I can’t remember what magazine I saw such a story: A snake passed by a saw, and its twisting body accidentally touched the sharp saw teeth, causing a small gash in its body and blood flowing out. Snake thought that this "enemy" was too hateful and decided to take revenge on it. Relying on its past experience against enemies and practicing strangulation skills, Snake wrapped the saw tightly with its body. Therefore, it kept exerting force to hoop saw. The snake held it tightly, trying to "hang" the saw... In the end, the snake used up its last bit of strength, and even to its death did not understand: Why is the saw so "strong"? He was actually unscathed, but he was killed.
Regardless of whether this story is a true lie or a ridiculous joke, without going into details, it makes people smile and makes a deep impression. Over the past few months, the idea of a snake tightly wrapping around a saw has been lingering in my mind. Interesting pictures, and then the more I think about it, the more I think about it. When I think about it, in real life, are there not many people who move like this snake? Are people with a vengeful mentality similar to snakes still rare?
I have seen such a person. He was very happy and smooth in his work and life. Once, a colleague accidentally made a joke and hurt his self-esteem. Forgive and let go of other people's mistakes, thinking that the colleague is deliberately having trouble with him; therefore, using various occasions and opportunities to belittle, suppress, and ridicule that colleague; that colleague is inherently mediocre, uneducated, and idle. He didn't seek to make progress, but fell into a "broken jar". Seeing this person constantly suppressing and ridiculing him, he made up his mind to "fight to the death" with him.
This colleague would keep an eye on him no matter when he was on duty or off duty. He was two minutes late for work. This colleague seemed to be "dedicated to the public good" and "upholding justice" and immediately reported it to the attendance department; he went to see him in the middle of work. After checking with an acquaintance of a client, this colleague immediately reported it to his supervisor, saying that he was "receiving clients privately" and "not doing his job properly." In the evening after get off work, he invited some colleagues out for dinner and drinks. This person also told his superior manager, saying that he was "a clique." ", "win people's hearts"; he saw that this person was always making "little tricks" behind his back, so he decided to break up with him, "fight resolutely" with him and fight to the end. Yes, one time after get off work, he invited a female colleague to watch a movie. The movie theater was dark and the two of them were acting ambiguously. They were caught and photographed by that person, which caused a big fuss. They were both married, and everyone was talking about it. He said anything and everything, which made the unit full of chaos and made everyone feel uneasy. He was even more troubled personally and wanted to change jobs and escape from the unit but was unwilling to do so.
These two people were like the snake and the saw, engaging in a "tug of war" back and forth. They complained about each other and made a lot of noise. In the end, no one liked the other, and they developed into hating each other, fighting each other, and dying. As it continues to be consumed, the characteristics of the saw emerge. You come and I go, pulling deeper and deeper, both sides suffer, and no one is happy.
It is common sense not to compete with the "saw" for sharpness; I often think that if a person wants to be quiet, refreshed and comfortable, he should not provoke and attempt to retaliate against those people who are like "saws". They are indifferent and ruthless. In the end, The person who hurts himself is the one who hurts himself; for people who are like "saws", if their "power" is used on the right path, they can still play a huge role and achieve the work effect of "academic specialization"; but if they combine this determination and When their abilities are used in intrigues and internal conflicts in personnel, they repair and strengthen their shortcomings and enhance their sharp and hurtful characteristics. In doing so, they will not only hinder their own and everyone's work, but also affect their own progress and work. Mood can seriously affect the efficiency and combat effectiveness of an organizational unit, destroying a united and enterprising team.As a person who is pursuing and motivated, there is absolutely no need to try to "match wits and courage" or "defeat the enemy" when meeting such people. You must know that the more energy, intelligence, and material resources you invest, the more harm you will suffer. The bigger, the deeper, the less worth it; in the end, it is not others who lose, it is you who is embarrassed and hurt, and it is you who delays your future.
"Same rice, hundreds of people"; even if you occasionally meet someone who is like a "saw", seize the time to stay away from escape and heal yourself. Don't try to struggle and retaliate yourself, so as not to expand the "injury area"; "stop it in time" "Loss" and "Stop" are the best and wisest ways to bypass and avoid "sharp objects" and avoid greater harm.
A philosopher once said that if a person wants to live happily, he should not get entangled or fight with evil people and bad things in the world; he should be merciful when he is reasonable, and he should be merciful and let others be unreasonable. ; Once you have the cruel idea of "sticking to the end and never letting go", you will definitely lose from the beginning, I firmly believe that; that "smart" and "capable" snake will also die unknown Isn’t it white? ! What an injustice! It is worth pondering and warning for everyone.
☆ About the author: Yang Dezhen, MBA, Chinese prose writer, Guangdong writer, hotel professional manager, and mind research expert. He has published eight books.
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