On the day that He Xingfu and Wang Qinglai got married, Xingfu’s sister asked Xingfu privately: I don’t understand, what are you trying to do with my brother-in-law?
Xingfu said, I want him to be honest and willing to work, not to smoke or gamble. My sister
said that being honest is a good thing, but if someone like my brother-in-law is too honest, that would be called a coward.
My sister’s words are true to her words.
At this time, Wang Qinglai was toasting outside, and he was accompanied by his younger brother throughout the process. His younger brother acted as his mouth, helping him greet the guests at the table, while he, as the groom, was mainly responsible for drinking. When
came to Wan Chuanjia's table, Wan Chuanjia teased Wang Qinglai unceremoniously: "I didn't expect that the famous Qinglai brother in our village who couldn't beat him with three slaps could marry such a beautiful wife. "
Then they gave Qinglai a big cup, filled it with white wine and said, "You can do it, I'll do whatever you want." This clearly meant that they were bullying Wang Qinglai because he couldn't speak.
Wang Qinglai's behavior of finishing the glass of wine without saying a word also laid the foundation for their marriage.
If a person is bullied but does not resist, then the person who bullies him will only assume that he can accept it and then get worse.
After He Xingfu married Wanjia Village , she had to take charge of everything that happened at home. Men will only swallow their anger, be submissive outside, and complain and vent their anger at home.
What impressed me most was the land acquisition incident.
Wang Qinglai and his son were sitting among the villagers. They clearly had opinions in their hearts. When they stood up to speak, they pushed each other back and forth, but no one could understand what they said.
finally followed the crowd and raised his hand to express his approval for the land acquisition.
After the meeting, the father and son returned home full of anger, but they raised their voices to their own women. In the words of Wang Qinglai's mother, "You know there is nothing wrong with you."
At first, when I saw the behavior of Wang Qinglai and his son, I I'm just disgusted, and at the same time I feel sad for the woman who married into the Wang family.
On New Year’s Eve, Qinglai’s mother’s words made me start thinking: How did this kind of useless character form?
She said that Qing Lai was used to being bullied when he was a child, which is why he became like this. He stuttered when he spoke and didn't like to interact with others.
She also said that she was not used to it when she got married. Qinglai's grandfather was more timid and not as useful as Qinglai's father.
Hearing this, I began to understand that Wang Qing was here.
Although it is annoying to be a coward and unable to handle things, maybe he is just a victim in Wanjia Village.
A saying that the Wang family often talks about is: "Our Wang family has a small family with a small surname."
What does a small family with a small surname mean?
means that if the population is not dominant, it is impossible to fight violence with violence when bullied, and the high probability of Wanjia Village in the past is unreasonable.
Even the current leader, Secretary Wan, led people to fight to create a new Wanjia Village.
As you can imagine, the environment back then was in chaos, and divination may not be useful. Large households bully small households, and local households bully outside households. This is a normal phenomenon.
Bullying is not a simple word. It can range from deprivation of survival resources to Wang Qinglai being beaten for a long time. After Qinglai was beaten, Qinglai's mother took Qinglai from house to house to apologize.
Qinglai’s mother started crying as she spoke.
She said that after seeing Qing Lai's character become like that, she realized that no matter what, she could not let the children behind her be bullied again.
So she is more protective of Qinglai's younger siblings. Corresponding to
, Qinglai lacked parental protection since childhood.
Just imagine, a little boy who was beaten by a crowd outside came home and cried to his parents, but every time, the whole family just taught him to endure it, what would he become.
Growing up, his living environment suppressed his innate instinct. No one taught him how to be reasonable, so he did not have the ability to confront others.
People are products of their environment.
He Xingfu's character, which is absolutely impossible to accept, has brought a new breath to Wanjiacun. For her husband Wang Qinglai and the entire Wang family, happiness is a kind of salvation.
Qing Lai's mother was once just like He Xingfu, but after living in Wanjia Village for a long time, she gradually assimilated and saw problems thoroughly, but when she really encountered problems, she still relied on the words " forbearance " to calm things down.
What she was thinking about was how to survive in Wanjia Village, not what was fair or unfair. Just like what she said to happiness:
I know that you are stubborn, accept death, and cannot live through that unclear life.
Mom envies you, but I can't do it for you.
As an audience, when watching the TV series "Happiness to Ten Thousand Homes ", we can be aware of not only the characters, but also the background of the times.
I think that in the face of injustice, He Xingfu can fight, firstly because of her own bravery, and secondly because she has caught up with a relatively good era.
After Secretary Wan led Wanjia Village to become wealthy, Wanjia Village also had relatively standardized management, and there was room for reasoning. At least that's the case on the surface.
The environment at this time is relatively open, and happiness can find support from the environment, such as national policies, sister He Xunxun who understands the law, Wang Qingzhi who graduated from graduate school, etc.
These settings that represent culture or symbolize justice are all helping her in the process of struggle.
It can be seen in the play that Qinglai's mother and Qinglai often look at He Xingfu with an appreciative eye.
Qinglai also slowly changed under the influence of his wife, and tried to take matters into his own hands.
lengthened the script. Assuming that we can see Wang Qinglai's children grow up, I think the "ancestral" embarrassment of the three generations of the Wang family should end here.
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