Recently, topics such as "unfinished buildings" and "mortgage suspension" have been on the hot search. This reminds me of my childhood - Shuangshuang
We were born in rural areas, and our family conditions are not very wealthy. When we were in elementary school, we always We go to and from school together, and every Chinese New Year we go to various houses to hang out. In junior high school, we both were admitted to the experimental class in our hometown. At that time, we were divided into classes according to our grades every year. Our grades in the first and second grades of junior high school were relatively stable. In the third grade of junior high school, she was assigned to another "experimental class." The lecturer is the same as us, but he is a good student ranked at the end of the class.
She was very strong and said: "I can get into a good high school in this class, and it will be the same wherever I study hard." She is right, it does matter where you study well, but the impact of the learning environment and atmosphere on a person is so important that as teenagers we don’t understand it at all. Later, only one person from that class went to the city center, and the others went directly to the town ordinary high school. Of course, she was not the lucky one.
After graduating from high school, she went to a junior college, a normal school. After graduating from college, I married a senior who was three years older than me at school. I was still in college at that time. Later I found out that the boy was married into their family, so her family paid most of the money to buy the house, and her husband's family had almost no burden. Ten years ago, more than 200,000 yuan was not a small sum, and their family had to scrape together everything to help pay the down payment.
She attended the wedding ceremony while more than five months pregnant. On the fifteenth day of the first lunar month of the following year, her baby daughter was born. That year, I also graduated. I first went to a real estate agency and worked as an assistant at the project site. I began to have a certain understanding of real estate projects. It turns out that not all houses can be moved in immediately after buying them, and some have not yet been moved in. Finished.
Her daughter was about two years old, and the project she was buying a house in was exposed to the risk that she might not be able to pay the loan. I advised her to sell first and then buy a second-hand house somewhere else. But seeing that the weekend packages for the house had been provided and the house price had doubled than before, she was reluctant to let it go and chose to trust the developer, believing that it would soon become their warm haven.
Seeing that their children were about to go to kindergarten and the house had not yet been purchased, they had no choice but to pool their money and buy a one-bedroom apartment of about 50 square meters. There were three generations living there, including the grandmother, the children, and the couple of them.
The child is now in the second grade of elementary school, and the house she bought when she was pregnant has not yet come down. After so many years, the house that carries the hope of a small family has not yet been handed over. If it were me, I would have collapsed a long time ago. But she is still very optimistic, always saying that no matter what, we ordinary people have to live our lives as usual and live well. Now their family is very happy. She and her husband work hard to earn money. Not only did their family buy a new apartment, they also bought a car. I admire her from the bottom of my heart.
Indeed, many unexpected things will happen in our life, and not all things will point to the light. Do you think she made a mistake when buying a house? I don’t think so. What she bought was not just a house, but also a yearning for a better life. However, their dream at the time did not come true soon. The best thing she did was to accept the reality and continue to live optimistically and diligently. Don’t force things that you can’t change, continue to have hope and live each day hand in hand with the people you love.
Who can keep watch until the clouds clear and the moon shines when there is no storm?
