Auntie said trust is more important than care (5)
Auntie's second daughter Leilei was sent to her grandfather's house in Shanghai since she was a child. She has been competitive since she was a child, is good at studying, and has strong work ability. During her studies at the university, the class idol and the school idol continued to show their kindness to her, constantly created surprises, sent flowers, sang songs, and even used candles to make a big heart sign downstairs for the girl. Because Leilei has not been with her parents since she was a child, she is very independent and independent. She has clear goals and will never fall in love during college. She has never wavered in her four years of college. She stayed away from home during winter and summer vacations and found an internship on her own to improve her abilities. The aunt missed Leilei very much. During one winter vacation, the aunt asked her husband to call Leilei and told her that her health was not good, her blood pressure was high, and she was often confused. Leilei has just returned to Changchun for a year. Leilei felt sad when she saw a lot of gray hair on her mother's hair. Leilei comforted her aunt, saying that after she is admitted to graduate school, she will go home during the winter and summer vacations. Then consider personal issues. This time Auntie was relieved. Leilei is a very sensible child. She is far away from home and doesn't want her parents to worry about her. She arranges everything clearly. Her grandparents, uncles, and aunts never worried about her.
Leilei got her wish and was admitted to the graduate school of the school and became a cadre of the student union. Everyone called her a flower, nicknamed Rose with Thorns. Once her brother-in-law Daling came to visit her at school and brought his cousin with him. The three of them had dinner at the restaurant in front of the school. Daling's cousin was a fresh undergraduate student at Xiamen University . He was handsome, tall and graceful, and his conversation was humorous, which made a good impression on Leilei. He is eloquent, his family is an overseas Chinese who has returned from China, he is excellent in foreign languages, and his nickname is Dashan. Dashan fell in love with Leilei at a glance. When they met for the first time, he directly told Leilei that we could date her as boyfriend and girlfriend in the future. Leilei did not express her position at the time. Later, I learned from his brother-in-law that Dashan’s parents were both businessmen and had a manor in Malaysia . Dashan had a brother, sister, and younger siblings. He traveled to the mainland during high school and fell in love with Xiamen . It took him two years to get into Xiamen University. His parents also donated money to the school. Dashan is somewhat famous in school. Dashan is the same age as Leilei. He seems a bit naughty, but he is passionate about his friends. During the Spring Festival this year, Dashan came to Changchun from Xiamen. In order to show his sincerity, he brought many gifts to Leilei's house.
Leilei didn't know that Dashan came to their house, but she entertained him politely. Dashan expressed to Leilei's parents that he would be Leilei's boyfriend. Auntie knows a little about Dashan's family situation and has a good impression of Dashan. The two children are a perfect match. It's a pity that Dashan is not a graduate student. The aunt and her husband have repeatedly stated that as long as Leilei is willing, they have no objection. During the Spring Festival, Leilei and Dashan had a lively conversation and had a lot of fun, and finally established their relationship.
After graduating from graduate school, Leilei applied to study in the United States, and was finally admitted to an American university. Before leaving, Leilei and Dashan obtained their marriage certificates and held a grand wedding in Malaysia. There was no wedding when I returned to Changchun. My family, relatives and friends had dinner at a famous restaurant to celebrate. After getting married, Leilei went to the United States to study, and Dashan went to Shanghai to work after graduation.
Leilei studied very hard. After marriage, their relationship not only did not heat up, but also continued to fade. Dashan often visits hotels in Shanghai, eats, drinks and has fun. Leilei asked Dashan to go to the United States to accompany her to study, but Dashan still refused to apply for a visa, and he did not plan to go to graduate school. The two began to have conflicts and quarrel. After finishing her further studies in the United States, Leilei stayed in the United States to work. Dashan also went to the United States. Because he was an undergraduate, he had no specialties in his major, and his job was never ideal. The two of them had nothing to talk about together. They separated and got divorced a year later. Leilei called her aunt to tell her that they were getting divorced. She just said that it was your own choice, as long as you don't regret it. Dashan is a very nice person, and there are no issues of principle between them, but Dashan is a bit unmotivated, while Leilei is too strong and cannot tolerate the inaction of her lover.
After the divorce, Leilei did not feel depressed and worked very well. Reused by the company. The aunt is very concerned about her daughter's personal problems. She often calls Leilei and tells her that the woman is 30 years old and has been divorced. Being alone abroad is so lonely.Leilei listened to her aunt's advice and seriously considered her personal issues. I advised my aunt not to be anxious and to believe in fate.
Leilei did an excellent job and was continuously promoted and transferred to the head office. His immediate boss admires Leilei's abilities even more, and the two of them often get off work together. After going back and forth, we became familiar with each other. This boss's surname is Liang, who is eight years older than Leilei. He graduated from Wuhan University and received his master's and doctorate degrees in the United States. He is very busy after work. I didn’t meet the right person, so I didn’t get married until I was almost 40 years old. Lao Liang is not tall, thin and frail, and his appearance is unattractive. Leilei felt that Lao Liang was older and average-looking, so she didn't like him a bit. Lao Liang cared deeply about Leilei and personally guided Leilei's business. Leilei admired Lao Liang's ability and level. Lao Liang was promoted to the top of the company and became the company's technical backbone. Lao Liang bluntly told Leilei that he didn't care if she was married. Leilei was very moved. They got married after being together for more than a year.
Lao Liang's family is from the suburbs of Wuhan. The conditions at home are average. Not only does it not have an indoor bathroom, but it also has to go to a public toilet. Lao Liang saw that Leilei was really not used to it, so he stayed with Leilei in a hotel in the city to convince his parents to understand Leilei. Lao Liang's parents were very simple and unreasonable, and they tried their best to entertain their daughter-in-law. Now Leilei and Lao Liang live a happy life with a successful career and a son and daughter. They are still working hard in the United States.
The aunt said that they did not care too much about the marriage of their second daughter Leilei because Leilei had her own ideas. On the contrary, if they interfered too much, it would lead to a rebellious mentality and backfire. In a word, trust is more important than care.
