In the past few days, my mother-in-law has stayed here enough. If she doesn’t insist on going back quickly, she should go back quickly.
Last night, her husband told her that the tickets she bought were reserved tickets and might not be available. When she heard this, her face immediately dropped and she was very unhappy.
Mother-in-law: Then I have to go by car. I have told your aunt and third aunt to wait for me somewhere.
Husband: Can’t you do it tomorrow or the day after tomorrow?
Mother-in-law: No.
...It was deadlocked for a while.
Husband: Then take the bus back tomorrow.
Mother-in-law: What is a waiting ticket?
Husband: Waiting for tickets means waiting in line for tickets when the purchased tickets have been sold out. If you encounter a refund, change of ticket, etc., tickets will be purchased automatically.
Mother-in-law: What should I do if I can’t buy it?
Husband: Automatically refunded to the bank card.
My mother-in-law is very clear in asking questions and is also a good person to inquire about things.
Probably less than half an hour later, my husband suddenly said that a text message had arrived and the tickets were available.
My mother-in-law is also very happy. It is better to take the train, she doesn’t get motion sickness as much, and she can save money for her son. She must be happy.
had a peaceful night together.
The next day, when I was about to leave, I asked my husband about paying back his credit card.
My husband was unhappy at first and said that I made him noisy so early in the morning. After that, the two of them were at each other's throats, getting further and further away from each other. The situation got out of control and they were about to take action.
The mother-in-law was offended and she was not happy and started scolding her son for being disobedient. Come and talk to me again, just say a few words. Finally, I said, "I forgot to come. Look at what you two are doing."
later broke up on bad terms.
My mother-in-law was sent back by her son, and she took the train.
After they left, I thought about it for a long time. It was not a big deal, but it was such a big fuss.
The matter between two people involves a third person. They cannot stay in this unstable environment.
The relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires careful study, management and maintenance. Just like when I'm at work, in a company, when facing different customers, I need to be able to speak, what to say in any situation, and don't talk nonsense if you don't know. Otherwise, you won't be able to keep your job.
If you want to maintain a good relationship in the long term, you must continue to learn from the strengths of others. You can't take it for granted and let others take care of you. I have to reflect on it.
My mother-in-law also knows that some things do not originate from me, but they develop unreasonably and later on, conflicts intensify, and then my problem becomes my problem. How to control the development of the situation and how to develop for the benefit is the direction of my future study.
This is indeed the case. At any time, you must learn to think and learn to restrain yourself. In everything, there are rules to follow, understand the rules, and learn as you grow old. This proverb applies to everyone.
My mother-in-law is the kind of generous person who understands the general situation and will not argue with me. The harmony of a family should be maintained by everyone, starting from themselves, setting an example, and setting a good example for their children. Otherwise, there will be noisy things every day, small things will become big things, and the home will no longer be a peaceful haven.
In the evening, I called my mother-in-law and chatted for a few words. My mother-in-law said: Don’t make any noise in the future, especially in the morning.
Me: Oh, got it.
The mother-in-law hung up the phone with satisfaction. This may be what she hopes for most. When the children reconcile, she will be happy.
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