Self-touching maternal love continues its inheritance. Many parents have not realized that
Some time ago, a female student was recording a video at home. In the video, the mother was making a delicacy called "Pink Sword" for her family, which looked very warm, but the girl said: is nothing unexpected, and the whole family is going to be scolded again.
The reason is that this kind of food is very troublesome to make, and no one at home knows it, so my mother can only work on her own. Every time I finish , I feel very tired, and then I will let it go and complain and scold people naturally.
Although the student has repeatedly said he should not make it or not eat it, his mother and family liked it and insisted on doing it. He was very tired after finishing it, and then he blamed his family and went on and on.
In fact, when I saw this video, I remembered the popular "mango mother's love" some time ago. This kind of fruit is not cheap for ordinary families. Anyway, it is definitely not a fruit that I eat every day. A parent bought it for the student and cut it out. and also said, "Mango flesh is all for children, I only deserve to eat mango cores."
And it is this sentence that triggered discussions on self-touching maternal love. What is self-moving maternal love? In short, parents sacrifice themselves to give the good things to their students, and then sigh that they are so great. or some parents often complain about the students, and you are not obedient for you.
In fact, we have heard this from parents since childhood. For the post-80s and 90s, there is nothing wrong with the post-80s and 90s. Even after becoming a parent, they have continued to inherit such behaviors. , but for post-00s students, this kind of dedication brings greater pressure , and many parents have not realized it.
"Don't do it if you feel tired." Students born in the 2000s do not buy it. We took the first case analysis. Many students born in the 2000s said they did not understand. Since they feel tired, don't do it. If you are willing to do it, you will lose your temper after doing it, why bother ? Making difficult food is just a microcosm of self-touching efforts. Many students may have encountered it. Parents have a particularly bad temper when cooking for themselves or cleaning up their own food. Many students think, since they really don’t want to do it, you can stop doing it, why do you complain while doing it?
In fact, I personally think this situation is not very good, and it is not very "self-touched". Instead, parents who complain about food, clothing and supplies, and who complain about students after providing better living conditions and resources.
For example, eating mangoes is actually not much more expensive. is more educational than eating meat for children and eating kernels by themselves, and sharing them together with the whole family . Every time parents do this, they will only instill two concepts into students. The first is that my family’s conditions are really bad, which triggers students’ inferiority complex. They will focus on money in interpersonal communication.
The second is that students have subconsciously rejected eating mangoes from now on, because every time they eat this kind of food, parents will tell students that this kind of thing is very expensive, and they are reluctant to eat it themselves, which puts greater pressure on students . In fact, have parents ever thought that students may not like to eat it very much. If it really exceeds the purchasing power of the family, you can do not buy it at all. Since it is better to share the reality of the whole family, it can also allow students to experience a harmonious family atmosphere.
Self-touching maternal love is actually not bought into this generation of students. students grew up in an era of material richness and cannot experience the sentiment of who can only eat one bite of rice . In fact, most families are in good economic conditions now, and there is no phenomenon of going bankrupt if they eat one bite. This is probably the reason why students born in the 2000s cannot accept this kind of self-touching dedication.
Parents' self-moving education is easy to have negative impacts
Nowadays students are more selfish and are selfish under the spoiling of their parents. Every time parents dote on them, they will only lose their value more easily in the eyes of students. students will regard the efforts of their parents as cheap, and constantly ask for , thinking that parents' efforts are just right.
Doing so will not only become cheap labor, but also lose yourself for the sake of the family, but students will also develop an overly selfish personality and feel that everything must be centered on themselves.
When getting along with others, because parents repeatedly remind each other, students' view of money may be incorrect, and may be overly vain because of their inner inferiority complex and unconsciously comparing with others.
So parents' education has an important impact on students' growth. Each generation of students is in different environments and has different ways of thinking. Parents' education should also keep pace with the times and don't put pressure on students with self-touching.
Today’s topic: How do you view parents’ self-touching dedication?
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