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There is such a strange space in this world - dreamland.
Dreams are both real and false. The truth is that the characters and contents in it are related to the people and things we have come into contact with in the past; the falsehood is that after we wake up, it disappears.
Different people have different explanations for dreams. Psychologists believe that psychological regulation and change will affect the content of dreams; scientific researchers believe that dreams are not unrelated to human desires.
When it comes to dreams, we have to talk about a question: Why do some "people" appear in our dreams?
The person referred to here, may be a real person, a person who has left, or a person who has something to do with us or has nothing to do with. Anyway, it may appear in our dreams.
For example, if you dream of a deceased person, I believe that most people will feel fear and feel it is particularly terrible. In fact, there is no need to be terrible. What kind of dreams should be done in are actually not controlled by us, we just need to accept it.
All dreams have more or less certain "hint" effects, which we call "foreshadowing dreams".
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There is a Dr. Liu from Nanchang University Hospital who once wrote about his own experience in his thesis.
In 1998, Dr. Liu suffered from severe hepatitis and fell into a coma. During this period of unconsciousness, he had a particularly long dream.
Just as he started to fall into a coma, he found that his thoughts slowly left his body and floated into the air. A tunnel appeared in front of him, so he walked into the tunnel.
The moment he passed through the tunnel, everything in front of him changed. He found that he returned to his hometown, his grandmother stir-frying peanuts he liked in the pot, and others were also doing their own things.
walked to the door, and my father was actually throwing food , and countless snowflakes fell from the sky. He wanted to stay in this warm and beautiful scene. Who knows that in an instant, both grandmother and father disappeared.
Doctor Liu found that he had returned to the darkness and wanted to find his grandmother and father, but he could not find it, and was blocked by something. Not long after, Dr. Liu was rescued.
The moment he woke up, he realized that everything he saw before was a dream, not real. However, the feeling of , the warmth in it, makes people feel particularly "real".
Later, researchers wrote Dr. Liu's experience into the case of "near-death experience".
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Psychologist Kenneth Reinger summarized "near-death experience" into four parts.
First, people will feel particularly calm, very peaceful, without the heaviness in reality; second, people will find themselves leaving their bodies and walking into a tunnel.
Third, gradually penetrate deeper into the tunnel and you will encounter a beam of light. This beam of light will give people a sense of warmth and comfort that they have never felt before, just like being relieved. At the same time, is on both sides of the tunnel, and there are countless relatives who have left. Most of them are bright and beautiful, much more handsome than when they were alive.
At the same time, Everything that happens in life is like a movie, flashing in front of people's eyes. A lifetime is just a simple moment, which is enough to summarize completely.
The fourth, merges with the beam of light and returns to nature. Or he got rid of that beam of light, returned to the darkness, and finally was rescued. The most wonderful part of the four parts of
should be the third part.Why are there deceased relatives on both sides of the tunnel "welcome"? Why do they become much brighter?
In the eyes of psychologists, At the moment of dying, the human mind will never have peace. This kind of peace will make people dream of everything they need in their hearts and the past events of old friends they miss.
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Age older people will go through the four stages mentioned above when they die. The people they dreamed of were all here to take the old man away.
First of all, close relatives who have a relationship with you. The above mentioned Dr. Liu was critically ill and dreamed of his grandmother and father he was worried about, as well as a lot of relatives who were doing things.
Why did he dream of his grandmother and father? Because , he has a very good relationship with his grandmother and father. The two people's every move during their lifetime impressed him. In this way, his father and grandmother, who impressed him, appeared in the dream.
Secondly, they are relatives and friends who have been with me. Some people are not our closest relatives, but we especially cherish the time we spend with them. When the elderly get older and become more nostalgic, they will dream of them.
In the dream of dying, these people appeared to take the old man away. To put it romantically, destiny will make the person you care about the most meet you again at the last moment.
Although the people who returned home have left, their voice, appearance and appearance will always be hidden deep in our minds. Although these memories are sealed up, these old memories will become clearer as they move back.
Leaving, that is everyone's final experience. No matter rich or ordinary people, they cannot avoid the fate of "the dust returns to the dust, the soil returns to the soil".
There is no need to be afraid of these old friends who come to "take" people away, and there is no need to think too much. Everything will happen when it should happen. Because this is a necessity in life.
text/Shushan Youlu
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