My friend got married at the end of last month, and Chen Ling and I attended together. After eating, we found a cafe to continue the next show. My good friend Chen Ling got married at an early age, got pregnant out of wedlock when she was still an intern after graduation, and lat

My friend got married at the end of last month, and I attended it with Chen Ling. After eating, I found a cafe to continue the next show.

’s good friend Chen Ling got married at a young age. She got pregnant out of wedlock when she was still an intern after graduation, and later got married with her son.

Her eldest son is in the second grade of elementary school this year, and her younger son is already in senior class. She also has time on her own and can travel relatively freely.

Drinking coffee, we made homely meals.

I asked my friend: "You drove here by yourself tonight. When did you learn to drive?"

Chen Ling's husband had his own car for a long time. In the past, her husband would take all the trips. In her own words: I It took me four times to pass Subject 2. I never dare to drive on the road in my life!

It has been less than half a year since we last met, and she actually dared to drive on the highway alone.

"Well, every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite." After saying this, she touched her hands and looked out the window.

"Why are you feeling so emotional all of a sudden? It doesn't sound like you are heartless?"

Chen Ling is the youngest daughter of the family, the little princess held in the palm of her parents' hands. Her parents were so angry when she became pregnant out of wedlock, Later, he married her off gracefully.

"Just look at my hands and you'll know." Suddenly the conversation changed and Chen Ling opened her palms up to show me. I saw a lot of tender calluses that had just grown.

"I've been working part-time after get off work lately, either as a waiter in a restaurant or handing out flyers. My hands, which were originally fair and tender, are starting to get calluses." He said it lightly, with a helpless smile at the corner of his mouth.

"What happened in the past six months?"

I know Chen Ling's husband's family. Although they are not very rich, they will never need Chen Ling to work part-time to make money after work. Chen Ling never did a part-time job when she was a student.

"My husband lost more than 500,000 yuan. I only found out half a year ago that the creditor had come to visit me. I had no choice but to piece together a lot of things and pay back a large part. The remaining more than 100,000 yuan is still being paid back." Chen Ling It feels like I'm talking about someone else's business.

"In order to pay back the money, I did all the part-time jobs I could. I even sold all the gold jewelry I had when I got married!"

"He doesn't look like someone who gambles."

" I didn’t gamble, just swiped my credit card, spent money, borrowed , borrowed , etc., all 600,000 yuan was invested in the loan platform, and I couldn’t get it back later. "

I never expected this kind of operation!

lend money to lend money to others? How much courage do you have to do this?

"I didn't expect it! From the moment I knew it, I felt that I had grown up overnight and became more independent. I couldn't always rely on my husband, parents, and parents-in-law. I also had to be more sensible." Chen Ling smiled and put it down. Coffee in hand.

"I learned to drive and took over the job of sending the children to school. He can free up time to earn money and pay off the debt."

"He is now working two jobs by himself. My parents-in-law take good care of the child and strive to pay off the debt by the end of this year. All cleared."

looked at Chen Ling in front of him with admiration. Even though they were heavily in debt, they could still be so confident and open-minded. The couple worked together to overcome the difficulties and never gave up.

She herself said that after going into debt, she seemed to have grown up overnight. Otherwise, she would have been just an innocent mother who had never experienced ups and downs since childhood.

And her husband is also more responsible and responsible.

used to play games after get off work and never help take care of the children. Now when I get back from work, I take time to play with my two children, and I understand whether she is tired from work.

In the past, with the help of their three sisters and parents-in-law, the couple really had no sense of crisis and could live a comfortable life.

Although life is stressful now, the couple is on the same page, and it is worth it no matter how hard it is.

Chen Ling said with a smile: This debt has both good and bad aspects. The money will eventually be repaid and life will get better and better. I hope her husband will stop thinking about making quick money in the future and work peacefully, which is also a blessing!

Yes, modern people are impatient and eager to get rich overnight or make quick money.

have forgotten that primitive accumulation is the most reliable. Although wealth comes slowly, it is at least solid.