Mr. Xu told everyone about a real incident about the fall of a 2-year-old girl - the old lady said: "Your father sometimes talks without hesitation, but it depends on the person, the occasion, and the time."

(I am the writer Lao San, with the headline account Su Lao San. I have published novels "The Truth About Divorce" and "Perfume Is Poisonous", etc. In 2022, I will experience life as a nanny and tell interesting nanny stories from Northeastern people. It is a story, not a documentary. Please Don’t sit by your seat.)

In Xu’s living room. On the dinner table.

Mr. Xu told everyone about a real incident about the fall of a 2-year-old girl -

Everyone was silent for a while.

Zhibo chewed a piece of shredded beef and suddenly said: "Dad, are you making up a story to deceive my mother?"

The old lady said: "Your father sometimes doesn't talk smoothly, but it depends on the person, the occasion, and the time. . "

Mrs. Xu didn't say anything. She picked up some vegetables with chopsticks and put them in the bowl, but she didn't eat them for a long time.

Zhibo probably felt sad when he saw Mrs. Xu not eating. He said: "Mom, let's eat. My dad is fooling you. He wants to prevent you from having a good meal."

When Mr. Xu saw Mrs. Xu was in a bad mood, he said, "Juan'er, are you feeling uncomfortable? Don't listen to me. Vernacular, I fooled you, I made it up, don’t talk about it, just change the story -"

The old lady glanced at Mr. Xu, her lips twitched, but she didn't speak.

I saw this news. I know this is a real event. Mr. Xu saw that Mrs. Xu was too sad to eat, so he deliberately said that he was making it up to fool Mrs. Xu.

Zhibo probably meant the same thing, he didn't want to make Mrs. Xu feel sad. People with babies at home couldn't bear the news

Mrs. Xu turned around and glared at Mr. Xu fiercely, and said, "Are you making this up? Let's talk about hiring a nanny for the child. Well, you just made up this kind of story to scare me, are you going too far? I won’t talk to you anymore, go away!”

Mr. Xu laughed and apologized again and again: “ I'm wrong. I'm wrong. If I talk nonsense in the future, let me beat you."

Mrs. Xu said, "Why do you want me to beat you? Mom has no strength and it won't hurt you."

Zhibo. Said: "Mom, you hired me to beat my dad -"

Mr. Xu pretended to beat his son -

This real incident slipped by so gently.

We cannot understand the suffering and pain of the parties concerned. How many people can watch this event from beginning to end with just two fingers swiping on the screen of their mobile phone. What else can we do except hate nannies who fail to do their job and buildings with safety hazards?

I hope that the years will be peaceful and our elderly and children can live healthy lives. The elderly can spend their old age peacefully, and the children can grow up healthily!

Mr. Xu and his wife still did not agree on who should be hired to take care of Niu Niu.

Mrs. Xu said: "Whether it is a professional nurse or a non-professional nurse, there are some who have a strong sense of responsibility and some who have a weak sense of responsibility. I will hire a nanny with a strong sense of responsibility among the professional nurses." ”

Mr. Xu said: “Whether the nanny has a strong sense of responsibility or not, you can’t tell at a glance. Even with X-rays, you can’t tell. It will take you a while to know whether the nanny has a sense of responsibility. Maybe you will wait until you know her. When you are responsible, it is too late."

Mrs. Xu said: "Are you going to use Su Ping?"

Mr. Xu said: "There is no more suitable candidate than Su Ping."

Mr. Xu and Mrs. Xu said. own attitude.

Mr. Xu said: "For me, I care more about my daughter's safety. Children don't have the ability to protect themselves and can't even speak. I have to find her someone who can protect her and be devoted to her." I can't find someone I don't know well. What if I beat Niuniu secretly?"

Mrs. Xu said: "I also considered it from this aspect. I have a colleague who has a second child and asked a nanny to take care of her. The nanny secretly beat the child. I was afraid that Xiaoping would get emotional, lose control, and abuse Niuniu."

