All human civilization is developed based on inferiority complex.
Inferiority complex is the source of power for human development.
Only when human beings realize their ignorance, will they strive for a change in fate.
Inferiority complex is the source of motivation for 's personal progress.
Human behavior stems from inferiority complex and the overcoming and transcendence of inferiority complex.
Only when we truly understand our own potential shadows and defects, break the shackles of inferiority, and turn inferiority into motivation, can we treat life correctly and surpass ourselves.
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, published in "Inferiority Complex and Transcendence in 1933"Best-selling for more than 80 years, after years of precipitation, it has become more and more brilliant.
author Adler is recognized as the founder of individual psychology, the father of modern self-psychology, and the pioneer of humanistic psychology.
He is also a student of Freud , and Freud and Jung are called the twentieth century 20strongspan 8span_span_span_span_span_span_span 10 Psychoanalysis .
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His imperfect philosophy, the way of life, and the understanding of human nature,Go deep into every person, every life, every story, and reflect the true human nature.
"Inferiority and Transcendence" is simple, easy and simple. It vividly describes the various manifestations of inferiority and the ways to overcome it, and transforms it into a motivation to surpass oneself and achieve goals. In terms of readability.
Great ideas come from life and lead life.
Let us follow the line of Adler's thoughts and wisdom, re-recognize ourselves, and learn how to co-exist and co-prosperity with inferiority in life, and absorb imperfect power.
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"Why do people live?"
"the meaning of life what is?"
Objectively speaking, people will only ask such questions when they encounter setbacks.
If life is smooth and smooth,If you don't experience hard trials, you won't have this kind of thinking.
Basically, all the problems we encounter in our life fall into three categories: professional problems, social problems and gender problems.
If a person has unsatisfactory love, unsatisfactory work, and has no friends in life, he will feel that being alive is painful and full of frustration, and thus shuts himself up.
On the other hand, if a person loves sweetly, pays more attention to his career, and enjoys his life, he will have more energy and joy in his life. Others, contribute to society.
From this, Adler puts forward his point: The meaning of life is dedication, and makes judgments based on results rather than motivation.
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Some people will say: I suffered so much in my childhood.You have not experienced it, and you are not qualified to talk about me.
Adler pointedly pointed out: everyone’s experience belongs to external factors , and our interpretation of life experience cannot determine the success of life. Destiny of internal factors .
If we do not change our thinking, our behavior will also stagnate.
Some people are born with defects . He even formed a wrong attitude towards life and imprisoned himself in a closed self-world.
In fact, there are many great inventions in the world, created by people with physical defects, such as Beethoven, Hawking and so on.
Some have been doted since childhood ,They are spoiled for nothing and get what they want, forming the habit of "only ask for, don't ask for giving".
Once they are separated from their parents and no longer become the focus of the crowd, they will be at a loss, and even become rebellious, flattering, vicious, and revenge on society.
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Some people who have suffered from the cold or abuse when they were young are more likely to be cold or abused. Difficulty, more likely to feel social indifference.
The lack of care and care since childhood makes these people lack the trust in getting along with others and the interest in interacting with others.
Birth defects, overspoiling, and neglect-these three situations are the easiest to make people give life wrong meaning _strong23 spanstrong23.
They need help from others to correct the problem and find a better meaning in life.
Some people may say: The country is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change.
But in fact, it's not hard to change by nature, but people did not find the correct solution .
Adler pointed out that they should cultivate their sense of cooperation as soon as possible, encourage them to take responsibility, and guide them to be willing to give.
Only when a person understands that the meaning of life lies in dedication, will he be brave enough to face difficulties and be closer to success.
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The expression of a strong sense of inferiority and submissiveness does not necessarily have a strong sense of inferiority and submissiveness.
Everyone has a sense of inferiority more or less, because each of us is not a perfect person .
When we encounter unsolvable problems, inferiority complex will manifest itself in the form of anger, apology, helplessness, sadness, etc.
The most extreme behavior, even through the suicide of to avoid shrinking and to push responsibility outside.
If we indulge in the false superiority of self-comfort, we cannot change the status quo, and the pressure of inferiority complex is increasing day by day.
On the contrary, if we are full of confidence in ourselves, strive to change the status quo and pursue transcendence, we can gradually relieve the pressure of inferiority complex.
Therefore, Adler pointed out, Human inferiority complex is a normal phenomenon, and it is an incentive for us to change our disadvantaged situation and constantly pursue transcendence .
The pursuit of superiority is human instinct, it is the source of our contribution to society.
Life is so short and the body is so fragile, each of us does not have the absolute superiority to completely dominate everything around us.
So, we have to struggle through , to the pursuit of superiority;
But we only cooperation by , There is hope and value through struggle.
If we link the pursuit of superiority with the sense of social responsibility,Using their respective strengths for win-win cooperation and complementary advantages will create greater life value and achieve a higher meaning in life.
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"Inferiority and Transcendence" is different from Adler's other works. This book focuses more on the discussion of opinions rather than on specific methods of solving problems.
It analyzes the complex inducements of human inferiority complex with rich examples and careful analysis. For example:
About early memory : It reminds us of our own shortcomings and painful experiences all the time like a shadow.
About dreams : Dreams are the bridge between reality and lifestyle,We only dream when we are at a loss and under pressure. The task of dreams is to deal with problems and provide solutions.
About the native family : the mother’s incompetence, the father’s excessive love for the second child, the father’s too strict family environment... The confrontation and discordant factors will accompany and affect the child's life.
About the school : Whether a person’s mistakes in the native family will continue, the key depends on the future guardian of mankind-teachers, their contribution is immeasurable.
About love and marriage : This is not the instinctive impulse of human beings to reproduce offspring. A person who only cares about his own interests does not deserve to have love and marriage. Love and marriage will be happy.
The meaning of past experience is not a bondage, but how we give it meaning.
The meaning of life is not inferiority complex and isolation.It's how we really stand up after the fall.
The answer lies in Adler's "Inferiority and Transcendence" .
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