It's the first time to work as an assistant to dismissal from the junior three. Their story shattered my three views.

(a teaching case compiled from my first point of view, the parties are all pseudonyms)

The doorbell of the company's door suddenly rang, and a tall lady in a loose coat came in, with a delicate face, slightly curled Her black hair was picked up casually by the headband, her eyes were melancholy and kind, her voice was gentle, and her gestures revealed elegance and intelligence.

"Hello, my name is Liu Ling, and my name is Teacher Yufeng".

I can't help feeling that such a beautiful woman has been tortured by emotions. I am such a Zhang Sanlisi who can't be found in the crowd. Wouldn't it be necessary to shy away from feelings? Teacher Yufeng came over and received Liu Ling politely. Then he glanced at me and he saw through his mind, motioned me to serve Liu Ling tea, and smiled meaningfully at me, reminding me not to judge people by their appearance.

Teacher Yufeng explained to me today that a helper named Liu Ling will come to the company for consultation today. I have been in the company for a year and have been working in the office. Starting from this client, I will start to work outside Fu has worked, and I am full of curiosity about her story.

Do you want a child

After Liu Ling met Teacher Yufeng, she directly raised the question: "My husband cheated. That person is pregnant. I have not been pregnant. This child can I can’t ask for it.”

Although I have been exposed to many cases, whenever a woman who is unclear about it throws a similar question, I will be angry and think: “Does this still need to be asked? If this child is born Isn’t it the same as burying a thunder for myself? Xiaosan gave birth to a child and left with a pat, is she willing, is it not afraid that Xiaosan will use the child as a threat to rekindle her old relationship with her husband, and finally exclude herself from the family? Liu Ling also seems to be a wise man,How come the intellectuals get their IQ to zero when they fall into a relationship? "

teacher is very patient, he explained to Liu Ling: "Can the child be temporarily put aside, now that a third party has invaded the family, it is better to understand her purpose, it is for work, money, Or is it lonely and lonely that needs company? If the problem of derailment is not resolved, there will be no way to characterize the problem of the child.

is different from the other wives I have seen who came to ask for the separation of the mistress. Liu Ling was not hysterical about her husband’s derailment, nor did she call her husband a guilty man when she got here, but it was because of herself. Infertility, showing a debt to her husband: "That person is not a bad person, she is under pressure at work and life is not going well. If I can give birth to Sun Qiang a child, these things will not happen, blame me, blame me! "Liu Ling started crying.

I hurriedly handed over a tissue, and the teacher comforted Liu Ling: "You are also a victim, so don't put yourself so much pressure.

After sending off Liu Ling, the teacher saw the puzzle in my eyes: "Do you have any opinions on Liu Ling?" "

I sighed and couldn't help but spit out: "If you can't have a child, you have to accept the child of a junior?" She is too kind!

teacher shook his head and smiled and said, "You are still too young!"

I don't understand, I want to argue for myself. The teacher throws me a simple question: "The average person has an extramarital affair, what do you call the third party?"

Yes! I never noticed this detail of Liu Ling. Generally speaking, women can't tolerate men's cheating. Even if they can't bear children, they hate the juniors. People who have good self-control. When it comes to junior three, it will also be contemptuous and hostile, and the title is even more unbearable.And Liu Ling seems to have consciously protected P3, not only that P3 is not a villain, but the title of P3 has always been "that person", which is indeed a bit puzzling.

teacher patted me on the shoulder: "I sort out the records of this meeting, and I will meet Liu Ling in two days."

Family pressure

I found a café on the riverside, with a window near the window, with a pleasant view and gradual room music.

My teacher and I came to the cafe before Liu Ling. Obviously the teacher was very satisfied with the location I chose. He looked around and said "Yes" after sitting down. I was very pleased with the teacher's affirmation. . The teacher once told me that a good environment can stimulate people's desire to communicate. As long as they can speak out, things will be half done.

Liu Ling came according to the agreed time. Compared to two days ago, she seems to be a little more haggard. Although the makeup is still generous and exquisite, the prominent eye bags betrayed her. It is obvious that Liu Ling has had a hard time in the past two days. The quality of sleep is not good, and tears should not flow less.

Teacher asked Liu Ling about the current relationship status with her husband Sun Qiang. Liu Ling said that he and Sun Qiang have a very good relationship. After more than ten years of marriage, Sun Qiang has been very caring for her family. She still feels about her infertility. Sorry, I hope Xiaosan can give birth to a child. She and Sun Qiang take the child to other cities to start again.

