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Wen Ming told Xiao Xin that if she didn’t have children, there would definitely be a way. Xiao Xin happily thought that he had a clever plan, but when she asked, she found out that Wen Ming was just comforting herself.
Xiaoxin's desire for a second child was rejected by her ex-husband. At night, she solemnly discussed it with Wen Ming.
Xiaoxin faced Wen Ming and said: "Although we all had a premarital check-up before getting married, I want to have it checked again. I want a child of our own."
Wen Ming looked at Xiaoxin, got closer to her and said : "I heard that it was very painful, said several people in the village who had undergone test tube ." Wen Ming was worried for Xiaoxin.
Xiaoxin comforted Wen Ming: "It doesn't matter. Many people do it now. The technology is relatively mature and the success rate is very high."
Wen Ming said worriedly: "But you are almost forty. The older you are, the more dangerous it is. "Big, I don't want you to suffer or be in danger." Wen Ming said it sincerely. It is much more important to have a loved one to accompany you healthily and happily throughout your life than to worry about the other person's health all day long.
Xiaoxin said with a smile: "Anyone older than me can do it. I also heard a colleague say that her relatives had menopause at the age of fifty, and they succeeded in the end."
Wen Ming asked curiously: "What happened? At fifty years old, you still want to do test tube baby ?"
Xiaoxin said: "There is nothing special or any extraordinary reason. It is very simple. It is a common problem in many Chinese families. I have always had a daughter before. She wanted to have a son, but didn’t she call for family planning all the time in those days? Now that she is free, her family has a lot of money to make up for the shortcomings. "
Wen Ming admires the courage of this middle-aged and elderly person: " Then her husband is willing to let her suffer like this?" Wen Ming didn't understand a little, asking a fifty-year-old middle-aged and elderly man to undergo in vitro fertilization was too painful.
Xiaoxin said: "It is said that the couple are both doctors. The daughter is almost thirty, and the daughter is a doctor of obstetrics and gynecology. Her parents asked her to respect their choice and help her mother do IVF."
Wen Ming pursed his lips and was quite surprised: "This child is really big-hearted. The whole family likes children and they want to have another child together."
Xiaoxin said: "As for my daughter, she doesn't want her parents to give birth to her, and she's not special. I am against that. Anyway, my parents want it, and my family's financial situation is very good, so I don't have any burdens. At this age, I just want to take a gamble and have a son to feel at ease, and my life will be complete."
Wen Ming was stunned for a moment after hearing this. : "Oh, this daughter is quite open-minded." He couldn't help but sigh.
Xiaoxin smiled and said: "What should I do if I'm not enlightened? Her parents made up their mind to have a baby, so she had no choice but to go along with it. Although she went through a lot of hard work, it was successful in the end and she gave birth to a seven-pound boy." Xiaoxin He raised his head with a longing expression.
Wen Ming got excited and asked a little anxiously: "Is this true? Is it really possible?"
Xiaoxin nodded sharply: "Really, but we don't care whether it's true or not, take the time to ask and understand. It doesn't matter at all. If you don't do some things, you will never feel at ease, what do you think?"
Xiaoxin's words aroused Wen Ming's confidence: "Let's go see it someday and ask him. "Of course he said. He did not tell Xiaoxin that he had sought medical treatment before and that the chance of giving birth was low. Later, when the fairy wife got sick, he did not continue to go to the hospital for treatment. Now that Xiaoxin brought up this topic again, he was eager to try it.
The two of them discussed it and chose a day to go to a well-known hospital that specializes in treating fertility diseases. After a comprehensive examination, the doctor came to the conclusion that there was not a glimmer of hope, but the chance of success was relatively small.
Little Appreciation was determined to have a baby. She asked the doctor in detail about their problems, even though the doctor repeatedly told her that the chance of success was low.
Xiaoxin said optimistically: "The doctor listened to what you said anyway. I think there is at least a few percent hope, and I still want to try."
The doctor explained that this is almost equivalent to no possibility of success, but Xiaoxin Xin stubbornly thought: "Isn't there still a few percent? It's not 100% impossible. I'm willing to try if there's even 1% hope.
The doctor looked at Wen Ming and asked for his opinion. Wen Ming glanced at Xiaoxin and said, "Doctor, is that very hard?" "He was worried that Xiaoxin would suffer.
The doctor roughly explained the process, taking medicine and injections for dozens of days. The pain alone makes it difficult to persist, but mothers are great, and many people are gritting their teeth and persisting if they want to have a child...
Wen Ming Hearing this, he became even more frightened, and he whispered to Xiaoxin: "Forget it, it may not be successful by then, and your butt will have to suffer a lot. "
Xiaoxin said with a smile: "I'm determined, I want to do it. Seeing Xiao Xin's decisive look, Wen Ming was very grateful. He held Xiao Xin's arm and said, "Think again, don't make such a hasty decision."
Xiaoxin turned her head and said: "The sooner you do it, the greater the chance of success. We can't delay it any longer." "Xiao Xin called the doctor to arrange treatment for herself.
So the doctor arranged medication for Xiao Xin, explained the review and follow-up treatment plan, and the two of them returned home happily.
From this point on, Xiao Xin had to To take medicines and injections, you have to go to the hospital once a day. It takes two hours to go back and forth several times. Even if there is no traffic jam, Wen Ming can't bear to see Xiaoxin working so hard, but he still takes time every time. Try to accompany Xiaoxin as much as possible.
Slowly got used to the pain of the injection. Xiaoxin felt as if she was numb and the pain was not as painful as it was at the beginning.
When the day came for the review after the embryo transfer, the two of them were very excited, waiting for them. The desired result, but the B ultrasound prompt failed.