Mr. Xu shook his head and said: "Impossible! "

Mrs. Xu said: "How do you know it's impossible? When you are drunk and drunk, do you know what you do when you are drunk? When people lose control of their emotions, it's more scary than drinking Fragrance. Under the control of emotions, people will do all kinds of weird things that you can't even imagine -"

Mr. Xu said: "I said it's impossible for Xiaoping to be right. Niuniu is not good, it is impossible! I have an example. Didn't you tell Xiaoping not to kiss Niu Niu last time? I later checked the home video twice and found that Xiao Ping secretly kissed Niu Niu.

Mrs. Xu put down her face at that time and said, "What did Xiaoping say about her? She has no memory?" No culture, no quality! "

Mrs. Xu's words made my face turn red and white. No diploma does not mean that there is no culture. No culture does not mean that there is no quality. I have been with Su Ping for so long, but I feel that although Xiaoping does not have a diploma, he has no talent. She may not be educated, but she has quality. She may not be able to control her emotional affairs and follow her feelings, but she will not discount what her employer tells her. She is not a discount person

unless she disagrees with what her employer says. .

I said to Mr. Xu: “Can I see Xiaoping’s video? Did you see it wrong? It was taken before?

Mrs. Xu was a little excited. She said, "Xiaoping is a thief. She can't even listen to what others say about her." The second sister had said before that she would not listen to anything Xiaoping said. She would just follow the path she thought was right, and even eight cows would not be able to pull her back. You see now, it’s not easy for me to talk to her. "

I recently discovered something. When Mrs. Xu talks about things related to Niuniu, she gets excited easily. She is not as calm as before.

Mr. Xu looked at Mrs. Xu, then looked up at me and said, "Listen. I'll finish my words and then comment. I said that Xiaoping kissed Niu Niu secretly. It happened the day before yesterday. Xiaoping and Peihua gave Niu Niu a bath in her mother's room. After the bath, her mother turned around to find diapers for Niu Niu. Peihua took the bathtub to the bathroom to empty it. Bath water, when Xiaoping saw that there was no one around, she immediately kissed Niu Niu secretly twice——"

Mrs. Xu's face turned even worse, and the old lady's face also looked bad. She glanced at Mrs. Xu and said : "The same goes for Xiaoping. Xiaojuan won't let her kiss the child. Why is she still kissing her? I don't even kiss the child now -"

The old lady saw Mrs. Xu looking at her with red phoenix eyes, and she hurriedly said: "I haven't kissed Niuniu for a long time -"

It's over. It seems that Xiaoping is out of luck. Did Xiaoping's head get caught in the door frame? Do you have to kiss Niuniu? If you like children, just have one! You can't kiss your employer's children even if you like them. The employer has rules, and we, the nanny, have to follow their rules, otherwise we will resign and leave.

Mr. Xu is too good to succeed! He held his chopsticks with his empty fists and tapped lightly on the table twice. He looked at us and said, "I haven't finished speaking yet. You guys always interrupt. Can you let the leader finish speaking first and then you can speak?" This meeting is so tiring, even more tiring than leading a company. What Xiaoping kissed was not Niu Niu’s face, but Niu Niu’s little feet and buttocks. He kissed her twice and quickly looked back at his mother and Pei. Hua, for fear that they would see her kissing Niu Niu secretly. I fell in love with Xiaoping's look right away. This little old girl really regards our Niuniu as her own girl - daughter-in-law - Juan'er, tell me, let's hire a nanny for Niuniu. If we don't invite someone like this back, why should we hire a high-end one? professional? Our child is only two months old——"

Mr. Xu held out his two fingers for Mrs. Xu to see.He said: "Niuniu is only two months old. Why does she need high-level talent education? What is education? You think I don't understand anything because I have no education, no diploma, no quality. Are you trying to fool me? Now I think it is Abuse of the word "education", don't think I have no education, no diploma, no quality, but I know one thing, find a nanny for the elderly, find a nanny who doesn't mind the nagging of the elderly, and give a one-year-old who can't talk or walk The child is looking for a nanny, and I have to find a nanny who doesn’t mind my daughter having sex—”

Mr. Xu’s two small eyes suddenly raised and stared at me. I was shocked, why are you talking about me again?

