the urge to get married. The relatives also advised: "Silly daughter, you are not young, there is no need to be so picky. When you get married, everything will be fine. If you marry a businessman, then what job can you find? Just be the boss's wife." At that time, Lingling's expectations for marriage were the same as her previous expectations for returning to her hometown, but the reality was not the case. After hearing what her relatives said, her parents asked someone to introduce a businessman to her, but the result was very bad. Faced with marriage, Lingling's sense of superiority still exists. She feels that she has seen a lot of worldly affairs and marrying anyone is a blessing for the other party. She naturally makes a request, but reality gave her another blow!
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Not only did the man's family not look down on Lingling, but he looked down on her everywhere. Not only did they not plan to buy a house and a car, they didn't even want to give a bride gift, and the reason was also very annoying. On the day when the parents of both parties discussed the marriage, the expectant mother-in-law said: "Every woman is from a family. Who knows what you have done outside? If you are really so capable, why would you run back to your hometown? After thinking about it, you must be unable to make it outside. Now you are thinking about going back to your hometown to find an honest person to get married. Of course, I have sufficient reason to think that you are a unclean woman. If my son hadn't taken a fancy to you, I would never have agreed to this marriage. I have the face to mention this and that, which is really a big laugh!" Lingling certainly knew that she was not such a person, but she was so angry that she couldn't even say a word.
Lingling's face turned red and she left the seat angrily. However, what's even more annoying is that her parents did not stand on her side, but instead stood on the man's side, trying to make her compromise and let her get married with the suffice. Helplessly, Lingling had to choose to leave her hometown again because her hometown was really not suitable for her. This was not because she was noble, but because she adapted to life outside and it was difficult for her to adapt to life in her hometown. Lingling thought it very clearly. If she could only stay in her hometown, she would have to adapt slowly. But now there are obviously other ways to go, so why not choose the life she likes? Some people said before that Lingling couldn't survive outside. This time she left, and those people said that she would regret it sooner or later, and even speculated about her marriage, saying that she not only achieved nothing, but she would not be able to marry in the future...
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For those annoying voices, Lingling couldn't make them disappear. She could only comfort herself as much as possible and told herself not to care too much. After all, no one knows what will happen for the rest of her life. However, after experiencing these things, Lingling made it clear that she would no longer preset everything that had not happened too beautifully, so that she would not be so proud...
