"My son is 15 years old. He treats our parents as enemies. In school, he feels that everyone wants to hurt him. He plays games every day. He doesn't like us and scolds us. Is this a sin in our previous life?" A mother from Wuhan.
Parents also have this question, what's wrong with children in this era?
Now the children live in such good living conditions, and they have no worries about food and clothing, but they are extremely fragile inside, which seems to have become the label of the teenager group. According to data released by the Child Development Center of Beijing Medical University, in China, about 100,000 teenagers die from suicide every year, and depression is an important factor in suicide, among 100,000 teenagers! 100,000 families! 100,000 hopes! Who abandoned the child? It’s because the children abandoned this world, all this is worth pondering!
What are the reasons why children are prone to depression?
lively and cute, carefree, and seems to be depressed. This is our impression of all children.
In fact, many times, children will not express their feelings directly, and will use some behaviors to help parents, such as angry, manic, anxious, irritable, etc., but few parents will explain the reasons behind their children's behavior. , so children's needs are often ignored, and over time, these emotions will be suppressed and cannot be solved in the heart.
"Emotions that are not expressed will never disappear. They are just buried alive and will appear in an uglier way in the future. Every child who is not treated well by a family will expose his truest side in a chosen marriage and love," Freud said.
Not long ago, a man in Wuhan committed suicide after jumping off a building. The whole photo was heartbreaking. The boy jumped angrily to respond to his mother: You hit me! I'll give you my life back! Almost everyone regrets the boy's departure, and the mother will be deeply blamed for the rest of her life.
Tragedy After that, it was our thinking about education, and it was definitely not just the two slaps that took the life of that young man. Tragedy just tear apart the sharp knife of family conflicts and let the ugliness be resisted. Previously, I saw a survey in an article. The reasons for suicide of many children are often confiscating their mobile phones, lying on the bed by their mothers dragging their quilts, locked on TV, and not wanting to study... These are controlled by parents under examination-oriented education, and are also the most likely to cause family education problems.
When faced with depressed children, parents must not make mistakes again!
There are many parents of depression children. They not only do not do things that are beneficial to their children, but also do things that aggravate their children's depression. It's really worrying.
Depressed children are more inferior, guilty, and regretful. They have weak energy, lose confidence in life, cannot see hope, and are more likely to be self-harm and commit suicide. Therefore, this requires parents to better accompany their children and support their children's fragile world, rather than doing the following behaviors when their children are helpless, that is, fire.
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