Mr. Xu said: "Although Sister Hong has a bad temper, talks too straight, and even quarrels with the eldest sister, she is willing to chat with our mother, cut her hair, and take a bath with her. There is something wrong with our mother, and it is inconvenient. Let me tell you, I am also willing to chat with her. She doesn't dislike the old man, so I will use her. The same is true for Su Ping. You just finished training her, and she was still pouting and angry, but she picked up Niu Niu. , his face was full of joy, you said that I don’t need such a person, do I have to look for a professional and high-level person from outside, someone with education, diploma and quality? "

Mrs. Xu didn’t say anything for a long time, and then , she burst into laughter, gave Mr. Xu two pieces of shredded beef, and said, "I will listen to you this time, let's eat. You are the most educated and qualified person in our family, okay?"

Xu Mr. Xu looked at Mrs. Xu in surprise and said, "Really, have you decided to use Xiao Ping?"

I was also surprised. Mr. Xu actually defeated Mrs. Xu with words and words?

Mrs. Xu said softly: "You are the head of the family, of course I listen to you. However, Xiaoping is in the hospital now. Even if you use Xiaoping, you have to wait for Xiaoping to recover. Although appendicitis surgery is a minor operation, if you want to make a complete recovery, Okay, if you can do physical work and hold our little naughty girl, it will take at least two months. What should I do in these two months?"

Mr. Xu said: "Isn't this difficult? Just give it a try. ?"

Mrs. Xu slowly turned her head and looked at Mr. Xu with misty eyes.

Mrs. Xu's eyes are very interesting. Even when she is angry, her eyes are charming and charming. Women can age, but their style remains young. Unlike me and Su Ping, she would stare as big as a bean bag when she was angry, and her charm would be gone.

Zhibo on the side said: "Dad, you made a mistake again. My mother once said that you promised my mother that she would only give birth to three children, not raise them. The raising is your business. Besides, my mother will give birth to three children in two days. Go back to work in the courtyard."

Mr. Xu stretched out his hand to scratch his bald head and smiled at Mrs. Xu.

Immediately, Mr. Xu hurriedly rubbed Mrs. Xu's back with his palm as big as a cattail leaf fan, and said comfortingly: "I was so excited just now. I forgot about this."

Mrs. Xu said: "Then this Two months, what should I do? "Look at Niuniu."

The old lady who didn't say anything for a long time made the final decision, she said: "Hire someone for two months. If he does well, he will stay here. If he doesn't do well, he will stay." Just ask Xiaoping to come back."

What the old lady said was correct.

When Mrs. Xu saw her mother-in-law talking about hiring someone, she looked at Mr. Xu and said, "Master, what do you think?"

Mr. Xu's eyes rolled around and said, "Mom said she hired someone, so then Hire it, you have the final say."

The matter seems to have been settled.

While eating, I pondered what the three people said. Mrs. Xu ostensibly agreed to use Su Ping after two months, but she still wanted to hire a professional and qualified nurse to accompany and take care of Niu Niu. She hoped that Niu Niu would become a qualified little girl.

The old lady knew that her daughter-in-law wanted to hire a nanny, so she supported her daughter-in-law in hiring a nanny, but she also said that she would only hire a nanny for two months. If that didn't work, she would still use Xiaoping.

Mr. Xu also understood what the old lady meant. On the surface, he still wanted to listen to Mrs. Xu, so he agreed to hire a nanny for two months.

The question is, who can come to your house as a nanny and only sign a contract for two months? Maybe Mr. Xu and Mrs. Xu have not considered this issue, right?

However, the matter finally has a solution. Xiaoping still has hope and a chance to return to the Xu family.

After dinner, I was cleaning up the pots and pans in the kitchen. I heard Mr. Xu say: "I'm a little tired today. I won't mop the floor anymore. I'll mop it tomorrow."

Mrs. Xu said: "Then don't do it. I'll mop the floor tomorrow." "Come on, come on, I'll go out and walk around with you, otherwise I'll just sit on the sofa and watch TV after dinner, and my belly will be fat."

Mr. Xu didn't know what he muttered, but later he was urged by Mrs. Xu. Next, I changed into sports clothes. The two pushed Niuniu in the stroller and went out together.

The two couples, who were at odds just now, are now going out for a walk in pairs.

The sun has set.

The night wind picked up, and the sound of cars passing on the highway in the distance was very clear, as if they were carried by the wind.

The old lady staggered upstairs with her walker. I was a little worried about the old lady, so I stood at the top of the stairs waiting for her. My nose smelled a faint smell of mosquito coils.

