The ringtone of my cell phone at two o'clock in the morning made me jump up. I didn't have time to turn on the light, so I reflexively picked up the phone from the pillow! The son-in-law's voice came across the screen: Mom! I hurriedly asked if we were already at the hospital. We

The ringtone of my mobile phone at two o'clock in the morning made me jump up. I didn't have time to turn on the light, so I reflexively picked up the mobile phone from the pillow! The son-in-law's voice came across the screen: Mom! I hurriedly asked if we were already at the hospital. We would be right over! Without waiting for my son-in-law to reply, I called out to my husband loudly, threw on a skirt, and without even having time to wash my face, I grabbed my cell phone, opened the door and rushed downstairs. My husband followed closely and asked: Which hospital are you in? The son-in-law's voice sounded again: We are at the People's Hospital and have completed the hospitalization procedures. Doctors and nurses are doing examinations. Parents, don't worry, and pay attention to safety on the road!

How can I not be anxious!

This is my daughter’s third pregnancy. The first two pregnancies were terminated due to fetal arrest, and my daughter’s body and mind were greatly harmed! And I, my heart ached for a long time!

My sensible daughter didn’t tell me until she was three months pregnant this time because she was afraid that I would worry! Ever since I learned that my daughter was pregnant, my phone has never been turned off or muted, and my heart has been in twitching! My daughter, the baby I have always held in my hands, must have endured so much pressure and various physical discomforts these days to reach this moment!

Seeing the fine beads of sweat on my daughter’s pale face, my body couldn’t stop trembling! My daughter held back her tears and smiled at me, stretched out her hands and grabbed my arms tightly, and my shaking body slowly calmed down! The result of

's daughter's examination was that she met the conditions for natural birth, and the doctor recommended that should be born naturally. My mother-in-law and son-in-law, who have always taken good care of and loved my daughter, shed tears of distress when they saw my exhausted daughter who had been in pain for several hours without having her cervix dilated. They discussed with me whether to choose caesarean section !

At this time, I was very conflicted. I wanted my daughter to have a normal delivery, but I was also afraid that it would hurt and I would have to be stabbed in the end! The attending doctor once again asked about the outcome of the consultation, because the doctor had informed her in advance that if she chose a caesarean section, she would not be able to eat within six hours. It was almost noon, and my daughter had not eaten anything because she was making preparations. She was tired and hungry, and she had to make a choice as soon as possible. I accompanied my daughter into the prenatal examination room again, and the doctor's examination results still recommended a natural delivery. My daughter looked at me and said: Mom, I listen to you. You had a caesarean section when you gave birth to me, and you have the most say! Thinking of the pain of the wound after caesarean section and the many discomforts in the later period, I looked at my daughter and said with difficulty: Try harder and hold on. My daughter nodded tiredly!

My daughter had something to eat and was lying on the bed using her mobile phone to record the time and frequency of contractions . Seeing my daughter’s face becoming more and more distressed and disturbed as the pain worsened, my heart ached to the point of suffocation.

Time passed by slowly, minute by minute, and by 5 pm, the cervix was only three fingers open, and we all became uneasy! My daughter said, "Mom, I'm so worried. Will the baby be in danger if I wait any longer?" Instantly, my eyes filled with tears, and I rushed to the doctor's office to express my worries incoherently. The doctor comforted me and said that the labor of my first baby was a bit long and we would pay close attention to it. The family members should not worry too much! After staying up for another half hour, my daughter and I looked at each other again and made the final decision: for the sake of safety, I still chose a caesarean section!

The moment the door of the operating room closed, I burst into tears, my heart was in knots, and my body began to tremble involuntarily again! My mother-in-law hugged me tightly and said it was okay, everything would be fine! I choked and murmured: It's all my fault, it's my fault, I shouldn't have insisted on giving birth...

Gradually calming down, I stood like a sculpture at the door of the operating room, looking at the man lying alone on the operating cart. My daughter was placed in the aisle and waited for half an hour before being pushed into the operating room. I couldn't help but feel resentful in my heart (later I found out that the operating room was full that afternoon, and my daughter was the last one in line for an extra surgery. The doctor also followed up in advance. My daughter has communicated with her to observe and try to give birth as naturally as possible during the waiting process)!

An hour and a half later, the baby was taken out by the midwifery nurse. I took a quick glance and asked my mother-in-law and father-in-law to follow the midwifery nurse to the ward. My son-in-law and I stayed and continued to wait.

Half an hour later, my daughter was pushed out. My son-in-law and I stood guard next to my daughter’s operating cart, and together with the hospital’s nursing staff, we pushed my daughter to the ward and onto the bed.I held my daughter's hand and looked into her eyes and said repeatedly: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, it was mom who made you suffer! My daughter smiled tiredly and comforted me and said: Mom, actually I also want to give birth naturally. If I try my best, I won’t have any regrets! In an instant, I choked with sobs. My mother-in-law quickly brought my granddaughter to me and said, "Grandma, look at the baby, it's so cute!" Only then did I stop choking, took the baby and looked at it carefully, feeling a bit tender in my heart!

It’s difficult to have a baby! Giving birth is difficult! Raising a baby is even harder!

Two days later, the neonatologist came and informed that the baby had to be hospitalized for observation because the jaundice index was too high! In an instant, I fell from the top to the bottom again. I reluctantly and anxiously sent the baby to the neonatal department.

Five days later, my daughter was discharged from the hospital. The baby continued to stay in the neonatal department, and was not allowed to visit and was not allowed to breastfeed. My daughter was worried that would breastfeed , so she expressed milk every day and could not have a good rest at night!

A week later, the baby came home from the hospital. My grandma and I couldn't put it down. We even watched it while sleeping. We felt like we couldn't get enough!

Two days later, the baby's jaundice index and began to rise again. The doctor recommended stopping breast milk and switching to artificial feeding! After several attempts, the baby became accustomed to the pacifier and stopped sucking the nipple. In the end, the jaundice index dropped and he could only be fed with breast milk bottle. For this reason, my daughter suffered a lot. In addition to expressing milk day and night, she also went to the hospital from time to time because of blocked milk. Her daughter collapsed and became depressed! Fortunately, grandma loves her daughter-in-law and has been trying her best to take care of her daughter and baby. In order to let her daughter have a better rest, the baby sleeps with grandma at night!

The baby is just over half a year old, and grandpa has retired from teaching! In order to let her daughter sleep through the night, grandma proposed weaning her from the breast! At this point, my daughter has slowly returned to a regular schedule, coupled with a healthy diet and exercise, her former confidence and energy have completely returned, and she has transformed into a proper hot mom!

As for me, I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for the love and care given to my daughter by my mother-in-law, and I am also grateful for my daughter’s persistence and perseverance!

In my spare time, helping my mother-in-law take care of the baby has become my only pleasure! Watching my baby gradually become able to smile, raise his head, turn over, sit, crawl, and interact, and then to now a toddler and babbling, I am filled with satisfaction and comfort!

For the rest of my life, I will work hard to be a qualified grandmother and accompany my baby to grow up healthily and happily!