I am Weicheng Chaoyu, expressing my attitude towards life in words.
Be under pressure and you will run faster.
A few weeks after the 1860 election, a big banker named Barn saw Senator Salmon Caiss coming out of the office of Lincoln and said to Lincoln, "Don't select this person to your cabinet." Lincoln asked, "Why do you say that?" Barn replied, "Because he thinks he is much greater than you."
"Oh," Lincoln said, "You know who thinks he is greater than me?" "I don't know." Barn said, "But why do you ask?" Lincoln replied, "Because I want to put them all into my cabinet." Why did Lincoln do this? Many people are confused by Lincoln's decision.
As Bane said, Sir Cai is indeed a crazy and extremely arrogant person. He is very jealous and always hopes to seek a presidency. As for why Lincoln still reuses Cai Si, he used his own words to explain it as: "Now there is a horse fly called 'Presidential Desire' that bit Mr. Cai Si. So, as long as it can make Cai Si's department run continuously, I don't want to knock it down."
In real life, not only Mr. Cai Si, but any of us, finding a horse fly to give ourselves some pressure will make ourselves move faster in the direction of our goal. There was once an interesting story: In order to appreciate the wildness of the mountains, Lesri came to a strange forest alone, turned left and right and lost his direction. Just when he was at a loss, a beautiful girl who was carrying a mountain product came towards him. The girl smiled and asked, "Sir, are you lost from the attractions? Please come with me, I will take you to the bottom of the mountain, where there are cars from a tourism company waiting for you."
Lesri followed the girl through the jungle. Just as he was intoxicated by the beautiful scenery, the girl said, "Sir, go ahead and it is the Guigu here, which is the most dangerous section of this mountain forest. If you accidentally fall into the abyss. The rule here is to pass by here, you must pick or carry something."
Lesri asked in surprise: "In such a dangerous place, isn't it more dangerous to carry the weight?" The girl smiled and explained: "Only when you realize the danger, you will concentrate more, and that will be safer. Several valley falls here have occurred, and lost tourists accidentally fell down without any pressure. We carry things back and forth every day, but no one has any trouble."
Lesri couldn't help but sweat. There was no choice but to carry two heavy wooden strips and walk carefully through this "Guigu" road. Two sinking wood strips became people's "talismans" in the face of danger. In fact, many times, if we learn to press two "sinking wood strips" on our shoulders and put some pressure on ourselves, it will indeed make us walk better.
Let’s take a look at this example that is very close to our own: Xiao Wang studied management, and because he likes design, he joined the planning department of a private company. I just started working and took over a company's Christmas website advertising design project, with a term of 4 days.
Because this advertisement requires designing a very creative web page, and Xiao Wang and other colleagues do not understand web design software, the boss recommended a foreign player who is good at making web pages before he went on a business trip. Unexpectedly, Xiao Wang contacted the other party with the mobile phone number given by the boss. He also went on a business trip in another place and couldn't find time at all.
At that time, Xiao Wang had only two ways: one was to give up and directly ask the boss to tell him that he couldn't do it; the other was to face the difficulties and complete the project. Choosing the former will lead to a loss of good performance opportunities and the dream of promotion may also be ruined; choosing the latter will require you to think of other ways to create a creative web page, which must not only meet the requirements of event advertising, but also reflect the company's connotation and advantages, but if you succeed, it will greatly enhance your position in the boss's heart.
Xiao Wang, who has always dreamed of achieving results, finally chose the latter.After the decision, he thought: If you look for someone else, it will take at least one day to let the other party understand the company's corporate culture, advantages and event significance, and the entire project is only 4 days, so it is better to go to it yourself. After all, he has a good understanding of the company and the theme of this event, not to mention that he has also studied computer courses such as FOXPRO and VB during college.