The old lady is in trouble. I remember that when Su Ping and I took a parenting course, we were told that you should not light mosquito coils in the summer. Mosquito coils contain chemical materials that are not good for babies.

I quickly went up to the second floor and saw the old lady lighting mosquito coils in front of the north window sill. On the south window sill, a plate of mosquito repellent incense has been lit, and the scent lingers in the room.

I said: "Mom, don't light mosquito coils. I learned in the book that you can't light mosquito coils in the baby's room. Mosquito coils are not good for the baby."

The old lady asked suspiciously: "Really? I didn't. Light mosquito coils in Niuniu's room."

people are all as stubborn as Su Ping.

I said: "Mom, there is mosquito smell upstairs and downstairs now. This smell is really not good for babies. Anyway, I told you, you can make your own decision."

I turned around and went downstairs. posture, I heard the old lady calling me from behind: "Hong, hurry up, help me throw away the mosquito-repellent incense, and the mosquito-repellent incense on the south window sill, throw it away quickly, Xiaojuan comes back, don't let her smell it, she smells it" It's time to blame me for the mosquito-repellent incense. When you go home, take all the mosquito-repellent incense with you. If you want to use it, use it. If you don't use it, throw it into the trash can. "

I said, "Mom, it's okay if you light the mosquito-repellent incense in your room. "

The old lady said: "I'm not afraid of mosquitoes, and mosquitoes don't bite me. I'm old and I'm no longer human. Bao Niu's skin is sweet and attracts mosquitoes. I see Bao Niu's little arm was bitten by mosquitoes. After one mouthful, I feel distressed. How can I get rid of the mosquitoes? "

I said, "Let Xiaojuan buy a mosquito net for Bao Niu. That should do the trick. "

The old lady often calls Niu Niu "Bao Niu'er", and I do the same. Follow the old lady and call her Bao Niuer. I really like this little meat ball.

When I was about to go home, the old lady gave me two hundred yuan and said, "If you take the time to go to the hospital tomorrow to see Xiaoping, just say it is a little bit of my thoughts."

I understood what the old lady meant. I said: "I will go to see Xiaoping after dinner tomorrow afternoon."

When I went home, I took the mosquito coils away and threw them into the trash can. I didn't use mosquito coils because I found that Daguai didn't like mosquito coils, so I No more mosquito coils.

On the road, I saw Mr. Xu holding Niu Niu in his arms under the shade of a tree. Mrs. Xu was pushing a stroller and chatting with a couple of neighbors. The little boy with a bunch of old hair reached out to touch Niu Niu's chubby cheeks from time to time. leg.

The night breeze was blowing, and the pleasant smell of lilacswafted in the wind.

I particularly like this smell, because the fragrance of lilacs takes me back to my youth. I once wandered on the campus of Northeast Normal University for several months. It was the season of the year when lilacs were in full bloom. From May to the end of October, pink lilacs, purple lilacs, and white lilacs bloom everywhere on campus. Wandering in the sea of ​​flowers and having a youthful love again is such a charming season.

It’s just that at that time, I liked another boy, so the boy in the adult self-study class wrote me a thick love letter, and I returned it to him.If you don’t love me, you have to tell them clearly and don’t delay their affairs!

As the sun sets in the west, the sunset glows with a blush on the western horizon, as if the river has been dyed with sparkling colors. Adilina by the water is holding up her white skirt and smiling at her sweetheart...

I am looking everywhere , and finally found lilac flowers in a nearby villa. The yard is surrounded by a wooden fence. In the beautiful wooden fence, you can see green grapevines climbing on the shelves. A clump of lilac flowers blooms in the corner, fragrant alone in the night...

Time flies by. The water flows eastwards.

The next morning, I came to Xu’s house to go to work. I bought groceries and went to the kitchen. After I entered the house, I looked around and didn't see the new nanny. Mrs. Xu and Niu Niu were not seen either.

There was music coming from upstairs. I looked up and saw Zhibo dribbling the ball with his hands in the railing of the hall on the second floor. This kid is quite tall and is said to be on the school basketball team.

The old lady was sitting at the dining table eating watermelon. She pushed a plate of cut watermelon in front of me and said, "Eat a piece of watermelon before you work. I will cut it for you. If you don't eat it, it will spoil."

