Birth, old age, sickness and death are an inherent natural law, and no one can violate it. But some people are inevitably looking for the secrets of immortality in order to live forever. Among them, Qin Shihuang In order to make themselves live for a hundred years, they sent people to refine pills at all costs. However, they failed in the end, but instead killed their lives because they accidentally ate poison.
can be seen that the saying of immortality is just a fool. In the vast universe, it is only a matter of time before a person dies. When it comes to life and death, when facing the death of our relatives, we are not afraid of their departure. Instead, we are taboo about what they used during their lifetime, especially the beds that the dead slept in before their lifetime.
So, why can't you sleep in the bed that a dead person slept before his life? Some people say it is because of feudal superstition, while others don’t think so. However, those who know the truth know that this is not superstition. The closer they are, the more they should avoid
Traditional burial ceremony
Funeral culture is an important part of our country’s culture, which is very particular about dying. Before the death of a relative, relatives should wear new clothes for him, not wearing old clothes or walking naked. This is the last respect for relatives. and also clean up the items used by the deceased and clean the houses they have lived in.
In addition, the deceased will need to be kept for at least three days, which is what the relatives hope that the deceased will be resurrected. At the same time, during the period of stopping the coffin, not only should the relatives be informed of the death of the deceased, but also the villagers with relatives in the village, so that they can come together to send the deceased on their last journey, and also choose a suitable time for the burial ceremony and invite professionals to report the death.
However, different places have different rituals, such as Manchu nomadic people. If they see a large banner erecting in front of the tent of a family on the grassland, they will know which family has died. Everyone will come to pay their respects and help with the funeral. During the burial ceremony, the deceased's coffin will be buried in the land, and relatives will cry to put the deceased in peace.
Crying is a major feature of our country's funeral customs. The volume of crying is very important. If there is no crying that resounds throughout the world on the road to burying the dead, it will become a laughing stock within a radius of ten miles, and will be scolded for being filial, disrespectful to the dead, and is ruthless, and it is difficult to tolerate the laws of heaven. After the arrangements for
burial matters are made, a soul-summoning ceremony will be held. On that day, people usually hang soul silk on high places in order to allow the souls of the deceased to recognize the way home. During festivals, relatives set off firecrackers and burn some paper money to let the deceased live a good life in another place.
However, clothes, quilts and other things used by the deceased will be burned, But some heavy things cannot be burned, such as the bed. Some people will keep them in that room, but they will not use it again. Even the elders at home will deliberately say that they must not sleep in the deceased's bed. Why is this?
Can't sleep with the dead's bed, avoid seeing things and thinking about people,
Burn the clothes and other things of the deceased's life. In fact, I hope that these things can go with the dead and continue to accompany the deceased in another world. Although it sounds a bit feudal superstitious, for the living, this is also a kind of spiritual comfort, and there are other purposes.
The deceased has passed away, but the traces left in the world cannot be erased. For the closest relatives, all this seems to be still in front of their own eyes, and memories will surge in waves in their minds. If the objects of the deceased before his death are kept, it will only make people more depressed and painful, and they will never be able to let go. In severe cases, it will have a certain psychological impact on people and will also get psychological illness.
However, in the past, people's lives were too barren. After their relatives passed away, they would choose to leave clothes to wear. However, with the improvement of living conditions, people no longer worry about dressing and eating. Therefore, burning them is the best choice when dealing with the clothes of the deceased. not only that, but also gets out of sadness while remembering the dead.
Once a person dies, he cannot be resurrected. However, in traditional customs, he cannot sleep in the bed that the dead slept before his life, in order to avoid the deceased's relatives looking at things and thinking about others. If you always live in memories with the dead, it will not only prevent the dead from resting in the heavenly spirit, but will also affect your own emotional and physical health. Therefore, in order to avoid excessive grief in the living, there is a saying that the dead cannot sleep in the bed that the dead slept before their death.
cannot sleep on the bed of the dead, avoiding bacterial invasion
cannot sleep on the bed of the dead, and another reason is to avoid bacterial invasion. Whether the deceased dies or dies normally, it is caused by the decline of the body's immunity, which causes the pathogen to invade and stay in the bed where the deceased slept. But the bed is too bulky and it is difficult to burn, so people will choose to stay.
But this bed cannot sleep, for fear that will have secondary infection with bacteria, which will lead to recurrence of patients or disasters. However, now that medicine is developed, people will disinfect the things used by the deceased and then keep them as a commemoration, which can also block the invasion of bacteria.
However, in the feudal society, there was no disinfection equipment, and people did not have this concept. , because of the hard life, many people could only sleep in the bed of the dead, resulting in the invasion of bacteria, resulting in bad conditions or bad luck, which made people always taboo to sleep in the bed of the dead.
In fact, this is also a kind warning from the ancients, allowing us to avoid detours. Although technical problems are easy to solve for today's technology, only human feelings and customs have their rationality. Moreover, physical disinfection and isolation are also very easy to deal with at present, but you must also know how to avoid some taboos.
Conclusion
Facing the death of relatives, we must adjust our mindset. Especially some children working outside, they often feel sad and guilty when seeing the objects of the deceased during their lifetime, and their psychological guilt will become increasingly serious, regretting that they did not spend time with them and were unable to be filial to them.
has been deeply trapped in grief. This not only makes one's psychological problems, but also makes the deceased unable to rest in peace. Therefore, even in order to let them rest in peace in another world, we must strive to get ourselves out of the sadness and live a good life. This is a good way to let the deceased let go.
People are inherently dying. We must not only face this natural law, but also learn to say goodbye to the dead with an optimistic attitude. As long as we cherish the memories from them deep in our hearts, we will not be separated from them. More importantly, we must continue to move forward with the hopes and instructions of the deceased.
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