The last part of the Doudou trilogy, " The Red Dust ", is a sentence that people repeat repeatedly. It is what Ye Zi Nong said to Luo Jiaming: " cannot follow the path of ".
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These four words made Luo Jiaming invest all his wealth in Russia's oil business, which eventually led to bankruptcy and suicide.
Lao Jiu, another restaurant owner in the United States, after hearing these four words, he also wanted to find out what they meant. Ever since he followed Luo Jiaming's wife to Germany to find leaf farmers to help pay off their debts, they have been looking for opportunities to ask leaf farmers what these four words mean, and even went all the way from the United States to China to ask leaf farmers for advice.
Before hearing these four words, most of the time our behavior was more of a herd behavior.
as in France As written in the famous social psychology book "The Crowd: A Study of Popular Psychology" written by social psychologist Le Bon, when an individual is an isolated individual, he will have his own distinctive individual characteristics, but when we integrate into the group, all our individuality will be submerged by the group, and our ideas will immediately be replaced by the group's ideas. What follows is the emergence of characteristics such as emotionality, non-objection, and low IQ.
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Traffic lights are an example that we come into contact with every day. When we are alone at an intersection waiting for a traffic light, we will constrain ourselves according to the rule of "stop on red light, go on green light". When a group of people are at a traffic light intersection, the red light time is relatively long, and when people continue to pass through the red light, more and more people will follow this behavior. This is an example of how when we integrate into a group, our previous individuality is submerged by the group, and our own thoughts will be replaced by group thinking.
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And when Luo Jiaming heard "See After these four words, you will go to the other extreme. You will think that it is not good to follow everyone else's approach and your behavior is very stupid. Then you will change to a different approach from others. You may also feel that this idea coincides with the differentiation mentioned in marketing. If we don't follow the path of differentiation, how can others remember us? How can we succeed if we don't follow the path of differentiation?
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This approach can easily remind us of being repeatedly nagged by our parents, "You are stubborn, I told you to do this." "You want to go against me, right?"
In addition to the above two methods, or is it true that Luo Jiaming understands what Ye Zi Nong said about "not taking the path that others are taking?" Do we want to take a different path than others?
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Ye Zinong's words of "seeing the road without taking it" are to remind Luo Jiaming, Don't think about being a master, and let Luo Jiaming be an honest person, do honest things , seek truth from facts do things. Do things according to the possibility of conditions, work hard on the cause of everything, and if the relevant conditions are done well, it is possible, or with a high probability, to get the desired results.
Each condition is limited to using , which will have its own boundaries. For example, we often say that we have a dream, and if we earn enough 10 million in this life, we will be satisfied. Do you want this to work? If it works, then you can think more, think 100 million, 10 billion. Then you will become someone who others say has a successful life. Think about it calmly, is this possible? It seems that it is quite difficult to earn 10 million. And if we haven’t even thought about it, how can we possibly do it? There seems to be a contradiction here, because I want to only use what I want, and each condition is only used for this condition and not for other uses.
God will not reward you because of your silent efforts, nor will God reward you just because all sentient beings are sincere. The possibility of the condition is to make it possible to think about it, and to make it possible . If we think about it, but the conditions are impossible, it is just greedy to think about a penny. As long as the conditions are possible, it's normal to do whatever you want. For example, it is normal for Wang Jianlin to have a small goal of 100 million, but when it comes to us ordinary people, the element of greed will be greater.
It can be seen from this example that the possibility of conditions needs to be analyzed based on our own resources to see whether we can implement it. Our own resources include all the resources we own and we can mobilize. Only if we can achieve this condition, we will most likely be able to get the corresponding result .
Seeing the road but not walking is "Seeing the road is not the road, that is, seeing the cause and effect". This sentence draws on the Buddhist saying "Seeing the form but not the form, that is seeing the Tathagata ". The road here is not the road where vehicles travel on the road, but the experience and methods of successful people . What are these experiences and methods used for? is used for learning, imitating, and referring to . However, there are flaws in , and there are loopholes in , because the experience of a successful person is the possibility of his condition. We cannot completely copy his condition . If we can completely copy it, it will not be our life, but his life. Failure to follow the path reminds us not to stick to experience and dogma when doing things , but to follow cause and effect . Only cause and effect is the ultimate and seamless.
is not about doing something different from others, nor is it about doing the same thing as others. does not use sameness and difference as the judgment standard, but is based on its own conditions and the possibility of its own conditions as the judgment standard .
For example, the noodles that we often eat are delicious. Many people say that noodles made by hand are delicious, and many people think that noodles made by machines are delicious. If you say that hand-made noodles taste better than machine noodles, it is a dogma based on your own experience, and it is also very effective. However, this judgment is flawed and does not observe the reality behind it. The delicious reality is the softness and hardness of the noodles, the thickness, thickness, width, and structure of the noodles, etc. Condition , as long as these conditions for delicious noodles are met, whether it is machine or manual, you will get delicious results. If you are operating a large-scale chain store, the machine method has advantages in terms of output, cost and quality stability.
If your thinking is bound to the dogma that hand-made noodles taste better than machine noodles, it will be more difficult for delicious noodles to achieve a large market. After all, personal experience replication is unstable in terms of output, cost, and quality control.