Old lady People know that if she doesn't cut the fruit, I won't eat the fruit at home easily.

I was sitting at the dining table eating watermelon and asked: "Auntie, where is Xiaojuan? Where is Niuniu?"

The old lady said: "Xiaojuan pushed Niuniu to the square to bask in the sun."

I said: "Where is the new nanny? "Have you had an interview?"

The old lady said, "What about the interview? I said I had something to do. I don't know if I can come in the afternoon."

I didn't ask the old lady any more. If the new nanny doesn't come, Mrs. Xu will be tired.

At noon that day, I made another vegetable soup for Mrs. Xu. This time I still didn’t add salt, but I added kelp and dried shrimps. These two ingredients are seasoned and have a salty taste. I took a sip of the soup and thought it tasted good.

The old lady kept sitting at the dining table chatting with me, so I filled a small half bowl of vegetable soup with a spoon and handed the bowl to the old lady to let her taste it. The old lady took a sip of the soup with a small spoon, nodded with a smile and said: "Okay, I can drink it just right."

I said: "Where is the kelp, is it hard?"

The old lady said: "It's not hard, I can bite it. "

I soaked the kelp in water for two hours in advance and pressed it with a pressure cooker to make the soup more delicious.

I made another steamed crucian carp, but I felt it wasn’t as good as Peihua’s. I’ll learn it slowly and there’s quite a lot of room for effort. Peihua’s steamed crucian carp reaches the ceiling!

The old lady suddenly smiled and said, "Your cousin Cuihua hasn't been here for several days. Do you know what Xiaojuan doesn't like about Cuihua?"

I said, "I don't know, aunt, seeing you smile, it must be her." Isn't it funny?"

The old lady said: "Cuihua, when cooking, you always have to taste the saltiness. She is not like you. She takes out some and picks it up with chopsticks to taste the saltiness. Serve it directly with a spatula, open your mouth to taste, and pour the rest back into the pot. Xiaojuan told her many times that Cuihua couldn't remember it, and Xiaojuan didn't like Cuihua——"

I laughed and said: "Auntie, to be honest, I also use a spoon to serve it at home and taste it directly in my mouth. I just go outside and pretend it."

The old lady said: "Look, you can pretend, but Cuihua can't pretend. ——”

My aunt and I both laughed.

After Mr. Xu’s family moved to their new house, cousin Cuihua came twice, both times at night. I was already off work at that time and didn’t meet her.

The old lady also said: "Yesterday I was chatting with Cuihua. She heard that no one was watching Niuniu, and she wanted to help me look after my granddaughter."

Oh my god, don't let cousin Cuihua come, that's terrible The world is in chaos!

I said: "Auntie, doesn't cousin Cuihua work in my eldest brother's company? She is also a junior boss. If she comes to look after Niu Niu, will she not be able to work in that class in the company?"

The old lady said: "You still have to do it?" I don’t know. Last time Cuihua came, she had already quit her job. She was opening a restaurant with her son.After the hotel opened, there were a lot of guests. I heard that the restaurant was turned over every day. What do you mean by turning over the tables?

I said: "The table is just a dining table, and there can be several tables of guests every day." "

Unexpectedly, Cuihua had quit her job and became the owner of a hotel. A shotgun was replaced by a cannon.

While having lunch, Mrs. Xu answered a phone call. It was a call from a nanny who was applying for a job. The nanny told her something After finishing her work, she asked Mrs. Xu if she was coming to Xu's house now.

Mrs. Xu took her mobile phone and said calmly: "At three o'clock in the afternoon, it's not hot at that time, otherwise you have to come in the bright sun. "

The nanny said: "It's okay, I'll take a taxi. "

Mrs. Xu said: "Come at three o'clock in the afternoon. I have something to do now and am not at home. "

Mrs. Xu put down her phone and continued eating, as if she hadn't answered the call.

Why did Mrs. Xu lie?

I didn't have the nerve to ask Mrs. Xu why she didn't ask the nanny to come now. I guessed that maybe she felt that the other party It's not polite to call at noon.

After Mrs. Xu finished eating, Niuniu was whining in the stroller. Mrs. Xu walked over and picked up Niuniu.

