On the day that He Xingfu and Wang Qinglai got married, Xingfu’s sister asked Xingfu privately: I don’t understand, what are you trying to do with my brother-in-law?
Xingfu said, I want him to be honest and willing to work, not to smoke or gamble.
My sister said that honesty is a good thing, but if you are too honest like my brother-in-law, it is called a coward.
Sister’s words are true to her prophecy.
At this time, Wang Qinglai was toasting outside.
was accompanied by his younger brother throughout the whole process. His younger brother acted as his mouthpiece and helped him communicate with the guests at the banquet. As the groom, he was mainly responsible for drinking. When
arrived at Wan Chuanjia's table, Wan Chuanjia teased Wang Qinglai unceremoniously: "I didn't expect that the famous Qinglai brother in our village who couldn't beat him with three slaps could marry such a beautiful wife. ."
Then they gave Qinglai a big cup, filled it with white wine and said, "You can do it, I'll do whatever you want." This made it clear that they were bullying Wang Qinglai because he couldn't speak.
Wang Qinglai's behavior of finishing the glass of wine without saying a word also laid the foundation of his character for what happened after their marriage.
If a person is bullied but does not resist, then the person who bullies him will only assume that he can accept it and then get worse.
After He Xingfu married Wanjia Village , she had to take charge of everything that happened at home. The husband and father-in-law could only swallow their anger and behave submissively outside, while venting their anger at home.
What impressed me most was the land acquisition incident.
A villagers meeting was held. Qinglai and his son were sitting among the villagers. They clearly had opinions in their hearts, but when they stood up to speak, they pushed each other back and forth. No one could understand what they said.
finally followed the crowd and raised his hand in support of the land acquisition.
After the meeting, the father and son returned home full of anger, but they raised their voices to their own women. In the words of Qinglai's mother, "You know there is nothing wrong with you."
At first, seeing the behavior of Wang Qinglai and his son, I am just disgusted and at the same time feel sad for the woman who married into the Wang family.
htmlAt the age of 30, Qing Lai’s mother’s words made me think:How did such a useless character come about?
Why is the whole family like this?
She said that Qinglai was used to being bullied when he was a child, which is why he became like this. He stuttered when he spoke and didn't like to interact with others.
She also said that she was not used to it when she got married. Qinglai's grandfather was more timid and not as useful as Qinglai's father.
After hearing this, I began to understand that Wang Qing was here.
Although it is annoying to be cowardly, maybe he is just one of the victims in backward rural areas.
A saying that the Wang family often talks about is: "Our Wang family has a small family name."
What does the small family name mean?
means that the population is not dominant. When
is bullied, it is unlikely to respond to violence with violence.
And the former Wanjiacun most likely made no sense.
Even the current leader, Secretary Wan, led people to fight to create a new Wanjia Village.
As you can imagine, the environment back then was in chaos, and divination may not be useful. It is a normal phenomenon that large households bully small households, and local households bully outside households.
Bullying is not just two words. It ranges from being deprived of survival resources to Wang Qinglai being beaten for a long time. After Qinglai was beaten, Qinglai's mother took Qinglai from house to house to apologize.
Qinglai’s mother started crying as she spoke.
She said that after seeing Qing Lai's character become like that, she realized that no matter what, she could not let the children behind her be bullied again.
So she is more protective of Qinglai's younger siblings. Corresponding to
, Qinglai lacked parental protection since childhood.
Just imagine what will happen to a little boy who is bullied outside and comes home to cry to his parents. But every time, the whole family just teaches him to endure it.
Growing up, the living environment suppressed his innate instinct. No one taught him how to be reasonable, so he did not have the ability to confront others.
It can be seen from the fact that he discussed land acquisition compensation with Secretary Wan alone that he does not know how to read words and emotions at all.
was stubborn when he shouldn't be. He bumped into the muzzle of the gun and angered Secretary Wan. Only then was he kicked to the ground, hurting his vital parts.
Of course, the main person responsible for the crotch kicking incident is Secretary Wan.
However, if Happiness had accompanied Qing to handle the matter, this injury might have been avoided.
People are products of their environment.
Qing Lai’s mother was once the same as Happy, but after living in Wanjia Village for a long time, she gradually became assimilated.
sees the problem thoroughly, but when it comes to real problems, he still relies on the words " tolerate " to calm things down.
What she was thinking about was how to survive in Wanjia Village, not what was fair or unfair.
Just like what she said about happiness:
I know that you are stubborn, accept death, and cannot live through that unclear life.
Mom envies you, but I can’t do it for you.
Happiness's character of only accepting death and never accepting the consequences has brought a new breath to Wanjiacun. For her husband Qinglai or the Wang family, happiness is a kind of salvation.
As an audience, when watching the TV series " Happy to Ten Thousand Homes ", we can be aware of not only the characters, but also the background of the times.
In the face of injustice, Happiness can fight, firstly because she is brave, and secondly because she has caught up with a relatively good era.
After Secretary Wan led Wanjia Village to become wealthy, Wanjia Village also had relatively standardized management, and there was room for reasoning.
The environment at this time is relatively open, and happiness can find support from the environment, such as: national policies, sister Lucky who understands the law, graduate Wang Qingzhi, upright lawyer Guan, etc.
These settings that represent culture or symbolize justice are all helping her in her struggle.
It can be seen in the drama that Qinglai's mother and Qinglai often look at He Xingfu with an appreciative eye.
Qinglai also slowly changed under the influence of his wife, and tried to take matters into his own hands.
lengthened the script. Assuming that we can see Wang Qinglai's children grow up, I think the "ancestral" embarrassment of the three generations of the Wang family should end here.
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