When Xiaoxin heard the news, tears immediately rolled in her eyes. She had endured the treatment for so long, but she had these results, even though she knew in advance that the probability of failure was high. But everyone has the tendency to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, so he still thought about what would happen if he succeeded.
Wen Ming took Xiaoxin home and comforted him: "Well, you have worked hard and suffered so much. It still hurts, so rest well and don’t think about it. Now that we have done it, we feel at ease. "
Wen Ming kept comforting Xiao Xin. Due to his own reasons, Xiao Xin could not have a child with them. From the bottom of his heart, Wen Ming felt guilty for Xiao Xin.
Xiao Xin remained silent, still thinking. She was very sad about everything in the past few days, but she couldn't show it too obviously, otherwise Wen Ming would feel sad.
Xiaoxin rested at home for a few days, and then she went to work again. She had not been there for three months, but one night. Suddenly he told Wen Ming: "A Ming, I've thought about it, maybe I'm too nervous, I want to quit my job and prepare for pregnancy at home.
Wen Ming looked at Xiao Xin and said: "Resign if you want. Our family really doesn't lack that little money, but if you prepare for pregnancy at home, will it be too much of a sacrifice? For you, you will lose what you love." Work and have children at home.
Xiaoxin said disapprovingly: "I want to try it. Others can be as big as her. I am at least much smaller than her. I will definitely succeed." "Xiao Xin said very confidently.
Wen Ming patiently explained to her: "There are differences between people. Success with others may not necessarily be successful here. Personal circumstances are different. "Wen Ming held Xiaoxin's hand and patiently guided her.
Xiaoxin shook her hair and said, "No matter what, I'll start taking folic acid and go to the hospital when the time comes. I feel that I will succeed this time. You have to have confidence. "Xiao Xin encouraged Wen Ming.
When Wen Ming saw Xiao Xin being so stubborn, he smiled and said, "I support you. Just do what you want and let's work hard together. "Xiaoxin leaned on Wen Ming's shoulder and smiled beautifully.
A few months later, Xiaoxin went to the hospital again. She still insisted on doing it. The doctor must want to help every woman who wants to be a mother realize her wish. So a new round of treatment began.
In addition to going to the hospital for treatment, Xiaoxin spends her days at home listening to music, reading, and walking... she regulates her emotions, adjusts her diet, and waits for the day of review while undergoing treatment. .
Wen Ming was more anxious than Xiao Xin. He was worried that Xiao Xin would be defeated if he failed again. He stayed with Xiao Xin every day when he had time, making her happy and telling her to stay in a good mood.
On the day of the re-examination, the two of them got up very early and went to the hospital for examination. The doctor looked at it for a long time and whispered: "I think I saw a little bit, but it was very small, so I am not sure."
Xiaoxin pricked up her ears and listened. , her heart was pounding, and she was secretly happy. The doctor looked at her for a few more minutes and told her to get up.
Xiaoxin asked the doctor anxiously. The doctor asked her to show it to her attending doctor. Wen Ming moved closer to the report sheet, his eyes almost touching the paper. Xiaoxin laughed at him: "Your nose is almost touching the paper."
Wen Ming pursed his lips and said, "I can't see clearly! I can't understand it either!" Wen Ming was also very anxious.
Xiaoxin joked: "If you can understand, you are a doctor. Show it to the doctor quickly."
The two of them went to the doctor, and the doctor explained it. The main meaning was that they would have to come back for a review in a few days. Xiaoxin Xin was anxious and always wanted to know if it was normal. The doctor told her that it was better than last time. It was possible that it was, but she would have to check it again for comparison to know.
Xiaoxin was very happy. The two of them thanked the doctor. Wen Ming helped Xiaoxin walk to the parking lot step by step. Xiaoxin was amused by him: "You don't have to be so careful." The smile on her face was bright.
Wen Ming said: "The doctor told me to have a good rest, try not to do too strenuous exercise, and diet. You have to remember that. I will tell my mother when I get back, and pay attention when cooking."
Xiaoxin smiled Said: "Look at you, the doctor told me that it was a strenuous exercise. Can't you even walk normally? Besides, don't tell mom yet. If the time comes... I'll tell mom to rejoice for nothing. The old man can't bear this blow."
Wen Mingdiandian Head: "Then you need to rest and ask mom to take care of your diet."
Xiaoxin and Wen Ming returned home, and Wen Ming helped her to the bedroom and told her to lie down and rest. Xiaoxin laughed so hard: "Do you need to be so careful?"
Wen Ming said seriously: "I must do it. My baby wants to be happy, quietly, and rest with mother." Wen Ming spoke softly to Xiaoxin's belly.
Xiaoxin laughed even louder: "You, you are still no bigger than a mung bean, you are so anxious."
Wen Ming said: "That's different, now we have to talk to him every day and tell him to remember his parents. "If he knows how much we welcome him, he can come to our home well." Seeing Wen Ming babbling, Xiaoxin felt that he didn't look like a grown man, but more like an innocent and childish child. Serious.
Wen Ming told his mother that Xiaoxin needed to rest and what ingredients to buy on weekdays would be good for her health. He kept grinning from ear to ear with joy, but he did not reveal to his mother that Xiaoxin was undergoing in vitro fertilization.
Although Wen’s mother is an old man, he already knows what his daughter-in-law is about when her son tells him about the ingredients. Besides, there is also the performance last time. Just like this time, she goes to the hospital every day. Wen’s mother has already guessed everything. , but there is a relatively superstitious saying in Guangdong that in the first three months of pregnancy, the fetus is more delicate and cannot be told.
Wen’s mother pretended not to know anything, worked hard to buy and cook food every day, and was more considerate to Xiaoxin.
To be continued
