saw a news today, saying that there was a 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou, Henan. At first, the parents saw that the child became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that there was a physical problem. However, after going to Children's Hospital for , the child's indicators were normal. Later, the parents found a psychologist to consult.
During the conversation, the doctor found that when the child heard his parents telling the situation at home recently, his expression and attention were particularly concentrated. After some communication, the child told the doctor that he had heard his parents discussing that there was something wrong at home before. He was very worried and did not dare to say it out loud, so he kept pressing his heart. In order to open the knot in the child's heart, the doctor taught the parents to act in a drama that would solve the problem quickly. Unexpectedly, the child gradually relaxed and his personality gradually became cheerful after learning about it.
After reading this news, I want to say that this kid is so sensible that it makes people feel distressed. In clinical practice, I often meet students who come to see the doctor alone. They dare not tell their family the reasons. In addition to the situation that their family does not understand, they are more afraid of their family worrying and causing burden on their family.
Here I would also like to remind parents to pay attention to the atmosphere of family life. Although the children are still young and cannot understand the work of parents, they are very sensitive to adult emotions. If parents are depressed, or quarrel or even family violence against , it will cause great mental harm to the children.
If there is any downside at work, try to relieve stress outside and leave a relaxed smile for the child.
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