It has been ten years since mid-autumn came to Zhengzhou. After October 14th, he was thirty-nine years old. Now he is still alone and a single man.
Ten years ago, he could not bear the pressure of work and life in Guangzhou and fled in a hurry. He felt that the pressure would be less when he returned to Zhengzhou, at least he would not be difficult to find a girlfriend to get married and have children.
result, he felt he was hasty. Although it is all over the world, the routines in all cities are the same. In Zhengzhou, he has participated in countless blind dates, and has also been introduced by relatives and friends. He has had many girlfriends. He lived together for about five years, but every time he talked about marriage, he found that he was the other party’s spare tire.
Zhongqiu's family is in the rural area of Luohe . Two brothers have died of illness since childhood. My elder brother graduated from Normal University in his early years and taught in Zhengzhou. He successfully got married and had children without any twists and turns. Zhongqiu graduated from an unknown college and university. After graduation, he went south to Guangzhou with a big breast.
Young people have dreams and are full of longing for the future, even if they are humble. But this world is cruel. There are very few people who have no resources and connections and make their own achievements.
The sorrow of education now is to cultivate a large number of people with low education but higher aspirations, especially in big cities. In a prosperous world, he lives in a breath of lingering life.
Zhongqiu talked about his girlfriend in Guangzhou, and his fate was the same as him. The other party came from rural Hunan Yiyang . He has a low education and does not have a suitable job. He can only start with an insurance salesperson.
Sales is the cheapest job in every city, with a variety of recruitment positions, but it is also the most challenging position. Some people are forced to challenge high salaries.
Zhongqiu is such a person, with a gentle personality, lack of opinion and likes comfort. The initial ambition was exhausted by reality. Every day, it seemed like work, but it was actually escaping reality.
My girlfriend's younger brother was short of money in college. He knew that he couldn't afford it and had no nostalgia, so he broke up resolutely and turned around and started a cheap flesh-and-skin business with his sisters in the same village.
We cannot criticize people living at the bottom of moral level who are surviving. The old saying goes, don’t persuade others to be good without the suffering of others. No one is born to be inferior, but his situation is different.
Zhongqiu's work was not going well and he lost his girlfriend. He was completely disappointed and left Guangzhou in a mess. He decided to return to Zhengzhou to try his luck. After all, compared to the consumption level, Zhengzhou is better to survive.
He first rented a two-bedroom house on Fengqing Road in the north of Zhengzhou and began looking for a job. If nothing unexpected happens, the only option is sales. Without technology and high education, it seems that the choice of all cities is equally embarrassing.
He chose a pipeline company. The reason is actually very simple, that is, his basic salary is 500 yuan higher than that of other companies.
A few months later, he found a girlfriend through a blind date website. The woman is the same age as him and is also an older young woman. The two hit it off when they met, and the woman returned the house she rented and lived with Zhongqiu.
The so-called romantic love seems to be just a game for young people. When people reach their thirties, what they need is to make do with and live in vain.
The woman also comes from the rural areas of Luohe. If she has wealth or a fixed job, how many people will willingly choose to leave her hometown? Everyone has pain in their hearts that there is nowhere to tell, but it is just buried in their hearts.
The woman looks ordinary, but she is quite independent and has all her life expenses come out. As for the two of them, the women were doing contraceptive measures. I lived together for two years, and there was no relationship, but in the end I was just helpless thoughts of riding a donkey and looking for a horse.
Zhongqiu's personality is naturally honest and honest, stupid and clumsy. He is really not suitable for sales. He is suitable for specific work. He is not stupid, he has many changes in drinking and playing chess, and rarely encounters opponents. But this is useless. Sales must not be false, but real performance is required.
The woman eventually broke up with him because the other party’s family introduced her to a boyfriend. Although the other party was divorced, she worked in a county unit and had a fixed income.
The woman left quietly, but just sent him a message saying that she really couldn't see hope when she was with him, and wished him good luck. After
, Zhongqiu changed jobs frequently and was also changing girlfriends. He is not playing with feelings, he is forced to do so. When others joke and say they envy him, they can't see his sorrow.
As housing prices soar, consumption levels naturally rise. Of course, what never rises is income.
Mid-Autumn is only in his thirties, but his skin is dark and his face is a bit old, just like a person in his fifties who have experienced many vicissitudes of life. Once I took him to meet a friend, but I didn’t introduce him in advance, so my friend wanted to call him uncle.
Good people should still have good luck. After years of hard work, they finally signed the order. It was because his colleagues followed him for a long time. They were fired by the company because they were fired by the company because they were inappropriate invoking the bills. The commission for
is more than 200,000 yuan. After getting the money, he invited everyone to dinner. Everyone advised him to buy a house, saying that only if he had a house would a woman marry him.
The average house price of 10,000 or 20,000 yuan is instantly a drop in the bucket. He had nowhere to raise money, and his father worked at home and lived a tight life. Although my brother and sister-in-law are both teaching in the city and their income is stable, it is okay to take out tens of thousands, and it is not realistic to get more. To be honest, in the vast crowd, who is not short of money for ordinary people?
After thinking about it, Zhongqiu bought a car worth about 300,000 yuan and finally bid farewell to the long years of riding an electric bike. In the days after
, Zhongqiu has confidence and motivation, and has bright clothes and wears all day long to various blind dates. Blind dates are all about making money under the guise of blind dates, so no matter whether you can be paired up? When two strangers talk, there is no relationship, it is just a benefit.
In the city, without a house of your own will always be a flaw. Don’t expect any woman to have children with you in a rental house. Especially Zhongqiu is still an old man with unstable income. Now most ladies have enough chicken soup and all of them feel that they are as beautiful as flowers, golden branches and jade leaves .
Of course, he does not lack girlfriends, but he is ruthlessly abandoned after knowing the truth and then begins a new search.
See him again, with a haggard face and a lot of weight loss. In addition to his lack of a girlfriend, his work is also a mess.
Because there is no house or parking space, a heavy rain last year made his car parked by the roadside soaked, and waited for three months to repair it. What troubles him now is that when faced with the traffic police repeatedly posting notes, he doesn’t know where to park his car in so many complicated streets?
asked his girlfriend if she had any place. He smiled bitterly and said, "Looking at the sky, I am like the clouds in the sky, floating all the time."
