Wenjing met Haiyang through a blind date. Haiyang's family conditions are better than Wenjing's, so it is inevitable that his speech and behavior are a bit higher. But Wen Jing liked such an independent man, and soon her parents met to finalize the wedding time.
On the wedding day, everything seemed to be going smoothly.
But the first challenge that the new daughter-in-law faced came.
Grandma Haiyang here asked Sister Haixing, "Is this daughter-in-law from the village? You can tell by looking at her dress, this is good, such a daughter-in-law is easy to take care of!"
Haixing scratched her head: "No, her family I’ve always lived in the city!”
Grandma still didn’t give up and said, “Don’t I know about this?” Her natal family lives next to your fourth daughter's house. I heard that the conditions at home are very average. Not worthy of your home.
Haixingxin said, look at this troublemaker, his wife is about to get married, why are you saying such rude words?
It was not easy to stand up to the elders on the big day, so he had to say: "My brother is right, my parents also asked, her family is very good. We don't care about the family background when we marry a wife, she is quiet, well-behaved and kind, our family is I like them all. "
The first round is over. This kind of relative is definitely a thorn in the heart. People usually say that the eldest sister stirs up trouble. If you encounter an eldest sister who can't handle it, don't just turn around these words. Have you told your mother? I married a daughter-in-law with a low family background and was laughed at by my relatives. Can my careless mother-in-law look good on her? This is the first round of the bride's verbal battle.
On the fifth day of their wedding, the street asked them to get the new crown vaccine . Wen Jing and Haiyang were waiting in line to get the vaccine, and they met their aunt who was also lining up with her baby.
When relatives meet, it is inevitable to exchange pleasantries.
When I got home, my aunt made a video call and asked my grandma's relatives to come out. She casually mentioned that I got vaccinated today and looked at Wen Jing and Haiyang.
said happily: "It stands to reason that new wives should wear red and cheerful clothes, right? Wen Jing didn't even put on any makeup. She was wearing a plain sportswear and her skin was dark. How does she look like a new daughter-in-law?"
Starfish listened. I felt a little embarrassed, this time I was fooled.
When she saw her sister-in-law Wen Jing again, she couldn't help but say something, "Why are you dressed so plainly? Logically speaking, all new wives should be dressed in joyful clothes, so why not wear red or pink?"
Wen Jing is good. Tempered, he responded gently: "I have dark skin, and wearing red makes me look darker, so I like to wear plain colors."
Starfish stopped talking, and persuaded Wen Jing to dress up under the banner of doing your best.
Haixing's mother heard the conversation outside the bedroom door. She came in without saying a word and gave Haixing a bad taste: "Wen Jing can wear whatever she wants. Don't listen to what relatives say. Just mind your own business!"
Later Haixing apologized to Wenjing, and the relationship between the two remained as before.
The second round is over, this is the second round of the bride’s verbal battle. The mother-in-law takes action, one can stand up to two. With her mother-in-law protecting her, Haixing, the eldest aunt, can't even speak.
A few months after getting married, it was time to celebrate the Chinese New Year. Wen Jing thought that she was the new daughter-in-law, so she bought clothes for her parents-in-law, aunts, and Haiyang’s grandparents. The average price was more than 200, which was a lot of money.
Everyone gave the new daughter-in-law red envelopes for New Year greetings, except when she went to grandma’s house, she also brought her things and said a lot of nice things, but grandma didn’t respond at all. She neither gave red envelopes nor left anything to eat.
Haiyang and Wenjing are a little embarrassed, neither sitting nor walking.
later went back to her mother-in-law's house, but Wen Jing didn't dare to tell her mother-in-law about this. He only dared to talk to his eldest aunt. Haixing felt angry after hearing this, but there was no other way.
had no choice but to comfort Wen Jing, " There is an old saying, saying that if I am thinking about you, I will leave food for you even when you are walking on the street. If I am not thinking of you, I will not have food for you even if you are lying next to the pot.
We ourselves As long as your family is nice to you, it doesn't matter if they are nice to you or not. You don't need to buy things specially for next year. It will be expensive to build a small family.
You just came here, don’t you know? Grandma has always been partial to the children of her second uncle's family. Our grandchildren here don't value them, so don't feel sad. She's not targeting you. "
The third round is over. This is the third round of the bride's verbal battle. As long as your husband's family values you, it's fine. Other relatives don't interact with you a few times a year. It doesn't matter if you don't value you. Calm your mind.
