Introduction
"serious illness" is the abbreviation of "serious diseases". This type of disease includes many types, such as malignant tumor , severe cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases , deep coma, permanent paralysis, severe brain damage , etc. are all called "serious diseases".
A medical expert said that the so-called "serious illness" actually refers to some serious and dangerous major diseases in . If this serious illness cannot be treated in a timely manner, it is likely to endanger the patient's life.
, the medical expert went on to say that of course, is not a very simple thing to treat major diseases. On the one hand, it costs a lot to treat major diseases; on the other hand, it takes a long time to treat major diseases; on the other hand, it is not very sure of treating major diseases.
, the medical expert continued, said that in terms of expenses alone, the cost of to treat major diseases is not something that ordinary families can afford. Take cancer as an example. If a patient wants to survive for more than 5 years, it will cost more than 100,000 yuan at least; if it is more than 600,000 yuan. Just imagine: As for many families at present, there are probably a few families who can afford so much. Based on this, when some members of some families suffer from "major illness", people will consider giving up treatment.
A senior netizen pointed out that for people with families, although the conditions in some families are not good, when family members suffer from major illnesses, their families will do their best to treat family members. However, for some people who do not have families, when they suffer from major illnesses, they can only "bear" by themselves. It is easier to say if they have money. If they have no money, they can only "wait for death".
In fact, this senior netizen’s statement is also very reasonable. Look, Zhou, a Guizhou woman who has no home, is waiting to die!
So, what's going on? Let’s talk about this matter below
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incident
A 36-year-old woman named Huang is already a mother of two children.
More than ten years ago, Huang met Liu from a neighboring village through a matchmaker. Shortly after they met, they felt that they were very compatible, so the two got married.
In the second and fourth years after marriage, Huang gave birth to a son and a daughter. Although the family of four is not very wealthy, he is still quite happy.
After Liu had two children, the burden of life was naturally quite large. In order to increase the family's income, Liu went up the mountain to dig medicinal materials during the slack farming period. Although the income from digging medicinal materials cannot make the family richer, there is still no problem in meeting the family's daily needs.
However, most of the young men in Liu's village make a living by working in Guangdong. Compared with digging medicinal materials, their income will be higher. Therefore, half of the families in the village have built brick and tile houses one after another.
Compared with the families that built brick and tile houses, the adobe house where Liu lives is really too dilapidated. However, Liu does not have much extravagant demands in life. Liu believes that as long as the family of four can live together every day, it is the greatest happiness.
However, Huang and Liu's ideas are different. Huang believes that his son will grow older and older. If he does not improve the family situation as soon as possible and build a brick and tile house, it will be a problem for his son to find a partner in the future. Based on this idea, Huang kept asking Liu to work.
After Huang's repeated nagging, Liu had to go to Guangdong. However, in the past two or three years, due to the impact of the epidemic, Guangdong has not made a good business format, and Liu has not made a lot of money when the business format is not very good.
Since Liu has not made a lot of money, Huang’s idea of building a brick and tile house as soon as possible cannot be realized. I don’t know if it was because Huang’s personality changed or because of other reasons, Huang, who had not cursed much, would often scold her husband Liu via WeChat. Since Liu could not bear Huang's scolding, he couldn't bear it anymore and started to curse Huang through WeChat.
Huang is a woman who wants to be respectful. When Liu scolded her, she filed for divorce from Liu. Although Liu admitted his mistakes to her many times, she did not win back Huang's desire to divorce. In desperation, Liu had to divorce Huang, and, in accordance with Huang's request, gave all his son and daughter to Huang, and Liu needed to pay the child support monthly.
After Huang divorced Liu, she left Liu's house with her two children. After leaving Liu's house, she rented a house in the suburbs of the city to live and live with her two children. Usually, Huang would work as a waiter at a hotel in the city.
One day in October this year, Huang, who was working in a hotel, suddenly felt a little uncomfortable, so she went to a private clinic to grab the medicine. However, although the medicine had been taken, the symptoms of her physical discomfort were not relieved. Seeing that her work was about to be affected, Huang had no choice but to see a doctor in the hospital. After multiple examinations, the doctor confirmed that not only Huang's lower body had cancer, but also that he was in the late stage. The cost of treating cancer in
is very huge, and it is also difficult to cure in cancer. Huang is clear about this. Perhaps it was based on this that Huang gave up treatment.
After Huang gave up the treatment, she knew that she had not had much time. In order not to die outside, she explained the situation to her parents. She told her parents that she wanted to go back to her parents to spend the last moment, but it was regrettable that although her parents agreed, her brother and sister-in-law did not agree.
After Huang learned of her brother and sister-in-law's attitude, she already knew that her parents' home could not go back. In this case, she tried to communicate with her ex-husband Liu, intending to return to her ex-husband's home to wait for death. But what she didn't expect was that her ex-husband Liu actually rejected her coldly.
Can't go back to my parents' home, and my ex-husband's home can't go back to my home. In this case, Huang was instantly desperate. However, when Huang's children saw that their mother was desperate, they found their grandfather and knelt down to plead with her. When the grandfather of his children was concerned about the face of his children and grandchildren, he built a plastic shed in an open space at the entrance of the village, allowing Huang to live in the shed. The only one who serves Huang every day was her two children.
On December 10, several villagers went to visit Huang. When Huang saw the villagers, he cried and said to the villagers: "I have no home anymore. Next, I can only die outside." When the villagers heard Huang say this, they couldn't help but burst into tears.
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens heard about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voice
Netizen Euphrates: If I had known today, why should I have been there? If Huang hadn't been willful and determined to divorce, how could he have fallen to this point? However, I didn’t say anything anymore. It’s meaningless to blame Huang now.
Netizen's Youth Song: Through this incident, it can be shown that women must not divorce easily, otherwise they will have no home.
In short, netizens have a lot of discussions.
Lao Hu’s point of view
As the saying goes, “Things in the world are impermanent.” This ending must have been something Huang didn't expect.
As the netizen " Euphrates River " said, Huang is already terminally ill, and we cannot blame Huang for his "willfulness". However, Huang's former father-in-law was also arbitrary. After all, he built a shed for Huang at the request of his grandson and granddaughter, so that Huang could at least have a place to live. Otherwise, Huang's ending might be even worse.
This matter can be explained by: a woman must be cautious when divorced. Otherwise, it is possible to follow Huang's footsteps again!
What do you think?
