We are surprised and even incredible when a female teacher was abused by her husband in an online class, but this kind of person with psychological abnormalities (perverts) is likely to exist around us.
November 23, a video of a middle school teacher suspected of being abused during online classes attracted attention. The video shows that when a woman is facing the camera on the balcony of her home, a man suddenly rushed into the screen. After a dispute between the two sides, the woman was strangled by the man. Soon the two left the camera while pulling, and then bursts of screams were heard.
It is reported that the woman in the video was a high school teacher. She was taking online classes at the time and was suddenly pinched away. Some students reported that our teacher said that this was his Nth domestic violence, and the students called the police at that time.
Afterwards, the reporter verified that the cause of the domestic violence was that the teacher’s husband asked him if he had eaten. The teacher ignored the other party, and then the scene of taking action appeared.
Then the reporter was told that the matter was a family dispute, and the police also mediated on the spot. Now the two have mediated.
Regarding this matter, I think it is very necessary to discuss it from a psychological perspective.
In the category of perverted psychology, there are four criteria for judging psychological abnormalities or abnormalities: one is dysfunction, the second is pain, the third is abnormal, and the fourth is danger.
Dysfunction refers to the fact that behaviors, thoughts and feelings seriously affect our daily lives, we cannot work properly or have the ability to establish intimate relationships.
Pain means that behavior or thoughts cause pain to yourself and others, such as long-term lying, stealing or violence.
abnormality refers to what should not happen normally and the result is that. For example, things that shouldn't be angry or not, but end up being angry, etc.
Danger means that some behaviors are potentially harmful to oneself or others, and are often manifested as various extreme behaviors. Such as suicide or attacking others, including force and verbal attacks.
According to the above four criteria, the husband in the event obviously has the characteristics of psychopathy (abnormal) and extremely requires psychological intervention. Of course, excessive behavior caused by intensification of both parties in specific situations is not ruled out. What type of psychological abnormality does the party involved in the
event also require a specific diagnosis on the spot. But according to the reason for the interview in the video, the husband asked his wife if she had eaten and did not receive a timely reply, so he fought. This is suspected of having borderline personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder.
What we are important to say is that such people with psychological abnormalities (perversions) are often hidden deep in our lives and are ignored by people.
Sometimes, even if various psychological abnormalities are exposed in life, such as frequent impulses, unusually sudden irritability, etc., few people pay attention, and they will not take the initiative to seek professional help for improvement.
Like this example today, domestic violence occurred in front of all students in online classes and alarmed the police, but the result was only considered a simple "family dispute" and was hasty.
The matter ends with reconciliation between the two parties, but if they do not realize that this situation is a serious psychological abnormality, then such a thing will inevitably happen again in their future lives and be hurt again (in this incident, the students reported that the teacher was subjected to domestic violence many times). The reminder to everyone is that if you find yourself, your spouse, relatives or friends in your life, you have such psychological abnormalities (perversions) (refer to the four criteria mentioned above), you can appropriately remind and conduct psychological intervention to improve.
If you are close to someone, you must pay attention to it. If the relationship is far apart, you should also pay attention to consciously avoiding possible conflicts with him when interacting with him, so as to avoid excessive behavior and cause bad consequences.
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