After several carefree years, in 2016, she occasionally felt a dull pain in her waist. When it hurt, she rested for a few days without taking any medicine. The pain disappeared, so she thought it was caused by stress on her waist. It was the date of re-examination in 2017. I went to Tianseng for examination and told the doctor about the pain in my waist. After a test, the doctor initially diagnosed it as local metastasis of iliac , clavicle, and thoracic vertebrae . In order to further determine the location, PET_Ct was done at your own expense, and the local metastasis of the iliac, clavicle and thoracic spine were finally diagnosed. Fortunately, no metastasis was found in her brain, liver, lung and other organs. The doctor also expressed optimism (their professional term: a good prognosis, more than 10 years).
Since then, we have begun to control bone metastasis . At the beginning, the radiologist asked us to do radiotherapy. After consultation, we did not do radiotherapy. The reason was that radiotherapy can only be treated once in the same part of the human body. After this radiotherapy, the choice of future treatment will be limited (I am worried that bone pain will occur in the later stage, so radiotherapy will be better at that time). We chose oral Western medicine + Chinese medicine, and the effect was good. I will get rid of the swelling 2-4 times a month, and I will be hospitalized in a local hospital and I will receive bone-protecting medicine once.
also started from this time. I took on almost all the housework and didn't let her take a little effort. Her family also cared for her, and her friends and colleagues were also caring for her. I prepare breakfast for her every morning, cook or mix cold dishes for her, and wait for her to take a walk home and rest for a while before having breakfast. I also make lunch and dinner. When I went to her parents' house during the break, I took the initiative to cook and did my daughter's duty for her.
There is a small square in front of my house, and there is an banyan tree planted beside it. When spring comes, it will bloom many pink flowers. Every time my wife comes back from a walk, she has to look at the banyan tree and flowers. From time to time, she would take photos of some scenery and water bird during the walk, and even velvet flower . (This tree may be effective, it will drop to it in the future)
Since her bones were transferred, I have cared for her more in life and made her happy. At the same time, I secretly planned to let her appreciate the great mountains and rivers of the motherland without leaving any regrets.
I have made many self-driving routes for her, and shared with her knowledge about attractions and regional customs and culture, enhance the travel experience, and turn travel into a travel.
The overall strategy we discussed: first far and then near, first mountains, rivers and then plains. Reason: Age + physical condition is getting worse and worse. Taihang Mountain is a famous mountain range in the north, and we plan to visit it in segments. Taihang Eight major passes, we crossed 6 major passes from north to south. We also visited the ancient villages, ancient cities, ancient passes, Qinhuang Ancient Road, , etc. in the Taihang Mountains, and experienced the majestic and magnificent Taihang.