My answer to Liu Ling is not only astonished, but astonished. It is still the same rhetoric after two days.

teacher seemed calm,He did not refute, but only analyzed the marital risks that this would bring and a series of troubles that might be caused by Liu Ling. Just when Liu Ling's consciousness loosened, the teacher turned the topic directly: "Is this third person someone next to you? Without explaining her situation, our follow-up work is useless!"

Liu Lington After a pause, then squeezed out a few words with difficulty: "She is my sister!"

The sister-in-law robbed her brother-in-law? I thought such a bloody plot would only be found in TV dramas. The air seemed to freeze in an instant, and I even choked on the coffee. I tried to swallow and spit in order not to cough.

"Do parents and family know about this?" The teacher's face was still calm, asking everything rationally.

Liu Ling nodded nonchalantly. In fact, Liu Ling's parents not only knew, but also supported her sister Liu Li to give birth to a child, blindly persuading Liu Ling to bear it, Liu Ling's pressure can be imagined.

The second meeting refreshed my understanding of Liu Ling, and I also fully understood the helplessness and helplessness in her eyes. Both family and love were betrayed. If you want to vent, you don’t know how to vent, she I can't bear to hurt anyone, I can only hurt myself.

After Liu Ling left, I looked at the teacher and couldn’t help asking: "Did you know that Xiao San is my sister from the beginning!"

The teacher smiled, "I am not a god, why I can know so much."

"But, you have always acted calmly!"

"Liu Ling doesn't pay much attention to the derailment, but has always been entangled in the children, and the details of the junior three Deliberately avoiding it, many words have to be said, and it is obvious that she does not want to expose the mistress. What is the reason for the betrayed woman not to point the finger at the mistress? There is only one answer,Xiao San is close to her, and it is also very important to her, either a relative or a girlfriend.

I unconsciously gave a thumbs up to Teacher Yufeng. The teacher did not respond to me, but asked me to prepare to meet with Liu Ling's family. The frontal battlefield of this marriage defense battle was about to begin.

The charm of an excellent man

When choosing to contact Sun Qiang or Liu Ling’s parents first, Teacher Yufeng and I had different opinions. I think that since Liu Ling and Sun Qiang’s husband and wife have a good relationship, Liu Ling It is the pressure of the parents and the affection of the sisters that make him hesitate to have children. You can work directly with Liu Ling’s parents first, and clarify the interests of the matter, and you can solve the problem.

Teacher Yufeng thinks that Sun Qiang is still the same so far. Determined the development direction of the case: "As of now, all the information we know is provided by Liu Ling. Is Sun Qiang really guilty of the family as she said? Is he completely disconnected from his sister? We need to verify everything about the true attitude towards children.

I nodded and immediately started contacting Sun Qiang, where we also learned about what happened.

Sun Qiang is a doctor in a plastic surgery hospital. He has a good income and a good temper. Sun Qiang and Liu Ling are handsome men and women together. If there is no derailment, they are also an enviable couple. Sun Qiang and Liu Ling have been married for many years and have a rich family. They live with their in-laws. In a suburban villa, the family enjoys themselves.

Liu Ling’s younger sister, Liu Li, was originally married, but Liu Li’s husband was introverted and not good at speech. In addition, he worked in the clean water department and had no money except salary. There is also a gap in the status of the brother-in-law in the hearts of the parents-in-law. The parents-in-law mentioned in front of Liu Li's husband that Sun Qiang was both capable and capable of doing things, which made their two elders happy; for a long time, Liu Li was dissatisfied with her husband. status quo,The ridicule and sarcasm eventually led to the breakdown of their marriage.

After Liu Li divorced, she lived with her parents in Liu Ling's house. As a brother-in-law, Sun Qiang treated her sister-in-law like a sister. Daily necessities and cosmetics bought for Liu Ling would be bought intact for Liu Ling. Li. In Sun Qiang’s view, Liu Li was in a bad mood for divorce. As the host of the family, he should care more about Liu Li. But what Sun Qiang didn’t expect was that his kindness eventually misunderstood Liu Li. Let Liu Li have an emotional dependence on him.

After the divorce, Liu Li has always been high and low. He originally thought that he was fair and beautiful, had stable work income, and the suitors would queue long, but Liu Li is a divorced person in his thirties. There is no advantage in age either. Those who are waiting for her are either divorced with children, or single with no strength. Compared with her brother-in-law Sun Qiang, Liu Li thinks that these opposite sexes introduced by relatives and friends are all crooked melons, which is not worth mentioning.

Liu Ling often gets close to Sun Qiang by the opportunity of plastic surgery. In addition to her pretty appearance and rugged figure, Sun Qiang can't help but think about it. Two people come together.

