One day, a student who did not complete his homework came to Teacher Wang in Chinese, "Teacher, I didn't finish my homework. I didn't mean it. I have a reason. Why can't you forgive me? In this way, you reason with me. If I can convince me, I will no longer delay my homework in the future."
After hearing the student's words, Teacher Wang drove him away.
The student came to Teacher Zhang, who asked the same question again. After hearing this, Teacher Zhang smiled and said, "Okay, stand on one foot, I will only say one sentence so that you won't get tired. Be prepared." The teacher finally said, "You didn't complete your homework, it was not intentional. This time you forgive yourself. You will have all kinds of reasons in the future. Come and cool yourself."
After hearing this sentence, the student thought a little, seemed to understand a little, and copied the text that he had pulled down ten times.
extends Teacher Zhang’s meaning: if you can forgive yourself in everything, you will always live in the thinking of “self-forgive” and achieve nothing.
There are often such things in life, "I just have a minor problem of fishing for three days and two days of drying the Internet. I can't change it. There is really nothing I can do, but it didn't delay the big thing." He forgave himself while saying that. However, the so-called three-day fishing and two-day drying network is because I do not have persistent perseverance, or have broken my promise, that is, I have deceived myself.
When someone breaks the appointment, most people will say angrily, "This guy doesn't keep his word!" When others break the agreement with you, you will be very angry, and when you break your agreement, you often don't go into it.
Pickpocket stole something and thought to himself, "Please forgive me, I'm hungry, I have to steal something to fill my hunger." When someone steals his things, he angrily says, "This damn thief!"
Therefore, if you attach great importance to yourself, you must reflect on yourself, don't just ask others, be able to forgive your own affairs, and forgive others, "Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you."