So he bought two web page books, locked himself in the office, and studied day and night for three consecutive days. On the fourth day, when the boss came back from a business trip, Xiao Wang handed over a carefully designed web page. When the boss asked him if it was the masterpiece of the foreign player, he told the matter in full swing. The boss immediately gave him a thumbs up and praised him as a young man with great prospects.
is visible. We should not always be afraid of pressure. Appropriate pressure will allow us to better realize our potential. If you put a little pressure on yourself every day, you will feel your importance and realize more potential. As a philosopher once said, the less you ask for, the less you get.
uses the opponent to "dink" yourself, making you stronger, horses from jogging to fast running, because of horse flies biting. So, what does our personal development need to "bite" from weak to strong? Facts have proved that when there are competitors "biting", people can often maintain a strong momentum, ultimately allowing themselves to grow stronger and accelerate their progress. In a big city in the north, after fierce market competition between open and secrets, many electrical appliance dealers paid a lot of money, two major merchants, Zhao and Wang, stood out, and they became the toughest competitors.
In this year, in order to enhance market competitiveness, Zhao adopted an extremely expanding business strategy, a large number of acquisitions and merged various small enterprises, and developed chain stores in various cities and counties. However, due to mistakes in actual operations, the proportion of credit funds was too large and the operating burden was too heavy, and his market sales performance plummeted.
At this time, many insiders and outsiders reminded Wang that this was the best business opportunity to take the initiative to completely defeat his opponent Zhao in one fell swoop, and then monopolize the city's electrical appliance market. Wang smiled slightly and never accepted the suggestions put forward by everyone. At Zhao's most dangerous time, Wang unexpectedly took the initiative to lend a helping hand and borrowed funds to help Zhao pass the crisis. In the end, Zhao's business conditions improved day by day and kept putting pressure on Wang's business, forcing Wang to face this powerful competitor at once.
Many people have ridiculed the king for his mercifulness and mercy, saying that he is raising a tiger for trouble. But Wang had no regrets at all. He just tried his best to recruit talents everywhere and mobilized his subordinates to work hard and make progress in various ways, and did not dare to slackew for a moment. In this way, Wang and Zhao are both friends and opponents in the fierce market competition. They racked their brains to compete with each other. Both sides suffered losses, but their respective gains were also great. More than 0 years later, Wang and Zhao both became famous local business tycoons. Facing the king whose career is at its peak, when the reporter mentioned his "extraordinary move" back then, Wang Yi looked plain: knocking down an opponent is sometimes simple, but competition without opponents is boring. When a company can grow and grow, we should thank the pressure exerted by our opponents at all times. It is these pressures that turn into motivation to overcome difficulties, which will allow us to always maintain a sense of crisis in the cruel market competition.
That’s right, life requires a certain amount of "inspiration", just like the famous Qiantang tide . The softest and weak water can produce a spectacular scene of "thousands of white horses surge, and thousands of silver mountains are rising one after another".
In fact, everyone is lazy. Without external stimulation or shock, many people will go through a mediocre journey of life in a stable, comfortable and comfortable way, silently, but life is difficult and the world is unpredictable, which brings people all kinds of difficulties and motivation.
Friends turn against each other, their lovers change their minds, and their careers are not going well, which may become a source of spiritual motivation, inspire people to mobilize their potential, do something, and change their life trajectory.For example, when Su Qin failed, she was repeatedly blunt by her parents, wife and sister-in-law, so she worked hard to force herself, hung her beams and thorns, day and night, forgetting to eat and sleep, and finally became a famous scholar, and was distinguished by the six countries, which was once prominent and powerful. Although Pu Songling
, although he was full of knowledge, he failed many trials and was poor and destitute. He was angry and inspired himself to write books and write stories. He used his lifelong learning to condense "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio". He also joined the ranks of literary masters and became a famous person for all ages.
Therefore, if we want to succeed, we must learn to actively accept external motivation and turn pressure into motivation, so that our mental strength can be maximized and our lives will become more magnificent.
Author of this article: Chaoyu, a writer who keeps walking, has been on the road.
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