"I shouldn't have done such an inferior thing. I don't have the face to see my family now!" I didn't expect that the 1.8-meter man in front of me would cry in front of the teacher. It seems that I really regret it, depending on the situation.

However, Sun Qiang's mood fluctuates a lot, and for a while we can't communicate. In order to calm Sun Qiang's mood, the teacher decided to let Sun Qiang calm down. We retreated and left the room temporarily.

Compared to the past, the teacher became more dignified after seeing Sun Qiang's performance. I was puzzled. The teacher asked me what I thought. I think Sun Qiang has regrets and Liu Ling also has the intention to reconcile. Now the resistance lies with his parents. As long as the parents are moved, Liu Li's chances of compromise are very high.

teacher said: "There is some truth in the analysis,But Sun Qiang is still riding a tiger. He neither dared to let Liu Li beat the child, but also felt guilty for Liu Ling. The balance was always swinging. As long as Sun Qiang's attitude was not tough, Liu Li would not let it go easily.

"Teacher, are you overthinking, Sun Qiang is so painful, will he still have a future with Liu Li?" "I was a little unconvinced.

Teacher Yufeng didn't explain anything, and turned back to the room, and I followed him.

Sun Qiang adjusted his emotions, and the teacher continued to ask: "Liu Li is pregnant. Is it in your plan?

Sun Qiang hurriedly shook his head: "It was a complete accident.

After receiving Sun Qiang’s answer, I saw that the teacher’s serious face became lighter.

Sun Qiang continued to explain. After learning that he had a child, he had proposed to kill it, but Liu Li thinks that her sister Liu Ling can't have children. Now she has Sun Qiang's offspring. It is the best of both worlds to give birth to her sister. For this reason, Sun Qiang and Liu Li have made many plans to secretly give birth to children outside.

But the plan can’t keep up with the changes. Liu Li couldn’t stand the internal suffering and secretly told Liu Ling the fact that she was pregnant. Liu Ling didn’t know the child’s father was Sun Qiang told Sun Qiang about the incident again. Sun Qiang had a guilty conscience and knelt down to Liu Ling and confessed what happened. This family turmoil caused huge waves.

Parents are eccentric

Sending away Sun Qiang, I just understood why Yufeng teacher was worried about Sun Qiang’s attitude. Liu Li always took the initiative to beat Sun Qiang. She had a real affection for Sun Qiang and now she has children. As a bargaining chip,If you don't understand Sun Qiang's heart dynamics in time, Sun Qiang is likely to be affected by his sister Liu Li, leading to the breakdown of his marriage.

Anyway, Liu Li's child cannot be taken, but it is definitely a tough battle to persuade Liu Li. The teacher couldn't help but light a cigarette, and standing by the window, the smoke gradually diffused into the room. I closed the door silently, and I understand that the teacher needs to be quiet now and accumulate energy to prepare for the next step.

The next day, I arrived at the office early and found that the teacher was ready to go.

"Have you had breakfast?" the teacher asked.

"I have eaten it!" I replied. The teacher nodded and motioned for me to follow him immediately.

Liu Ling's parents originally lived with Liu Ling, but now the family has had a scandal. The old couple moved out of Liu Ling's house and returned to the old house in the city. We went around and finally found the right house number and rang the doorbell.

The reception of us is Liu Ling's mother. After the incident, Liu Ling's father kept himself in the room and kept himself behind closed doors.

It can be seen that Liu Ling's parents are also intellectuals, and the house is spotlessly cleaned. The books everywhere in the living room may reflect Liu Ling's parents' love of reading. But Liu Li's affairs made the old couple suddenly unable to stand up to their spine. Knowing our intentions, they were also very resistant to us at first.

teacher is very patient and even feels the experience of them. I did not participate too much, because in my opinion, such parents are not worthy of pity. If you learn that your sister has done something that is sorry for your sister, you can make a bowl of water and force your sister to kill the child, and your sister will still be so. Are you wronged? Perhaps this turmoil has long since subsided.

Liu Ling’s parents, under the guidance of the teacher,Slowly expressed their thoughts. They thought that Liu Ling could not have children. Although his sister Liu Li did what she was sorry to her elder sister, they were sisters after all and gave birth to Liu Ling. Compared with Liu Ling's adoption, she knew the basics at least.

teacher is still patiently explaining. This idea is too ideal. Liu Ling and Liu Ling are sisters, but they also have their own lives. Now the younger sister and brother-in-law give birth to children for their sisters. What's the matter? How will Liu Ling accept this child in the future? And it’s better if Liu Li can find the right marriage partner; if he can’t find or find a child who doesn’t have another child, then as long as the child is there, Liu Li’s heart cannot be removed from Sun Qiang, Liu Ling and The contradiction between Liu and Li will intensify, and the sisters will not be able to do it at that time.

