Author: Zhao Xiaoming Editor: Yang Liyun Cui Guanli [Quotes from Xiaoming] Essentially, when we do psychological work, first of all, your interpretation system must be complete, your interpretation system must be diversified, and then you have higher cognition in philosophy, and

Author: Zhao Xiaoming Editor: Yang Liyun Cui Guanli

[Xiaoming Quotes]

Essentially, when we do psychological work, first of all, your interpretation system must be complete, your interpretation system must be diversified, and then you have higher cognition in philosophy, and then you have more cognitions and more methodologies.

01 Two types of consultation methods: rely on technology or rely on people, which one is higher?

I told psychiatrists about the importance of philosophy in their clinical psychotherapy, and also told them about psychoanalytical treatment.

In fact, from a large perspective, it is two levels:

• first is to rely on technology for treatment;
• second is to rely on people for treatment;

second is to rely on people for treatment;

relies on technology for treatment. You can hear a lot of technologies step by step, all are practical techniques, you will be able to learn it once you learn it.

But relying on human treatment is actually the most troublesome thing in psychoanalysis , because relying on human treatment means that turns a consultant into a therapeutic tool.

That is to say, counselor is not the image of an external doctor you imagine, but you want to become a tool yourself, and then you have to have an personality communication between people who break through the personality boundaries with the client's personality. How close is this kind of personality communication? Its spiritual impact on people is equivalent to the intimate relationship between you and a real person who can have sex.

It is equivalent to the spiritual connection between you and a father or mother when you were a child, that is, its depth can reach such a deep level.

In psychological counseling, when we experience this technique of using personality interaction to treat clients, how much impact does it have on the counselor himself?

02 The personality training of a consultant is the most difficult

Why is it said that the personality training of a consultant is the most difficult?

personality training means another problem arises, that is, all psychological diseases of the client will actually be transmitted to the psychological counselor.

As long as you do it deeper and the better the treatment you want, the infection of the client's psychological illness in you will inevitably occur.

If you do a poor job, you are using a isolation state. is an emotional isolation state and your client will do psychological counseling. In this case, you will be less affected by the client.

If you want to achieve a deep therapeutic effect, if you put your heart into this client, then all the psychological problems of the client will be contagious to you. This is something you can't control even if you want to, and it is something you can't control even if you want to.

Because of this spiritual contagion, it is non-conscious, subconscious, spiritual emotional interaction and communication between you and your visitors.

03 Visitor - a vampire like a father

then the next question is now, that is, I talked about this issue when I was doing in-depth communication for some people in our disciple class. Some of them have relatively simple life experiences and have not experienced some very complicated things that test your personal cultivation level .

Some people have a relatively smooth life. When such silly white sweets enter clinical psychological counseling, there is actually a very big problem that will test you, that is, the visitor is equivalent to a kind of maternal and infant relationship , which is a vampire who desires his mother and mother love.

One is that he has a strong desire for sexual desire, just like the king of the Kingdom of Women in "Journey to the West".

There are also vampires who want to deal with vampires who are like fathers to authoritative relationships.

Then the client has a lot of emotions, which is actually a kind of emotional ransomware , and he will develop emotional exploitation of the consultant.

[Xiao Ming Quotes]

successful people generally believe in 's Law of Attraction , and those who fail generally believe it very much. Only those who are not good at it do not agree, because they find that the law does not work much for them. This is the effect of psychology, people put irrelevant causes and effects together.

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