Hope effect, also known as the goal effect, means that a person with hope and goals will have a stronger ability to survive in adversity and will have a more exciting life.
For the effect of hope (target) , psychologist What do you want ? After analyzing the questionnaire, it was found that , The more hopes, the more (regardless of size) often lives more fulfillingly And happiness, usually shows intensive , and the probability of success is also greater; and those who have no or have less hope , , often show indifference, pessimism, depression. where 1 rich rich 1 1 1 ' ' I have no hope, all hopes have met . ” It turns out that This rich man suffered from severe depression symptom , and his career has also begun to decline . Later, psychologist guide he cultivates new life goals, and lists staged plan tables, such as training for grandchildren, support for a certain football club, etc. After a period of time, the rich man is completely different in in terms of psychology and behavior.
The greatest misfortune in the world is to deprive a person of hope of living;
And a person's greatest happiness is to live in beautiful hopes and longings every day.
Once upon a time, there was a blind father and son who depended on each other and survived by playing the piano and performing skills every day.
One day, my father finally couldn't hold on and fell ill. He knew that he would die soon, so he called his son to the head of the bed, held his son's hand tightly, and said with difficulty: Child, I have a secret recipe here, this secret recipe can make you see the light again. I hid it in the piano, but remember that you must take it out when you break the first thousand strings, otherwise you will not see the light. The son agreed to his father with tears in his eyes. The father left with a smile.
The son remembered his father's will in his heart. Day after day, year after year, he kept playing and playing. His piano skills became more and more exquisite and his reputation became greater and greater, and he gradually became a famous master. When he finally broke the first thousand strings, the weak boy back then had become an old man who had experienced many vicissitudes. He couldn't control his inner joy, his hands trembled, slowly opened the piano box, took out the secret recipe, and let the people next to him read it to him.
However, the person next to him told him that it was just an ordinary piece of white paper with nothing on it.
Tears fell on the paper one by one, and the old man smiled gratefully — His heart was already shining brightly.
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