After talking in the morning, Liu Ling's parents kept sighing, and Liu Ling's mother cried many times, complaining about her life. On the way back, the teacher sympathized with the old couple's experience. Seeing that I was silent, he enlightened me: "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to recite, and such things must be treated calmly."

"The poor must have it." The hateful thing, the old couple shouldn’t be partial to Sun Qiang at the beginning, belittle the second son-in-law, drive the second son-in-law away, and the second daughter cut off the first son-in-law. This is all their sin. Now if something goes wrong, let Liu Ling beat him. I lost my teeth and swallowed in my stomach. Isn't this what eccentricity is?" I said indignantly.

Teacher Yufeng smiled. I knew he wanted to say that I was too young, but the teacher explained: "The old couple is eccentric. Their ultimate goal for Liu Li to give birth is to stabilize Sun Qiang. "

I don't understand it, and I have a curiosity on my face. I waited for the teacher to continue to explain. Without expecting it, the teacher deliberately bought a lawsuit and went straight away.

God is fair

In the following period of time, we visited many times to communicate with Liu Ling’s wife and Liu Ling’s parents. The teacher’s suggestion was to persuade Liu Li to kill the child.However, Liu Li couldn't listen to what his family said, he must be born. Things are deadlocked, and sister Liu Ling also has the idea of ​​giving up marriage.

I followed the instructions of Teacher Yufeng to organize the files about Liu Ling. I could see that the teacher was desolate at the time. I knew that the birth of the child would push Liu Ling's family into the abyss, but we had no way to intervene and it was worn out. The lips couldn't be stunned by Liu Li's attitude. The smell of cigarettes filled the teacher's office again. Through the blinds, I saw a stack of cigarette butts in the ashtray.

can't bear to watch the teacher worry about the case, I instinctively want to knock on the door, but before I reach out, the teacher walked out happily, with brilliance in his eyes, without too much explanation, he called me Went out.

On the way to Liu Ling's house, I learned that the teacher suddenly received a call from Liu Ling, saying that Liu Li wanted to terminate the pregnancy .

Since the incident of her cheating brother-in-law Sun Qiang was exposed, Liu Li has not spent a day in self-blame and guilt. She loves Sun Qiang, but she feels sorry for her sister. The contradictory and complicated mood has changed her personality. It was dull and gloomy, and the pressure inevitably affected the child in the stomach. During the routine examination two days ago, it was found that the child may have some kind of congenital disease. Perhaps it was also due to our persuasion to Liu Ling's parents these days, family pressure, and God's help that made Liu Li no longer insist on choosing an abortion.

Days finally returned to peace. The teacher finally suggested to Liu Ling and Sun Qiang. First, Sun Qiang cut off contact with Liu Li and can no longer have any emotional interactions; Second, Sun Qiang must recognize his own mistakes and continue to bear them. It’s my responsibility to take care of my parents-in-law’s emotions. I can’t stop contacting my parents-in-law just because of this. Third, Liu Li’s approach is indeed wrong, but a slap is not enough. After all, Liu Ling and Liu Ling are biological sisters, Liu Since Ling chooses to accept her husband Sun Qiang again, she should let her sister Liu Li abandon her past and do not live with resentment; fourthly, Liu Ling and Sun Qiang need to carefully consider the issue of children. If they want children,You can seek help from a doctor and perform IVF. Even if you choose to adopt a child or simply DINK, you can live your life, and happiness is in their own hands.

The case of Liu Ling and Sun Qiang was perfectly drawn to an end, but the teacher said that Liu Ling's parents agreed to let Liu Li give birth to a child to stabilize Sun Qiang, but I still can't understand it.

At my plea, the teacher finally explained: “Sun Qiang’s status in this family is high, and the most important thing is his rich income. Everything Liu Ling’s parents enjoy is brought by Sun Qiang. If Liu Ling can have her own child, and the relationship with Sun Qiang is more stable. Unfortunately, it is Liu Li who is pregnant. With this child, Sun Qiang will never get rid of the relationship with Liu's family."

My three The view was shaken to pieces, but the teacher said that human nature tends to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. In order to appease my little heart struck by the truth, the teacher proposed to invite me to dinner at noon. Just when I was searching for food on the Internet, the doorbell rang again, and I looked at the door, who would come in this time, and what kind of story would he bring?