I found that the child had peed. They are almost like puppies. Little ones who can't talk use chirps and movements to express their thoughts. If Niu Niu rubs her eyes with her hands, she is basically sleepy. If she chirps, she is either hungry, sleepy, or wet the bed.

Mrs. Xu carried Niu Niu to the old lady's room, and gave Niu Niu a bath herself. The old lady held on to the walker and asked for help. When she walked back to her room, Xu The lady had already washed Niuniu. She put her on the bed and quickly put on the diaper. The baby was just a piece of dough.

Is this professional?

In the afternoon, I finished cleaning the kitchen, returned to the nanny's room, and set the alarm on my phone for 30 minutes. However, I slept for more than ten minutes and woke up within 20 minutes. I planned to go to the hospital to visit Su at this time. Peace. The task assigned to me by the old lady has not been completed yet.

There is no movement in the front and back of the house, only the sound of the wind passing through the gaps in the leaves.

I put on my long sleeves. I put on my clothes, put on a mask and sunglasses, and set off on a bicycle.

In the corridor of the hospital, I saw Su Ping holding his stomach with his hands, hunched over, and grinning.

The way Su Ping made me laugh. , I called softly: "Su Ping!

Su Ping turned around, saw it was me, and said with a smile: "Sister Hong, why are you here? Don't you delay going to work?" "She tried her best to straighten her waist, but the pain from the wound made her grin.

Su Ping said: "Sister Hong, look, I can go to the toilet by myself without delaying anything -"

I didn't find Dezi, Didn’t he say he took three days off?

I asked: “Where is Dezi? "

Su Ping said: "I went home to cook——"

Just as he was talking, Dezi came from a distance, sweating on his forehead. He was holding two lunch boxes in his hands. When he saw Su Ping Holding his stomach while walking, he said: "You don't have to walk so often, it's just stretching the wound. "

Su Ping said: "The doctor asked me to walk more because he was afraid that my intestines would stick. "

Dezi wanted to help Su Ping walk, but Su Ping didn't let him go. She supported herself and walked into the ward.

Dezi put the lunch box on the bedside table, picked up the kettle on the cabinet and shook it. She saw that the kettle was very light. He took the kettle to the water room to get hot water.

Su Ping opened the two lunch boxes that Dezi had brought. I went over to look at them. One box was filled with rice and the other was chicken stewed with mushrooms.

I said: " Ping, can we eat dry food now? Can chicken be digested?

Su Ping smiled sheepishly and said, "I'm so greedy. I just want to eat chicken stewed with mushrooms." It's okay, I'll chew it until it's a bit pulpy and it will be easier to digest.

Su Ping added: "Sister Hong, after you left yesterday, Xiaojun came and said that his second brother asked him to come."Tell me, does the second brother still want me to return to his house as a nanny? "

I said: "It should be like this -"

I told Su Ping everything about the argument between Mr. and Mrs. Xu because of Xiaoping at the Xu family dinner table last night. After hearing this, Su Ping was very happy and said: "I didn't expect it. My aunt also agreed that I should go back to work.

I suddenly thought of a question and said, "Xiaoping, when you recover, if you return to the Xu family to be a live-in nanny, will Dezi agree?" "

Things seem to be back to where they started.

I hope Su Ping says: "Never mind him, he has nothing to do with my work! "

But Su Ping didn't say that. She was chewing chicken in her mouth, and as soon as she swallowed it, she chewed a piece of mushroom. It was delicious. She said, "Let's talk about it then. Didn't you also tell me? The method must be better than Many difficulties. "

Su Ping's words made me laugh. What a heartless thing!

Dezi came back from fetching water and went to the bathroom to wash Su Ping's clothes. When he finished washing his clothes and came out to chat with me, I The old lady handed Su Ping the 200 yuan and said, "Auntie asked me to bring it to you. She asked you to take good care of yourself. "

I deliberately gave 200 yuan to Su Ping in front of Dezi. I want Dezi to know one thing. In today's society, it is too easy to find a job. As long as you don't pick a job, you will get a job. . However, good employers are not easy to find.

However, I won’t say much else. If I say more, it will affect the relationship between lovers. Now, the relationship between Dezi and Xiaoping is very solid. It’s not enough, the rain can’t penetrate it. If I say more, it may have the opposite effect.

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